FabSwingers.com forum: A 100+ VARIES IN SHOW REALLLY ??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just think that it's kids a big headed sort of look at all my friends do you wanna be in my gang type of mentality tbh and let's be fair do they really make a diff to wether they will let you down,waist your time or stand you up DOES IT REALLY ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....or they could just really enjoy sex/socials?

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

They may be on popular people profile who have been on here for a long time and well known on the social scene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most of my veries are from social meets either organised socials or more informal socials x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To us it's none of our business how many veris people have.

None or a hundred, makes no difference as to whether we'd meet/chat with them.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"....or they could just really enjoy sex/socials?

I've got well over a hundred... 80 to 85 percent are from socials doe's it really matter how many a fellow fabber has ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....or they could just really enjoy sex/socials?

I've got well over a hundred... 80 to 85 percent are from socials doe's it really matter how many a fellow fabber has ?

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yes a lot of mine are from socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They may be on popular people profile who have been on here for a long time and well known on the social scene"
exactly

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

"....or they could just really enjoy sex/socials?

I've got well over a hundred... 80 to 85 percent are from socials doe's it really matter how many a fellow fabber has ?

We like to see veri's. Give you an idea about people but more importantly shows they are genuine and make the effort to get out there and meet people. Instead of sitting at home with a computer and fucking people about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could be all socials who is anyone to judge anyway at least you know not fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....or they could just really enjoy sex/socials?

I've got well over a hundred... 80 to 85 percent are from socials doe's it really matter how many a fellow fabber has ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They could be all socials who is anyone to judge anyway at least you know not fake

xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not of all show the naughty veris just the social ones lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"....or they could just really enjoy sex/socials?

I've got well over a hundred... 80 to 85 percent are from socials doe's it really matter how many a fellow fabber has ?

yes a lot of mine are from socials

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does it really matter?

If you make the effort to go to social events clubs ect

Your gonna meet these lovely genuine likeminded people

This doesn't mean anything other than your enjoying your time here and making new friends !!

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

Oops our bad, we thought fab was all about meeting like minded people and having fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just think that it's kids a big headed sort of look at all my friends do you wanna be in my gang type of mentality tbh and let's be fair do they really make a diff to wether they will let you down,waist your time or stand you up DOES IT REALLY ??? "

We have over 100 veri's majority of ours from socials,party and some play meets.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's kinda like going out and wearing every peice of gold you own just to show ppl you got them or wearing every item of clothing out in 1 hit its bragging! At the end of the day varies still don't mean they won't mess you around or waste your time as I've been let down by numerous individuals and cpls who have been varied at least 4 times as genuine through meet and they are still no shows or time wasters to the point of saying they are leaving they'res so we will see you shortly and never arrive never mind they know you've bent over backwards with work family commitments etc to get the time to meet aswell as buying the beverages to be fkd about .

Like I'm saying 5 varies or a 100 don't mean fkall at all and to advertise what they have wrote about you is very VERY vain that's the trouble with this site in the 12 years I have been on an off here as a married cpl now a single ppl seem to think varies are gold dust and it's more important to get varied than play n make friends which is bizzare ITS A SEX SITE not a site to argue who got the most varies as long as you are varied does it really matter by who and how many times ??? REALLY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you've answered your own point there ... it doesn't matter if people have 5 or 100 verifications!

Yes ... it's a sex site ... not a moaning /groaning agony aunt site. Man up and stop whining!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's kinda like going out and wearing every peice of gold you own just to show ppl you got them or wearing every item of clothing out in 1 hit its bragging! At the end of the day varies still don't mean they won't mess you around or waste your time as I've been let down by numerous individuals and cpls who have been varied at least 4 times as genuine through meet and they are still no shows or time wasters to the point of saying they are leaving they'res so we will see you shortly and never arrive never mind they know you've bent over backwards with work family commitments etc to get the time to meet aswell as buying the beverages to be fkd about .

Babe rather than slagging others off for having x amount of verifications why not look at any possible reasons as to why you keep getting fucked about.

With all due respect you are common denominator in that problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Babe rather than slagging others off for having x amount of verifications why not look at any possible reasons as to why you keep getting fucked about.

