FabSwingers.com forum: Socialising VS Socials

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Which do you prefer? Meeting people (swingers, etc) on a weekend end out or attending socials?

Surprisingly enough I prefer weekend socialising as normally you don't have the lark of having to travel long distances, prices, accommodation, etc...

You'll be surprised who you can meet on a night out!

Thoughts and opinions please. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a single woman I prefer the socials & the after fun that usually takes place. As a couple we prefer to meet n play or do clubs n parties. I'm not likely to pull on a vanilla night out because I'm so shy with my clothes on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As a single woman I prefer the socials & the after fun that usually takes place. As a couple we prefer to meet n play or do clubs n parties. I'm not likely to pull on a vanilla night out because I'm so shy with my clothes on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you prefer? Meeting people (swingers, etc) on a weekend end out or attending socials?

Surprisingly enough I prefer weekend socialising as normally you don't have the lark of having to travel long distances, prices, accommodation, etc...

You'll be surprised who you can meet on a night out!

Thoughts and opinions please. Thanks

Don't really need to be on Fab then do you ... just go out and meet great people down the pub ... enjoy!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you prefer? Meeting people (swingers, etc) on a weekend end out or attending socials?

Surprisingly enough I prefer weekend socialising as normally you don't have the lark of having to travel long distances, prices, accommodation, etc...

You'll be surprised who you can meet on a night out!

Thoughts and opinions please. Thanks

Don't really need to be on Fab then do you ... just go out and meet great people down the pub ... enjoy! "

This thread has nothing to do with fab... OoOoH think someone needs a meet..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you prefer? Meeting people (swingers, etc) on a weekend end out or attending socials?

Surprisingly enough I prefer weekend socialising as normally you don't have the lark of having to travel long distances, prices, accommodation, etc...

You'll be surprised who you can meet on a night out!

Thoughts and opinions please. Thanks

Don't really need to be on Fab then do you ... just go out and meet great people down the pub ... enjoy! "

I'd you're having a bad day lully, you're more than welcome to pop round for a brew and some choccy bikkies..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thoughts and opinions please " ... oops, you meant no thanks then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

""Thoughts and opinions please " ... oops, you meant no thanks then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Which do you prefer? Meeting people (swingers, etc) on a weekend end out or attending socials?

Surprisingly enough I prefer weekend socialising as normally you don't have the lark of having to travel long distances, prices, accommodation, etc...

You'll be surprised who you can meet on a night out!

Thoughts and opinions please. Thanks

Don't really need to be on Fab then do you ... just go out and meet great people down the pub ... enjoy!

I'd you're having a bad day lully, you're more than welcome to pop round for a brew and some choccy bikkies..

How patronising when you specifically asked for thoughts & opinions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Which do you prefer? Meeting people (swingers, etc) on a weekend end out or attending socials?

Surprisingly enough I prefer weekend socialising as normally you don't have the lark of having to travel long distances, prices, accommodation, etc...

You'll be surprised who you can meet on a night out!

Thoughts and opinions please. Thanks

Don't really need to be on Fab then do you ... just go out and meet great people down the pub ... enjoy!

I'd you're having a bad day lully, you're more than welcome to pop round for a brew and some choccy bikkies..

How patronising when you specifically asked for thoughts & opinions

Seemed to negative for my liking, where did the get off fab thing come into it.. Ah well can't please em all

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

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Open forum where thoughts and opinions will be given freely whether you like it or not unfortunately. Don't post if the answers aren't to your liking

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Open forum where thoughts and opinions will be given freely whether you like it or not unfortunately. Don't post if the answers aren't to your liking"

I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the socials. Would rather to go to an organised event than a social meet which could be awkward and uncomfortable especially if there is no spark with who your meeting x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We love the socials. Would rather to go to an organised event than a social meet which could be awkward and uncomfortable especially if there is no spark with who your meeting x"

Very true, I haven't yet attended a social which could explain the "anti attitude", there's simply none in my area

shame, really.. Thanks for the more positive response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally l only attend socials. I dont meet privately. The socials are a safe place to meet like minded people. They are such a good laugh and full of genuinly lovely people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometime the group socials can be quite daunting

In fairness especially if you are a single guy, they can also be cliquey also. But my advice is stick with it go and mingle you will meet some really nice people,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime the group socials can be quite daunting

In fairness especially if you are a single guy, they can also be cliquey also. But my advice is stick with it go and mingle you will meet some really nice people,

I have to say that this has not happened in the socials l have been too. Not saying it dosent happen but l havent seen it happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime the group socials can be quite daunting

In fairness especially if you are a single guy, they can also be cliquey also. But my advice is stick with it go and mingle you will meet some really nice people,

I have to say that this has not happened in the socials l have been too. Not saying it dosent happen but l havent seen it happen"

Last social I attended you tripped me up, stole my smokey bacon crisps and gave me a Chinese burn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime the group socials can be quite daunting

In fairness especially if you are a single guy, they can also be cliquey also. But my advice is stick with it go and mingle you will meet some really nice people,

I have to say that this has not happened in the socials l have been too. Not saying it dosent happen but l havent seen it happen

Last social I attended you tripped me up, stole my smokey bacon crisps and gave me a Chinese burn

Just goes to show the socials arent cliquey then dont it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime the group socials can be quite daunting

In fairness especially if you are a single guy, they can also be cliquey also. But my advice is stick with it go and mingle you will meet some really nice people,

I have to say that this has not happened in the socials l have been too. Not saying it dosent happen but l havent seen it happen

Last social I attended you tripped me up, stole my smokey bacon crisps and gave me a Chinese burn

Just goes to show the socials arent cliquey then dont it lol "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometime the group socials can be quite daunting

In fairness especially if you are a single guy, they can also be cliquey also. But my advice is stick with it go and mingle you will meet some really nice people,

The first ever social we attended we felt like that. People appeared to be in their groups but in all fairness we were new so it could come across as cliquey. However over the months of attending and meeting new people it wasn't like that all. I think to any new person walking through those doors who hasn't made friends or doesnt know anyone then i think anyone would find it cliquey. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Enjoy the organised socials...interesting to see if people are like they portray online

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the large socials are very well organised and everyone loves them. I dont handle large crowds very well anymore so I have a meet and greet social at mine, winter can get about 24 ish and summer with barbies lots more but always used to love the swansea social and newport one when I used to go to them. Each to their own I think I like to invite at least two or three new ppl who havent met anyone and it paves the way for them to have play meets in future so i reckon all socials are a good way to meet future playmates, xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Enjoy the organised socials...interesting to see if people are like they portray online

And if they look anything like their pictures lol

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