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By *ittlemisssassypants OP   Couple
over a year ago

South East Wales

*first forum post- hi!*

So, last night we had a really great evening with another couple (only our second time, we're new). Very relaxed, got on well and they seemed really nice and genuine.

They left happy and we went to bed happy, but on coming online this morning to leave a veri it says that they are no longer on site,m

I can't help but wonder why, after a really great night and agreeing to meet again in the future, they would disappear without a word.

Has this happened to anyone else? I'm wondering if we may be a jinxed couple!

Also, that's one less veri for our profile! damn it!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

It's a right bugger when that happens. And trust me it happens more with single guys dissappearin than couples.

Maybe they decided that swinging wasn't for them after all and wanted to go out on a happy note. Or there could be a number of other reasons. Just a shame when people don't say goodbye

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By *utty and bustyCouple
over a year ago

newport

agree we had a few meets with single guys do the same

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By *ittlemisssassypants OP   Couple
over a year ago

South East Wales

I'll end up with a bloody complex if it keeps happening!! Haha!

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By *INKYCAT123Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Yes it happened to us a few weeks ago,

Met up with a couple for a social meet, few weeks later they messeged us to go around there house,

Had a few drinks and a lots of fem fem fun, absolutely great night, future meets was planned. Only to come on here morning after to find they had left here.? X

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By *ough n ReadyCouple
over a year ago

Caerphilly ish

We've had the same a few times, really gives you a complex if you let it lol

I (Mike) think that's with some couples, it's more the chatting about it that turns them off, and when they actually swap partners or play etc it throws up issues their end nothing to do with you!

Maybe one partner was "enjoying " the meet and play more than the other and hence leave site.

But don't get down about it happy swinging and enjoy

Mike & Joan xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine that feels crappy but could be anything. Maybe they got home and argued about how it went? Maybe they saw someone they knew and got spooked? Who knows. Don't let it affect your confidence too much, it could be for a genuine reason

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By *RWYNMan
over a year ago

Blaenau Gwent

I guess one of them enjoyed it more than the other, probably had a argument about it so just remember that you enjoyed the night and look for another couple.

. Good luck.

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

First two women I meet on fab, would be on and off fab every few days. Did think I must of been a crap meet first few times they did it but I did meet both a number of times in the end, so I could not been that bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to think I was jinxed....every guy I met either left site, went back to their wife ir ended up in mental hospital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing to do with you so don't worry. Happens regularly, usually before the meet takes place though so look on the bright side you had the meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably just wanted to explore a bit and maybe it wasnt for them.

Dont let it put you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They probably just wanted to explore a bit and maybe it wasnt for them.

Dont let it put you off "

agrees with above comment, sometimes couples think they want to swing but when they actually do it they realise its not for them plenty of other couples that stay swinging have fun, good luck and enjoy the playing xxx

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