FabSwingers.com forum: So hard for single genuin guys

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can anyone help me plz .. Im having no luck on here, iv been on here a year now

are there any tips ideas even ,or isit normaly excuse my language SHIT !! for single males on here or are there arsehole people pretending they something they not and ruining it for others ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get out what you put in

Make a decent effort

Attending socials will help you no end in getting yourself known

Whinging on the forums about lack of meets doesnt usually do anyone any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You get out what you put in

Make a decent effort

Attending socials will help you no end in getting yourself known

Whinging on the forums about lack of meets doesnt usually do anyone any favours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help me plz .. Im having no luck on here, iv been on here a year now

are there any tips ideas even ,or isit normaly excuse my language SHIT !! for single males on here or are there arsehole people pretending they something they not and ruining it for others ??"

Noooooooooo way.....

Oh Johnny are you serious?????

I offered for you to come to the singles social friday and even offered you the floor to sleep on in the hotel with no expectations,you never came as your friend let you down.....

I can't believe you have put this when I Tryed to give you advise and help

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea i guess ur right i shall get more involved hopefully that will help thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can anyone help me plz .. Im having no luck on here, iv been on here a year now

are there any tips ideas even ,or isit normaly excuse my language SHIT !! for single males on here or are there arsehole people pretending they something they not and ruining it for others ??

Noooooooooo way.....

Oh Johnny are you serious?????

I offered for you to come to the singles social friday and even offered you the floor to sleep on in the hotel with no expectations,you never came as your friend let you down.....

I can't believe you have put this when I Tryed to give you advise and help

I even messaged you all week when you asked for advice and stuff

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I no miss giggles and i thank u for that realy do..iv put this up only for a little more extra help to hav few more options available ..i wz realy gutted i couldnt attend honestly and very much apriciate the invite .. I shall be attending the next one with out fail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I no miss giggles and i thank u for that realy do..iv put this up only for a little more extra help to hav few more options available ..i wz realy gutted i couldnt attend honestly and very much apriciate the invite .. I shall be attending the next one with out fail "

Everyone is going to tell you the same as I did.

It isn't instashag

Get yourself out there and attend socials

I'm gobsmacked you actually put this up

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Correct me if im wrong but it certainly seems easier for a women on here than single man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yea i guess so then actions speak loader than words is what u mean ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Correct me if im wrong but it certainly seems easier for a women on here than single man "

That's the wonderful world of fab.

However it isn't instashag and men need to put alot more effort if they want meets and stuff.

That's why I advised you to go to a social to get yourself know.

So there is no point In putting up a thread where you have had all the advise given,and a floor to sleep on and I even offered to look after you in chams.

Someone times there is helping anyone.

I won't be commenting again as I just can't believe you have put this up when I and a few others where willing to help you out on Friday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Correct me if im wrong but it certainly seems easier for a women on here than single man

That's the wonderful world of fab.

However it isn't instashag and men need to put alot more effort if they want meets and stuff.

That's why I advised you to go to a social to get yourself know.

So there is no point In putting up a thread where you have had all the advise given,and a floor to sleep on and I even offered to look after you in chams.

Someone times there is helping anyone.

I won't be commenting again as I just can't believe you have put this up when I and a few others where willing to help you out on Friday

And after Friday I'm sorry but I have you down as a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I cant take it down now can i and i appreciated every one who did help iv thanked and notified them that i wasnt going to attend jst u ask spare a little thought tho for remembering first time at some point for everyone isnt easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this little bugga outside of fab...he is a really lovely genuine guy ...

Get your ass to chams and a social babe xx

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By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney

I put zero effort in and I'm beating the ladies off hahahaha. Just kidding (only about the beating them off bit)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks chic yea i will do x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know this little bugga outside of fab...he is a really lovely genuine guy ...

Get your ass to chams and a social babe xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know this little bugga outside of fab...he is a really lovely genuine guy ...

Get your ass to chams and a social babe xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put zero effort in and I'm beating the ladies off hahahaha. Just kidding (only about the beating them off bit)

Trust you

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By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney

"I put zero effort in and I'm beating the ladies off hahahaha. Just kidding (only about the beating them off bit)

Trust you

Never trust me!! Schoolboy error right there haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I cant take it down now can i and i appreciated every one who did help iv thanked and notified them that i wasnt going to attend jst u ask spare a little thought tho for remembering first time at some point for everyone isnt easy "

Just to clarify and back in track...

You were given so much advice last week and offered for people to meet up with you to make you feel comfortable with it being your first social and club experience.

The majority of people in the social like i explained to you where in the same boat as yourself.

And it was their first time.

Everyone was made to feel welcome.

You choose to ignore all the help and advice anyone offered you then put up a thread regarding how hard it is for genuine single guys.

