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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sal at bay.

Why do they do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people think their gods gift and can't take rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bet your gorgeous till the word no is said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least "

Why...your never gonna meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least "

u would think so wouldn't u ..but u take the chance of the person getting all arsey because u said no thanks ...sometimes it's easier just to block ...may sound harsh but I don't want to spend all my time on here explaining why someone ain't what I'm looking for or reading how much of an ugly slut I am ...but that's my opinion xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least "

I am always polite and say no thank you. Then the abuse starts. So now i just block. Learned the hard way xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I bet your gorgeous till the word no is said "

Wish i was gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least

u would think so wouldn't u ..but u take the chance of the person getting all arsey because u said no thanks ...sometimes it's easier just to block ...may sound harsh but I don't want to spend all my time on here explaining why someone ain't what I'm looking for or reading how much of an ugly slut I am ...but that's my opinion xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people think their gods gift and can't take rejection

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Seems that way. This site is going down hill fast

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is there really any need for the abuse that gets hurled at people when they say they're not interested?

Trying to keep my inner psycho Sal at bay.

Why do they do it?"

Because theres more idiots than genuine chilled guys who think ill make the effort til im rejected, but sadly cant handle rejection. If you arent interested a simple no thanks works when out socialising and it should be the same here.

Most guys see this site as a quick fuck site and its not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I've had a few...

Your stunning and beautiful then when you say no thanks

I become a cunt and allsorts. ..

Just block

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least "

The OP's experience explains clearly why women don't reply mate. They're not lying either - I have a (social) friend on here and she's shown me the messages she gets. Unbelievable, particularly the ones where she has replied with a polite "no". Why take the risk, especially as the initial message they sent seemed ok.

I wouldn't have "got it" without seeing all that - it immediately makes sense.

I know you're probably very polite, but many women would have to have a full time PA. Would you copy and paste "no thanks" into 25 messages a day?

There's a very popular Fab member who said she had 572 messages in her inbox the other day. Sounds impossible, but I wouldn't be surprised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block - saves the drama.

People will say what they wanna say to get what they want and if they don't get it they throw toys out of the pram.

Thankfully that's not the attitude with SOME but just block if they're not what you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block - saves the drama.

People will say what they wanna say to get what they want and if they don't get it they throw toys out of the pram.

Thankfully that's not the attitude with SOME but just block if they're not what you want. "

But it spoils it then for the geniune guys on here xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just block - saves the drama.

People will say what they wanna say to get what they want and if they don't get it they throw toys out of the pram.

Thankfully that's not the attitude with SOME but just block if they're not what you want.

But it spoils it then for the geniune guys on here xx"

Doesn't spoil it, if you're not interested in them just block, or send a polite 'sorry, not for me' then block

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block - saves the drama.

People will say what they wanna say to get what they want and if they don't get it they throw toys out of the pram.

Thankfully that's not the attitude with SOME but just block if they're not what you want.

I have learnt that hun. Thank you for your advice x

But it spoils it then for the geniune guys on here xx

Doesn't spoil it, if you're not interested in them just block, or send a polite 'sorry, not for me' then block "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Just block - saves the drama.

People will say what they wanna say to get what they want and if they don't get it they throw toys out of the pram.

Thankfully that's not the attitude with SOME but just block if they're not what you want.

I have learnt that hun. Thank you for your advice x

But it spoils it then for the geniune guys on here xx

Doesn't spoil it, if you're not interested in them just block, or send a polite 'sorry, not for me' then block "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely reply to msgs cos men rarely read my profile. If they can't be bothered then they don't deserve a reply and once they start with the abuse they are blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least

u would think so wouldn't u ..but u take the chance of the person getting all arsey because u said no thanks ...sometimes it's easier just to block ...may sound harsh but I don't want to spend all my time on here explaining why someone ain't what I'm looking for or reading how much of an ugly slut I am ...but that's my opinion xxx"

Block n move on, we're here for our own fun not to massage the egos of the sad few X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It pees me off if people don't respond to your massage surely it polite to says thanks but no thanks at least

u would think so wouldn't u ..but u take the chance of the person getting all arsey because u said no thanks ...sometimes it's easier just to block ...may sound harsh but I don't want to spend all my time on here explaining why someone ain't what I'm looking for or reading how much of an ugly slut I am ...but that's my opinion xxx

Block n move on, we're here for our own fun not to massage the egos of the sad few X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no idea why these idiots do this and it is best to block them shame there is no way to name and shame them

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

What is this block feature which seems to be so popular around here? LOL. I have never blocked anyone on any site I have been a member. If someone isn't interested, that's fine by me. We all have different likes and dislikes and I'm not out for one thing in mind, such as a fuck and go either. The world doesn't revolve around our sex lives, so a chat about anything under the sun is fine by me, if it's with or without the possibility of sex at any point. I hope the numbers who have blocked me are few and far between too.

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