With all due respect you are common denominator in that problem

I did not say I wasn't getting any meets or fun by far Lolol and it's not slagging ppl off its a fair point that varies don't mean nothing at all and being polite and curtious to ppl don't make a difference ,now as a single guy when the opportunity comes up for a prospective meet I always tell then it's they're choice to meet spesh when they have messaged and shown interest ,you swap pics ,message for a wile ,text some more but ALWAYS they make the decision to meet ,they say when and what time sooo you face time and they perceive to you alls good so to talk more right to the day of meet .

You talk all day and your told they can't wait and been looking forward and then evening comes and silence ,blocked WTF why go froo all that bother just say FKING nooooo inni or not interested to play these stupid games is bizzare or just block us from the off WHICH IT SAYS ON MY PROF but noooooo and these ppl are varied numerously so the common denominator here is the point that varies don't mean naff all at all and ppl want varies more than naughties

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

"Well you've answered your own point there ... it doesn't matter if people have 5 or 100 verifications!

Yes ... it's a sex site ... not a moaning /groaning agony aunt site. Man up and stop whining!

(thumb,

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By *awty_MissDynomiteNo1Woman
over a year ago

No idea, I'm lost. Damn Sat nav!

Imagine being judged for joining a swinging site for sex and doing just that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree if only to the point of people wearing their veris as a badge of honour. Do people really need to veri same people over and over again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree if only to the point of people wearing their veris as a badge of honour. Do people really need to veri same people over and over again?"

I've verid people more than once if I haven't seen them in a while,

some people take breaks etc and if you never reveri them then people moan oh your last one was a year ago

Which reminds me I've been lazy and not written a few I should have

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Oh dear, I guess because we've got 100 verifications we don't use Fab as we should? Can honestly say we have never let anyone down, messed people about, caused unnecessary drama or consider ourselves vain.

I'm sure if you attended some socials/clubs etc OP you would display your veries OP, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree if only to the point of people wearing their veris as a badge of honour. Do people really need to veri same people over and over again?

I've verid people more than once if I haven't seen them in a while,

some people take breaks etc and if you never reveri them then people moan oh your last one was a year ago

Which reminds me I've been lazy and not written a few I should have

That's fair enough but not everytime you meet them. I myself have double even triple veris.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe rather than slagging others off for having x amount of verifications why not look at any possible reasons as to why you keep getting fucked about.

With all due respect you are common denominator in that problem

Chill out about it hun it really isn't worth getting stressed out over

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By *anofsteel777Man
over a year ago

merthyr

That always looks like someone really needs to prove how liked they are, low self esteem perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I missing something here?

Your the one that's arguing about vero,s everyone else is giving a decent opinion on how they have them

I don't brag about anything

But have lots of veri,s

Chill out like ms P said lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd chill your nuts to be honest. Veri's are a personal thing and you can chose to use them or ignore.

Every person uses them differently.

I choose not to display them, but like to read other peoples.

Thats my choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That always looks like someone really needs to prove how liked they are, low self esteem perhaps. "

I would say that putting other people down because their amount/type/etc of veries is not to your specific ideal is more indicative of low self esteem than anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Babe rather than slagging others off for having x amount of verifications why not look at any possible reasons as to why you keep getting fucked about.

With all due respect you are common denominator in that problem

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pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh dear, I guess because we've got 100 verifications we don't use Fab as we should? Can honestly say we have never let anyone down, messed people about, caused unnecessary drama or consider ourselves vain.

I'm sure if you attended some socials/clubs etc OP you would display your veries OP, no? "
ooooo dlad u sexy feckers piped up reminds me to verify you pmsl xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That always looks like someone really needs to prove how liked they are, low self esteem perhaps.

I would say that putting other people down because their amount/type/etc of veries is not to your specific ideal is more indicative of low self esteem than anything

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yer leave me miss p alone lol lubs u girl lol xxx

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

That always looks like someone really needs to prove how liked they are, low self esteem perhaps.

I would say that putting other people down because their amount/type/etc of veries is not to your specific ideal is more indicative of low self esteem than anything

I do wear mine like a badge of honour. Whats the problem with that....

i'm proud of the new friends I've made and the people I've met.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Babe rather than slagging others off for having x amount of verifications why not look at any possible reasons as to why you keep getting fucked about.

