FabSwingers.com forum: Friends

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sad to see my good friend jade has now left the site due to the fact she feels there is so much tension and back stabbing going on

It's just a shame people are leaving due to the pettiness on here

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By *ires_and_IceCouple
over a year ago

Over the Rainbow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sure is lush

think lots of us feel the same hun

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By *rsbrooksandjohnCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

We 've been on the site for a while now and have noticed more and more bitchyness in the forums and updates people post .

Saying that we wait for the backlash

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's why I don't do anything on my own anymore or do many socials, it's not worth the head work nowadays.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Jade is one of the most friendly persons that I have met on here and i Do a fair bit of travelling

It can be a bit demoralizing on here at times because of peoples attitudes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know me and jade are more like family then mates

It is sad but I feel like this whole site is falling a part with so many people having multiple accounts

You don't know who's real or fake

You don't know who your talking to anymore

I don't feel like I enjoy it on here like I used to a couple of years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If only people would stay with the people they get on with! If you don't like someone, don't winge about it, move on. It seems that some get off on slagging off those who are not their type rather than just accepting we are all different.

It is better to stay silent and have the world think you are an idiot than open your mouth and confirm it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If only people would stay with the people they get on with! If you don't like someone, don't winge about it, move on. It seems that some get off on slagging off those who are not their type rather than just accepting we are all different.

It is better to stay silent and have the world think you are an idiot than open your mouth and confirm it!

This site is so much better when you just get on with your own shit and enjoy what you want to enjoy in the company you want to enjoy it in.

The only time it should get personal is when you're naked with somebody.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is better to stay silent and have the world think you are an idiot than open your mouth and confirm it!

This site is so much better when you just get on with your own shit and enjoy what you want to enjoy in the company you want to enjoy it in.

The only time it should get personal is when you're naked with somebody. "

It's that last paragraph that I can't quite grasp.

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

It's a shame to see this and I don't understand it . Probably best to not get involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame to see this and I don't understand it . Probably best to not get involved "

I keep well out of all the drama on here

Enough in my personal life to worry about

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

"It's a shame to see this and I don't understand it . Probably best to not get involved

I keep well out of all the drama on here

Enough in my personal life to worry about"

same no time for politics and game playing

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By *forbigunMan
over a year ago

here

"I know me and jade are more like family then mates

It is sad but I feel like this whole site is falling a part with so many people having multiple accounts

You don't know who's real or fake

You don't know who your talking to anymore

I don't feel like I enjoy it on here like I used to a couple of years ago

I can vouch that you were like family you do know me this is a new account as I left a while back too just changed name. But I agree it is sad people that have been here a long time because people can't wait to back stab.

Off subject well done passing

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Its very very sad jade is a gem always friendly with everybody, I've noticed someone attacking someone on the forums yesterday morning also

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I know me and jade are more like family then mates

It is sad but I feel like this whole site is falling a part with so many people having multiple accounts

You don't know who's real or fake

You don't know who your talking to anymore

I don't feel like I enjoy it on here like I used to a couple of years ago

Off subject well done passing "

Ermmm thanks

You gonna tell me who you are now ?

It bugs me when people know who I am and I don't know who they are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a shame to see this and I don't understand it . Probably best to not get involved

I keep well out of all the drama on here

Enough in my personal life to worry about"

Same here but people still bring me into their petty fights

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No wonder people are leaving the site

When someone needs to make accounts to threaten people

This site is becoming a dangerous place

Admin need to step up and do something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone is being threatened to a point it makes them afraid then they should involve the police

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How can you report to the police when the people threatening delete the account after messaging you

But when they are sending you your full address its slightly concerning what they intend on doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would imagine they would class it as harrassment

They would more than likely have ways of tracing i.p addresses etc is the threats were deemed to be serious

How they would do that I have no idea

But they probably have specialists who deal with online/cyber crime so I would imagine they have ways of tracing people even after accounts are removed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why people go out of their way to be real nasty on this site dumbfounds me ...what happened to live and let live...people are so consumed with who's meeting who and who said what...it would kinda take the fun out of fab if I was caught up in everybody else's life instead of enjoying mine x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird how people on both sides of a feud are receiving abusive msgs......methinks someone is just out to cause even more shit.

