FabSwingers.com forum: Contraception - Need opinions from both sexes please.

By *FFB69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

Thinking of having the coil as my implant is playing up.

Women; experiences? Good and bad.

Men; I've been told that you can feel them during foreplay and sex, is this true? If so, does it put you off?

Any feedback/opinions welcome. Thanks!

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

my ex had one, I could never feel it and I'm not described as short in reach

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By *ary_ArgyllMan
over a year ago

Argyll

I once felt part of the coil when fingering my partner deeply but that is the only time - never notice it otherwise.

It seems to suit her and she has not told me of any problems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on pain threshold,it's painful and uncomfortable being inserted and would suggest an ibuprofen beforehand. It can cause some issues with infrequent bleeding but should calm down. Hope this doesn't scare you but in long run it can be great xx

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By *FFB69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"Depends on pain threshold,it's painful and uncomfortable being inserted and would suggest an ibuprofen beforehand. It can cause some issues with infrequent bleeding but should calm down. Hope this doesn't scare you but in long run it can be great xx "

Thanks for the advice.

My implant is causing that.. tho its getting less "infrequent" which is why I am hoping to change it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to have a local anaesthetic to have mine fitted but am very happy with it xx

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

I have hit & moved one but that was in a very hard deep session apart from that no issues as far as I know.

Still always safe sex though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had one about a year now. Very painful insertion ...no kids lol. Took a few months but settled right down periods virtually non existent most months. HD has never said he feels it and things get very deep and vigorous

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By *FFB69 OP Woman
over a year ago

Torfaen/Gwent

"I've had one about a year now. Very painful insertion ...no kids lol. Took a few months but settled right down periods virtually non existent most months. HD has never said he feels it and things get very deep and vigorous

Can't be more painful than childbirth so I think i'd take it over the alternative lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

An ex of mine had one I could feel it during deep sex but didn't put me off lol and she was very happy with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thinking of having the coil as my implant is playing up.

Women; experiences? Good and bad.

Men; I've been told that you can feel them during foreplay and sex, is this true? If so, does it put you off?

Any feedback/opinions welcome. Thanks!"

Mirena coil was the best thing I ever did. Haven't had any periods at all and when I did have them they were light x

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By *etes-dragonCouple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

Mirena worse thing Dragon ever did. She wanted to kill any and everyone is sight! Didnt last long, 6 months and her Dr said enough was enough!. Killed when going in and taking out wasnt the most fun experience!

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By *etes-dragonCouple
over a year ago

Wales and the South West

everyone has different experiences .... live and learn .... you can only work out how it goes by your own experience. Good luck no matter what you go with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a coil, second one and it's great.

Might be good to make sure thread is short though as mines a bit long and sort of tickles me at times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did try to message you but i cant i too old. on that subject im way way past child bearing age he he but my daughters well two of them have the depo injections, the other one is pregnant bless her again but the two older ones swear by depo

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By *olphinmoonCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff & Edinburgh

I have the copper coil and it's great. Second one fitted but I did have pain on insertion and I have had two kids. Works for us though.

Husband only ever felt it once after a very heavy all night session and the strings do tickle so ask for them to be cut short.

Otherwise I am very happy with mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess everyone will have different experiences . I've had my implant for over 5 years and never had so much as spotting. Never tried a coil as always heard bad things.

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

I've used mirena coil for 8 years as it virtually stops my periods and no weight gain which is great.

Insertion is bearable and I don't have a high pain threshold.

Cons: it has turned me into an emotional mess so I'm going to see about different options

Back pain has increased but can be dealt with.