With all due respect you are common denominator in that problem

If they don't mean nothing then why are you whinging and concerning yourself about what other people do! All it does is make you look like you have sour grapes.

Enjoy what your doing and not worry about others! That or take the bloody time to read the verificationsame and realise they aren't about showing off they're about giving a potential meet and idea of what that person is like!!

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By *anofsteel777Man
over a year ago

merthyr

That always looks like someone really needs to prove how liked they are, low self esteem perhaps.

I would say that putting other people down because their amount/type/etc of veries is not to your specific ideal is more indicative of low self esteem than anything

Really?

judgemental i'd say but i got a ordinary thesaurus not one that fits my agenda

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That always looks like someone really needs to prove how liked they are, low self esteem perhaps.

I would say that putting other people down because their amount/type/etc of veries is not to your specific ideal is more indicative of low self esteem than anything

Really?

judgemental i'd say but i got a ordinary thesaurus not one that fits my agenda"

Putting others down to make yourself look/feel better is typical behaviour of someone with low self esteem.

Oh the joys of having studied psychology in my youth

Not that I would ever dare argue with an ordinary thesaurus of course

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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff & Edinburgh

Babe rather than slagging others off for having x amount of verifications why not look at any possible reasons as to why you keep getting fucked about.

With all due respect you are common denominator in that problem

If they don't mean nothing then why are you whinging and concerning yourself about what other people do! All it does is make you look like you have sour grapes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get veris and want to publish, fine. You get veris and don't want to publish, fine. You get no veris, but have had meets, iffy. You get no veris because no meets, sad. But after all is said, who really gives a shit? Not everyone likes them, don't read them if that's the case, but quit the judgemental crap please.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do not slag off the Vari PROTECT the vari at all cost as the vari is the truth the whole truth n nothing but the truth DO not point out that they mean fkall as varies are for life and not just for Christmas even a vari have feelings hahaha wat a load of crap SAVE THE VARI BULLSHIT OT NOT ha !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I like them, simple as. Don't see the need for people to get all arsey about it, if you don't like don't read, if you do like then read, why so complicated

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Do not slag off the Vari PROTECT the vari at all cost as the vari is the truth the whole truth n nothing but the truth DO not point out that they mean fkall as varies are for life and not just for Christmas even a vari have feelings hahaha wat a load of crap SAVE THE VARI BULLSHIT OT NOT ha !!

Not really helping yourself here now are you lol ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think what the OP is trying to say is that whether you have one veri or 100 it is no true indication as to whether you can be a timewaster. Yes lots have social veris but when it comes down to one-on-one meets many back out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do you mean veri ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the love of God if your going to whine about a verification..get the bloody name right... V...E...R...I...E

Expect you call it charms too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me, OP, you do seem to spend a lot of time whinging about everything...

Well, it's entirely up to people to present their profile etc as they want to - and your complete freedom to either take an interest, or just pass by...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goodness me, OP, you do seem to spend a lot of time whinging about everything...

Well, it's entirely up to people to present their profile etc as they want to - and your complete freedom to either take an interest, or just pass by...

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"You get veris and want to publish, fine. You get veris and don't want to publish, fine. You get no veris, but have had meets, iffy. You get no veris because no meets, sad. But after all is said, who really gives a shit? Not everyone likes them, don't read them if that's the case, but quit the judgemental crap please.

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

"Oops our bad, we thought fab was all about meeting like minded people and having fun

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

I'm sure if you attended some socials/clubs etc OP you would display your veries OP, no? "

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"For the love of God if your going to whine about a verification..get the bloody name right... V...E...R...I...E

Expect you call it charms too...

Pmsl

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Not really helping yourself here now are you lol .."

