FabSwingers.com forum: Totally new to this

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Me and my partner have signed up to this after discussing trying a threesome with a girl and also trying a mfm, we are looking for advice and also want to know what your first experience was? My partner blondie is very nervous about it but wants to try it out, I'm looking at this forum for her to read the post and read some people's experiences good or bad and what's best to try first ffm or mfm? Or meet a couple? Thanks guys xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no right or wrong way to do things in a certain order. Do whatever you feel like. Just make sure that you communicate and take things at a pace you're both comfortable with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who ever you meet. Try having a social meet first. Make sure that you all click. There has to mutual attractions between both parties. It will give you a chance to see of the person or people your meeting is truly someone you would like to play with.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Communication is the key, both between you and any potential meets, but also, more importantly, between you both.

Discuss what you want from any meets, talk about your fantasies, you wants, your dislikes, and set your own ground rules. Don't be afraid to hit the pause button on meets if things aren't going the way you want, and don't feel that you have to carry on if one, or both of you, are not happy.

The bottom line is that your relationship is the only thing that should matter, after that, just have fun and enjoy whatever happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Communication is the key, both between you and any potential meets, but also, more importantly, between you both.

The bottom line is that your relationship is the only thing that should matter, after that, just have fun and enjoy whatever happens."

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

You both have to remember that you are in charge and bender to do something you are not comfortable with. Anyone trying to coerse you that way you should avoid x good luck guys x

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

newport

only do things you are comfortable with and always remember no means no and if any disagree with that then send them home or walk away

the most important thing is to have fun

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

Take things at your own pace, everyone is different. We went very slowly for the first year but once we got our confidence there was no stopping us. Never feel pressured to "perform " be yourselves and never take one for the team. It's your game so your rules. Oh and beware.... it's extremely adoptive. Happy swinging x

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

Addictive!!!!! Bloody autocorrect

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By *kip123Man
over a year ago

Barry

Social first or maybe a couple of times if you are new to this life style. As the young lady is nervous (everybody is a little on any meeting) it is up to you Mr to show support and give protection. All people are different. A social meeting shows you what the REAL person is like. Not just in looks but also how they conduct themselves and the respect they have for you both. Take your time and enjoy meeting people . You will know when you are ready to dip your toes and who with.

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