FabSwingers.com forum: Vile person amongst us!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yesterday I was left appalled by the behaviour of an individual - friends of mine have been receiving messages with personal details on and threats not to attended planned events.

What is this site coming to?!?!

And do people really think by deleting a profile they're untraceable?

I genuinely hope my friends make this a police matter and whoever the person is gets caught because this sort of behaviour is disgusting.

Site for likeminded adults? And the occasional piece of scum who is dumb to the power of the law and the capabilities of investigators.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

harrassment and threatening behaviour is illegal and people who believe they can hide behind a screen/keyboard are very wrong indeed. Would definitely encourage anyone in the receiving end of such behaviour to contact the police xx

Some very sad individuals around unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well I for one will push them to contact the police because it really is unacceptable.

It's rather childish hiding behind fake profiles too... Not that they won't get caught.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Bloody hell what is this site coming too! It's supposed to be about fun and enjoying time in each others company. Not threatening behaviour.

Live and let bloody live!! If you don't like each other then just stay out of each others way!

Plenty of us aren't each others cup of tea but still manage to be in the same rooms/events/clubs without it become nasty!!

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

"Bloody hell what is this site coming too! It's supposed to be about fun and enjoying time in each others company. Not threatening behaviour.

Live and let bloody live!! If you don't like each other then just stay out of each others way!

Plenty of us aren't each others cup of tea but still manage to be in the same rooms/events/clubs without it become nasty!!"

Totally agree and this has been going on to long on the site and spoils it for everyone as people then start to panic and leave the site as many have done in the past and if you don't like someone just keep away from them and block them it's that easy it's not rocket science and if you listen to others that don't like certain people and you have never met them and you go on their say so and block them then that's also bad as just because someone you know doesn't like certain people as you never know they might be the person you'll end up being very good fronds with tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not be blackmailed into not attending the Cardiff social I will be there regardless. if people don't like it stay the fuck away simple !! I have spoken to my brother this morning and he is also going to the police he is not amused that these vile people have threatened to send my pics to his home and works he said pics of me would do nothing for him but your quite welcome to send pics of yourselves for him to perve over ps lady's only

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By *he mistressWoman
over a year ago

The valleys

The abuse I've had is terrible but I can hold my own. I choose not to show my pics and verifications but very much real. A friend of mine deleted his account last night because a lady threatened him to put his pics all over fb shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here we go again, why don't people just get themselves a life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And now this is making me think is this site worth it anymore

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"And now this is making me think is this site worth it anymore "

See this is what happens!!

It's a minority spoiling it for the majority!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I know snow

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By *urvacious_40Woman
over a year ago

Pontypool, South Wales, UK

I had threats a little while back threatening to come and find where I live, rape me repeatedly and set my body alight and why ? Because I didn't reply to their msg! Not much freaks me out but that sure did

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

"And now this is making me think is this site worth it anymore

See this is what happens!!

It's a minority spoiling it for the majority!!"

Yes totally agree with you 100%

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"And now this is making me think is this site worth it anymore

See this is what happens!!

It's a minority spoiling it for the majority!!

Yes totally agree with you 100%

Need something productive to do with their time that's the problem!

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By *antgetenough33Man
over a year ago

Newport'

I was "pushed" out of job because some arsehole I worked with found my profile and pics on another well known site . It played a big part in why I moved away from Newport . This kind of behaviour is just pure 100% scumbaggery

should definitely get the authorities involved .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will not be blackmailed into not attending the Cardiff social I will be there regardless. if people don't like it stay the fuck away simple !! I have spoken to my brother this morning and he is also going to the police he is not amused that these vile people have threatened to send my pics to his home and works he said pics of me would do nothing for him but your quite welcome to send pics of yourselves for him to perve over ps lady's only

I am so glad that you are not letting the sad few on here win.

I do hope you go to the police and the person or persons doing this will be caught and then dealt with accordingly.

Looking forward to seeing you on the 23rd. Free B n B at mine if needed

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Waaah I'm amazed I thought I was the only one who been cyber bullied on here trying to black mail me and come and fight me

Told them carry on blackmailing me cause ur just gonna waste ur time and u won't get nothing out of it and if u wanna fight no problem u tell me a date and time or u can find me here and their

After few weeks they stopped

Silly illetirate fools I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The abuse I've had is terrible but I can hold my own. I choose not to show my pics and verifications but very much real. A friend of mine deleted his account last night because a lady threatened him to put his pics all over fb shocking "

This is why I deleted my old account. Quite tempted to walk again tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a better note I have made a few very good friends on here and if I decide Fab isnt for me any more I would still keep in touch with them and meet up socially.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's awful. We have been lucky not to have any messages like that but if we did I would go to the police. If people do post pictures, would they be done under the new revenge porn laws? Even if they didn't actually take the pictures, surely distributing them would be illegal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's awful. We have been lucky not to have any messages like that but if we did I would go to the police. If people do post pictures, would they be done under the new revenge porn laws? Even if they didn't actually take the pictures, surely distributing them would be illegal. "

Yes spoke to the police today and yes they will be done under the new porn laws if caught

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Admin takethreats like this very seriously. I appreciate people have said some profiles were deleted but for the ones that were not please report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Admin takethreats like this very seriously. I appreciate people have said some profiles were deleted but for the ones that were not please report"

This is the point though. They set up new profile just to send abusive mail and then delete profile.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"Admin takethreats like this very seriously. I appreciate people have said some profiles were deleted but for the ones that were not please report

This is the point though. They set up new profile just to send abusive mail and then delete profile."

I said I appreciated that, but for the people who don't delete please report them. OR, if you have an idea of who you think it might be, send those concerns by reporting the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has to be one of the lowest forms of bullying ir whatever you want to call it

Like what's been said above if there's people here you don't like / get along with well as adult just ignore and go about your own time here

I have had a few dealings here some different to others but just carry on with my own business

And leave these saddos to it

Hope you get it sorted my lovelies xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Here we go again, why don't people just get themselves a life x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the admins can't do anything, I'm personally tied in with a cyber PI whom I've used in the past, managed to get their phone number, address, email and even face pics.. Lead to a successful prosecution.. If you would like these details, please message me, he's got a brilliant record of successful prosecutions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can even trace thrown away sim card conversations via the phone providers, I'm currently using him now for a couple of plebs here in Pembroke Dock

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes spoke to the police today and yes they will be done under the new porn laws if caught

So glad you've taken this where it needed to go.

Now let's sit back and see justice served.

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By *ojomojo79Woman
over a year ago

Swansea ish

this is vile! only ever had one person tell me I was c*** and i would never get meets on here!! what is wrong with people?? The problem is that is free to a certain level and that allows that element to get in! If they had to pay from the start they wouldnt bother! People do need to seriously get a life. I would settle to not be on here and get a fuck somewhere else but this lifestyle suits me. When I have an itch, fab is there to scrach it for me

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