Envy is a funny ole thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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Envy my ass lol like I said I do alright but also get fkd about by VARIED I'll say it again VARIED ppl and these Varies are held in soooo high esteem which ppl give out willy Fk say hi at a social you get varied just Coz you said hi ffs bizarre ,just because the said hi all ov a sudden they gen like I said they mean fk all !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Not all VERIS are to say someone won't mess you about, a lot of the social ones are to let people know that they are a real person (male/female/couple) and that you have met them and verified they are real. It does what it says on the box. There might be a genuine reason you have been let down, maybe like not accepting others views and whining about something others find a huge benefit. Or maybe the text speak or lack of commas and full stops, but we won't go there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Think someone needs to take a chill pill, what a strange thing to get worked up about, not as if you're forced to look at them, never mind read the bloody things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Somebody throw the guy a Tampax and a Bridget Jones DVD, FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol that moment when you go to view a profile and you've already blocked them. Wise move, talk about angry!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Somebody throw the guy a Tampax and a Bridget Jones DVD, FFS"

Don't forget the chocolate!!

It's verified!! Not bloody varied! I normally don't give a shit about spelling but if you're gonna rant at least get it right like Red said!!! Verifications, Veris and verified learn English for christ sake! Then come back an argue the sodding point.

I need those Bridget Jones movies and a bar of galaxy please it's "that" week too!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the love of God if your going to whine about a verification..get the bloody name right... V...E...R...I...E

Expect you call it charms too...

This made me laff a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol that moment when you go to view a profile and you've already blocked them. Wise move, talk about angry!"

Same here!!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the love of God if your going to whine about a verification..get the bloody name right... V...E...R...I...E

Expect you call it charms too...

This made me laff a lot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somebody throw the guy a Tampax and a Bridget Jones DVD, FFS"

Oh, now that did make me laugh!!! Well said, Mr Charming!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol that moment when you go to view a profile and you've already blocked them. Wise move, talk about angry!

Same here!!

Me too! (or is that me three...?)

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

This thread is a prime example on how to destroy any chance of a future meet with 99 percent of fab....unlos soon me thinks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep .. I've blocked him too .... no need for such an attitude over something so trivial.

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

"Somebody throw the guy a Tampax and a Bridget Jones DVD, FFS"

Pmsl

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

Lol this is coming from someone who hides his own verries and has only been on the site for 6 months when lots who are commenting have been on for years

Pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x"

It reminds me a bit of the guy who came on here threatening suicide because noone liked him or 2ould meet him etc

Then proceeded to call us all fat cunts and left

Then rejoined with the same pics and almost same name and couldn't grasp why noone would speak to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x

It reminds me a bit of the guy who came on here threatening suicide because noone liked him or 2ould meet him etc

Then proceeded to call us all fat cunts and left

Then rejoined with the same pics and almost same name and couldn't grasp why noone would speak to him"

Haha omg how did I miss that!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x

It reminds me a bit of the guy who came on here threatening suicide because noone liked him or 2ould meet him etc

Then proceeded to call us all fat cunts and left

Then rejoined with the same pics and almost same name and couldn't grasp why noone would speak to him

Haha omg how did I miss that!?"

It was a while ago

It was very

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

"But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x

It reminds me a bit of the guy who came on here threatening suicide because noone liked him or 2ould meet him etc

Then proceeded to call us all fat cunts and left

Then rejoined with the same pics and almost same name and couldn't grasp why noone would speak to him

Haha omg how did I miss that!?

It was a while ago

It was very

Pmsl classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless he just wanted a friend lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x

It reminds me a bit of the guy who came on here threatening suicide because noone liked him or 2ould meet him etc

Then proceeded to call us all fat cunts and left

Then rejoined with the same pics and almost same name and couldn't grasp why noone would speak to him

Haha omg how did I miss that!?

It was a while ago

It was very

Pmsl classic

Only on Fab aye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless he just wanted a friend lol

He'd have been better off with a psychiatrist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bless he just wanted a friend lol

He'd have been better off with a psychiatrist"

Lol there should be a group for people like that on fab

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"But he's achieved his goal, wind everyone up. Some people have such small lives that it becomes their daily sport I think x

It reminds me a bit of the guy who came on here threatening suicide because noone liked him or 2ould meet him etc

Then proceeded to call us all fat cunts and left

Then rejoined with the same pics and almost same name and couldn't grasp why noone would speak to him

Haha omg how did I miss that!?"

I reckon it was when you were in vanillaland. Bloody hilarious!

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