As long as they ALL leave me the fuck out of it then crack on .

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Weird how people on both sides of a feud are receiving abusive msgs......methinks someone is just out to cause even more shit.

As long as they ALL leave me the fuck out of it then crack on ."

It's getting beyond this site is about fun for heaven sakes. To much bloody arguing going on all over the place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Weird how people on both sides of a feud are receiving abusive msgs......methinks someone is just out to cause even more shit.

As long as they ALL leave me the fuck out of it then crack on .

It's getting beyond this site is about fun for heaven sakes. To much bloody arguing going on all over the place"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many control divas on the site nowadays, not in it for the fun, focused on status & seeing espionage wherever they look. Gain some context kids this is a site for adults, right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same here no interest in other peoples gripes. I keep well out of the dramas

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"Weird how people on both sides of a feud are receiving abusive msgs......methinks someone is just out to cause even more shit.

As long as they ALL leave me the fuck out of it then crack on .

It's getting beyond this site is about fun for heaven sakes. To much bloody arguing going on all over the place"
well said

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

And all was so peaceful and happy here the last few months... people shouldn't let a few bad eggs spoil this site, let them wallow in their own narcissistic and petty world. and get back to bumping uglys with each other...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sad to see my good friend jade has now left the site due to the fact she feels there is so much tension and back stabbing going on

It's just a shame people are leaving due to the pettiness on here

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thats gutting she is really a lovely gal xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Too many control divas on the site nowadays, not in it for the fun, focused on status & seeing espionage wherever they look. Gain some context kids this is a site for adults, right?"

Well said Peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Too many control divas on the site nowadays, not in it for the fun, focused on status & seeing espionage wherever they look. Gain some context kids this is a site for adults, right?"

definitely this peachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why can't we all agree to disagree..live and let live ...I'm sure it will make it a far happier playground ....xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's why I don't do anything on my own anymore or do many socials, it's not worth the head work nowadays. "

I can't be arsed with it all.

I pop in now and again have my say and leave.

I'm glad I'm out of the he said she said and keep myself to myself.

Its so much nicer.

And I'm enjoying fab alot more.

If I have a problem I now flfirrctly go to that person and ask then instead of listening to chit chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With giggles on this one .I refuse to get ropped into childish petty arguments , and soo much happier for it and the abusive messages I've been receiving from user no longer on site are in the delete bin where they belong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With giggles on this one .I refuse to get ropped into childish petty arguments , and soo much happier for it and the abusive messages I've been receiving from user no longer on site are in the delete bin where they belong

def agree ...ignore ...delete...block works for me every time xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you get roped in even when it's no else's business

But I will just ignore it's so much easier x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If people just used this site for what it's intended for this place would be amazing.

There is just so much bollox and bitching, hiding behind fake profiles and pretty much being a twat and coward.

It's a swinging website... People really need to stop being childish and start to act like adults.

Don't like somebody? Make it your problem.

Taken offence to somebody for no reason? Wobble your head.

Dislike somebody you've never met? Seek help from a professional.

Don't have a life beyond fab? This is your problem, don't bring your shit on here.

Hands up who has a life beyond here and is just here to have hot sex, hang with like minded folk and cross the paths of those we want to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The fake profiles spoil this site

People dislike me because I tell people what I think and don't need to make fake accounts to do it or to threaten people

I take people as I find them

But some people should practice what they preach and not judge others on other peoples opinions

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"If people just used this site for what it's intended for this place would be amazing.

There is just so much bollox and bitching, hiding behind fake profiles and pretty much being a twat and coward.

It's a swinging website... People really need to stop being childish and start to act like adults.

Don't like somebody? Make it your problem.

Taken offence to somebody for no reason? Wobble your head.

Dislike somebody you've never met? Seek help from a professional.

Don't have a life beyond fab? This is your problem, don't bring your shit on here.

Hands up who has a life beyond here and is just here to have hot sex, hang with like minded folk and cross the paths of those we want to?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over the last couple of years this site has become like Facebook.

Use this site for what it's designed for, and there shouldn't be a problem.

Rant over happy swinging guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear Jade has left. Shes a lovely girl who I had a lot of time for.

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