Really???????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I put zero effort in and I'm beating the ladies off hahahaha. Just kidding (only about the beating them off bit)

Trust you

Never trust me!! Schoolboy error right there haha "

I trust no fucker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Speak as I find. Theres a lot of great people on here. And they are very genuine.

But like everything else in life,be careful coz there's a lot of shit here too.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Speak as I find. Theres a lot of great people on here. And they are very genuine.

But like everything else in life,be careful coz there's a lot of shit here too.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Speak as I find. Theres a lot of great people on here. And they are very genuine.

But like everything else in life,be careful coz there's a lot of shit here too.

Hope this helps.

hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hiya. To be honest we're here second time , first time we met two single male and they turned out to not b very honest so we were quite put off by it. There are cpls which will look for a one off meet or cpls which prefer meet more then once so really it's a lottery. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hiya. To be honest we're here second time , first time we met two single male and they turned out to not b very honest so we were quite put off by it. There are cpls which will look for a one off meet or cpls which prefer meet more then once so really it's a lottery. X"

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I don't take it too seriously on here these days and have better luck outside Wales

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By *he Ladies of the ManorCouple
over a year ago

Swansea - Guildford

Who owes you ANYTHING on here ? It's FAB swingers, not FAB guaranteed free fuck for anyone who wants one, off anyone, anywhere, at any time.

This site is a vehicle, and a bloody good vehicle in all fairness, but like any vehicle, you have to drive it to the destination you require ! Driverless cars, like effortless sex, do not yet exist

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Who owes you ANYTHING on here ? It's FAB swingers, not FAB guaranteed free fuck for anyone who wants one, off anyone, anywhere, at any time.

This site is a vehicle, and a bloody good vehicle in all fairness, but like any vehicle, you have to drive it to the destination you require ! Driverless cars, like effortless sex, do not yet exist"

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By *ingAlMan
over a year ago

hereford

I've had no meets on here, had plenty of fun in clubs though

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Correct me if im wrong but it certainly seems easier for a women on here than single man

That's the wonderful world of fab.

However it isn't instashag and men need to put alot more effort if they want meets and stuff.

That's why I advised you to go to a social to get yourself know.

So there is no point In putting up a thread where you have had all the advise given,and a floor to sleep on and I even offered to look after you in chams.

Someone times there is helping anyone.

I won't be commenting again as I just can't believe you have put this up when I and a few others where willing to help you out on Friday

Waaah giggles u helped me around the social and chams as my 1st so helpful and i appreciate wat u have done 4 me but wasn't offered the floor that is I guess unfortunate

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Never been to a social and I've had plenty of meets lol but as others have or will say just be yourself dude it will happen trust me I'm an ugly fucker and I still have meets and met some really nice people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Never been to a social and I've had plenty of meets lol but as others have or will say just be yourself dude it will happen trust me I'm an ugly fucker and I still have meets and met some really nice people "
cheers m8 means alot gos to so whats it is like on male prospective

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

No worries butt , maybe a few things I could suggest but I wouldn't want to give you false hope lol or sound like a total bellend in a forum lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No worries butt , maybe a few things I could suggest but I wouldn't want to give you false hope lol or sound like a total bellend in a forum lol "
drop me a mail m8 more than happy to listen

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

"No worries butt , maybe a few things I could suggest but I wouldn't want to give you false hope lol or sound like a total bellend in a forum lol drop me a mail m8 more than happy to listen"

Blocked males dude

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By *nighthood75Man
over a year ago

Rhondda

Well I know one thing, if I got offered a hotel floor to sleep on with a night out before I'd be there like a shot! Even if it was a night with no sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No worries butt , maybe a few things I could suggest but I wouldn't want to give you false hope lol or sound like a total bellend in a forum lol drop me a mail m8 more than happy to listen

Blocked males dude"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Correct me if im wrong but it certainly seems easier for a women on here than single man "

Quotes likes this isn't guna get you anywhere.

Men outnumber the women stupidly so either get to the socials which you twice now didn't go at the last minute or stop whinging and get on with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think why I got a bit fed up when I seen this.

Was you he had been offered a lot of help and advice but chose not to take any of it.

And you said you have been on over a year...so how long does it actually take to bite the bullet so to speak???

There was a few who Tryed to help you and because you were driving I offered you the hotel floor so you could have a beer to relax.

This type of thread winds me up and to be genuine you need to get out there.

Yep it's alot harder for single guys and it isn't going to be dished out on a plate to you.

Hence why I do the singles social as it's for newbies and for guys with no veris to show you are genuine.

And as for messages saying" I thought you were a nice person"

Yep I actually aim but don't like it when people take the piss when help and advice is given

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think why I got a bit fed up when I seen this.