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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not aimed at anyone in particular but noticing so many women feeling the need to get blotto for a meet or a night at Chams. Surely, it can't be safe nor fun to be totally out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. One or two to relax but thats it. If people have to be d*unk to swing prehaps its not for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get it up when I drink!

Hence why I don't drink anymore...

But I agree op slightly dodgy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get hammered lol but not for shagging as I like to be in control otherwise who knows who could take advantage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for people taking advantage of me.. It's the only way I can get laid!

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I get hammered lol but not for shagging as I like to be in control otherwise who knows who could take advantage."

I totally agree with you on this one! It's leaves everyone in very vulnerable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a nice relaxed meet over a beer or two but wouldn't play with somebody if they were steaming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree it is off putting, I used to work as a doorman and the smell on people really puts you off even if they are a 10/10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm useless in drink to play

I've got d*unk in social events but meeting one on one I have a wine or two but that's it

you have to be in control !

I like to know what I'm doing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee normally gets me through but that's just because its my poison. I do admit to having a shot of dutch courage for my first meet with another couple but other than that don't tend to drink much unless its a night out. don't think Taffs even seen me d*unk.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Same here 1 or 2 drinks is fine but I like to remember everything from our meets plus be awake i do have a tendency to crash out when pissed. Even worse go totally wild resulting in that dreaded feeling of regret the next day .

(Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the other way around, I don't drink in vanilla life, only when I'm at a club or swinging event. Gives me confidence sexually

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish

Oh god i dread to think what or who i would end up doing especially at a club or party

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

We like a drink but tend to only have a couple if we are playing, and we prefer whoever we are playing with not to be d*unk, we want them to play because they like us, not because they are so pissed they'd shag a table leg lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As everyone knows I use to get absolutely hammered..

To the point I'd just go home.

Its no fun at all and I've learnt I don't need the drink to give me confidence.

Lucky for me I had friends around who would look after me.

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By *rMrs-Luv-ItCouple
over a year ago

cwmbranish


"We like a drink but tend to only have a couple if we are playing, and we prefer whoever we are playing with not to be d*unk, we want them to play because they like us, not because they are so pissed they'd shag a table leg lol! "

Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us (lady) need a good old fashioned bit of Dutch courage! Can't say I enjoy getting d*unk on these occasions I do like to remember our encounters

To those ladies who do get d*unk, keep your wits about you, stay safe and have fun girlies!

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a guy I need Dutch courage in a lot of situations.

Some amazing people in this site are great at making people feel comfortable. But in a situation with a room full of strangers I would need a drink to get me taking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At my first social I was very nervous so had a few drinks but was in control. Even though I go to sex clubs in London, these are fetish clubs so I feel more at home

I plan on have 2-3 at chams as I really want to remember my first time there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I won't drink if I'm a single in a club or party situation but will drink if I'm with Ch3wy, he doesn't drink & I know he's got my back. As a single female in a Club you definitely need to be aware at all times, I've seen & experienced some shocking things in my time X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I won't drink if I'm a single in a club or party situation but will drink if I'm with Ch3wy, he doesn't drink & I know he's got my back. As a single female in a Club you definitely need to be aware at all times, I've seen & experienced some shocking things in my time X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand it myself

Fine, have a drink or two if you're socialising, and I mean one or two, but, to me, I wouldn't want to play with someone who's d*unk

There's nothing attractive about someone who's slurring their words or not in control of themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't understand it myself

Fine, have a drink or two if you're socialising, and I mean one or two, but, to me, I wouldn't want to play with someone who's d*unk

There's nothing attractive about someone who's slurring their words or not in control of themselves "

Or flat out snoring on the towels in Chams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seen it too many times through the years,watching the same people come in and out of our pubs,you get to know the ones. We used to call it the......... Drink,Fuck,Sleep,Repeat syndrome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't drink as you want to enjoy not feel sick and room spinning x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I won't drink if I'm a single in a club or party situation but will drink if I'm with Ch3wy, he doesn't drink & I know he's got my back. As a single female in a Club you definitely need to be aware at all times, I've seen & experienced some shocking things in my time X"

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By *llNatural36FWoman
over a year ago

Denbighshire

A few drinks is fine but being d*unk is a complete no go, you have to be safe and although there are some lovely people on here there's also some that would take advantage.

For me it's sober play or no play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few drinks is fine but being d*unk is a complete no go, you have to be safe and although there are some lovely people on here there's also some that would take advantage.

For me it's sober play or no play "

Let the tea see the total.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I havent drank in over ten years i used to get howling d*unk and wake up the next morning and think fuck what happened last night, if it hadnt been for spice on a night out the last time i drank god no's what could have happened to me, it was just the wake up call i needed so now no matter where we are or what we are doing i stay sober i still have fun but at least i remember everything that happens

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I prefer a nice cup of coffee or tea!

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