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Isn't it about the people not the actual clubs ?

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By *bergavennyme OP   Man
over a year ago

abergavenny

Had a few chats at recent social and certain people were not fussed on certain clubs.

In my humble opinion isn't it all about who is in the club rather than the actual club itself ?

And if I am right why not just grab all these people together and organise going on the same night ?

Or is that what you do anyway and just don't tell me !!

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

You are right, it's the people that make the club!! Always a good night when you have friends with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion it also depends on the layout of the club and the atmosphere created. I loved Xtasia but am not a fan of Chams, and went to both with the same group of awesome people. So yes, the club itself does matter

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By *bergavennyme OP   Man
over a year ago

abergavenny

So what's wrong with Chams layout - I am either way on this ?

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

It is a bit of both as you could say that the club is as good as the people in it but layout , facilities and atmosphere created by the owners and staff contribute aswell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been to a club should I go ?

Would I enjoy it or be like a pervy old man lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like Chams but then again I have nothing to compare it to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the club scene...

Chams and xtasia are both worlds apart.

For me it's the people I'm with who make it a good night..

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By *bergavennyme OP   Man
over a year ago

abergavenny

Never even heard of xtasia - sheltered life and all that ....

Sell it to me (not literally)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never even heard of xtasia - sheltered life and all that ....

Sell it to me (not literally)"

Chams is wet club

Xtasia is night club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ugh, ignore typos... bloody nails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!) "

Definitely agree

I'd rather be around people who accept me for being me and who I can have a laugh with

I agree more invasions are needed

Have the next one after April all planned already and it's a different club

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!)

Definitely agree

I'd rather be around people who accept me for being me and who I can have a laugh with

I agree more invasions are needed

Have the next one after April all planned already and it's a different club"

Oo oo oo!! A new club you say!?

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

It's all about the people for me.

Remember when a crowd of us went to a club in Bristol Giggles? It was a dreadful club! But we did have a good laugh although not all of us stayed lol....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a couple who don't know that many people in the club scene it is the place and the staff for us. We like trying new clubs and usually find people chatty and friendly and have a good time. Our favorite so far is cupids in Manchester. Fantastic club. Going to try angels next, always done dress down/wet clubs so far so it will be a new experience for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!)

Definitely agree

I'd rather be around people who accept me for being me and who I can have a laugh with

I agree more invasions are needed

Have the next one after April all planned already and it's a different club

Oo oo oo!! A new club you say!?"

I do I do I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all about the people for me.

Remember when a crowd of us went to a club in Bristol Giggles? It was a dreadful club! But we did have a good laugh although not all of us stayed lol...."

Awww mama I still fecking chuckle about that...

I ain't posh but feck me that place made me look like a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a couple who don't know that many people in the club scene it is the place and the staff for us. We like trying new clubs and usually find people chatty and friendly and have a good time. Our favorite so far is cupids in Manchester. Fantastic club. Going to try angels next, always done dress down/wet clubs so far so it will be a new experience for us."

Love angels as well

All the clubs are so different

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!)

Definitely agree

I'd rather be around people who accept me for being me and who I can have a laugh with

I agree more invasions are needed

Have the next one after April all planned already and it's a different club

Oo oo oo!! A new club you say!?

I do I do I do "
I am sure that she will make a good choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!)

Definitely agree

I'd rather be around people who accept me for being me and who I can have a laugh with

I agree more invasions are needed

Have the next one after April all planned already and it's a different club

Oo oo oo!! A new club you say!?

I do I do I do "

Yessssss! I was saying to himself the other day about trying somewhere new so we'll definitely be up for this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So what's wrong with Chams layout - I am either way on this ? "

Nothing wrong with it

I just prefer the nightclub environment and being able to stay "dressed" until I decide otherwise

The wet clubs are not to my taste

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!) "

We completely agree with this opinion about clubs. They can be very unpleasing at times

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By *heep2405Man
over a year ago

Newport


"I agree with the layout, I prefer certain clubs because of the way they are set out. I like to have a bit of a dance and a flirt, but in smaller clubs I feel like a sardine and as if you're under everyone's watchful eye. Or if there's people there you can't stand, you're constantly bumping into them at certain points of the night.

The people do definitely make it though. I wouldn't bother going to a club if there wasn't a few friends going alread. We fins couples very hatdnto meet so the social side is the main fun for us and it's nice to have a giggle with like-minded people who you can be yourself with. Luckily we have a really good group of us who get the best of both worlds on the club invasions. (More please!)

Definitely agree

I'd rather be around people who accept me for being me and who I can have a laugh with

I agree more invasions are needed

Have the next one after April all planned already and it's a different club

Oo oo oo!! A new club you say!?"

Ooh. My turn to drive.

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