Big dicks do knock mine which is very painful but they say this is because I'm quite 'shallow' down there, before the coil though never had an issue with size

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard bad things about them all

Injection makes a lot of people gain weight

I don't like how the cool actually works but most never actually read up about them

I have the mini pill which I take everyday and I don't have periods

I am on list to be sterilised but considering whether to go for it or not as quite a few people have said they had problems after

The problem with the coils in my opinion is I know several people who had them and had loads of problems but doctors didn't want to remove them

Just weigh up all the options first

Everyone is different it might suit you it might not x

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By *heekypeachCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I've had one for 4 years best thing I ever did xx (mrs)

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

"I've used mirena coil for 8 years as it virtually stops my periods and no weight gain which is great.

Insertion is bearable and I don't have a high pain threshold.

Cons: it has turned me into an emotional mess so I'm going to see about different options

Back pain has increased but can be dealt with.

Big dicks do knock mine which is very painful but they say this is because I'm quite 'shallow' down there, before the coil though never had an issue with size

Mrs"

There's hope yet then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the coil is inside the womb ..so unless the guys cock is opening ur cervix the only thing u could possibly feel is the string....I've had one for 16 years ...no periods no hassles x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the mirena coil. Found it the best contraceptive for me and i had no problems with it. The pain inserting it was quite bad, apart from that i was happy.

Had to have it removed for other reasons but i'd be happy ro recommend using one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex wife's lasted 4 months. It was always awkward with catching it.

Final straw was it coming out during sex..

I was glad to see it go. But at the time we felt it was badly fitted.

I'd definitely try one. Nothing to lose.

Xx Tony

I'll check its fitted OK if you want lol

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By *ardiff123Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

I was seeing a lady who had a coil, I could never feel it & have 8" and she liked it deep.

Go for it girl xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had the coil twice. The first time no problem at all and stopped all my periods. The second time, major bleeding problems over a 6 month period resulting in me having to have it taken out as my body didn't accept it so well the second time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

UTBNB

you'll never get pregnant then...

But I've had the mirena, really liked it, had I taken out on Drs advice as I wasn't helping my pcos.... Went on the mini pill....ended up pregnant

Asking for sterilization or hysterectomy

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By *uttytrukerMan
over a year ago

newport

i did accidently catch the cords on my exxesss coil and pull it out once

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By *RH and HRNCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen

I had major issues with my coil, had to have it removed within 6 months. . I would never ever recommend one to anyone . . My aunt had one that travelled and caused damage . .

Not a fan of them sorry . .

Boobs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the copper coil and my bf used to be able to feel it during sex. They don't recommend you having them unless you have had children.

The first one I had put in was so painful (before kids), it had to be taken out within 2 weeks. It had bent inside me and caused me horrific pain.

I had it again after kids but it made me periods more painful and heavy.I have the implant now but even that has caused me trouble

You can always try it as it may work for you.

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

Ive had coil fitted last week had 2 have local anesthetic no prolems so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What put me off was the nurse telling me the coil has to be inserted during a period. Would have looked like someone had been massacred!!!

Now, thanks to the joys of chemotherapy, I no longer have the contraceptive problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto(felt it but not a problem)

Don't have the problem now since I had the snip??

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

"I had the copper coil and my bf used to be able to feel it during sex. They don't recommend you having them unless you have had children.

The first one I had put in was so painful (before kids), it had to be taken out within 2 weeks. It had bent inside me and caused me horrific pain.

I had it again after kids but it made me periods more painful and heavy.I have the implant now but even that has caused me trouble

You can always try it as it may work for you.

Iv had a coil as it was last resort since the age of 26 and have no kids. Wonder if this is why it hurt so God damn much, having it out soon to be replaced but can't face it yet as it hurts alot

Mrs

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

"I had the copper coil and my bf used to be able to feel it during sex. They don't recommend you having them unless you have had children.

The first one I had put in was so painful (before kids), it had to be taken out within 2 weeks. It had bent inside me and caused me horrific pain.

I had it again after kids but it made me periods more painful and heavy.I have the implant now but even that has caused me trouble

You can always try it as it may work for you.

Iv had a coil as it was last resort since the age of 26 and have no kids. Wonder if this is why it hurt so God damn much, having it out soon to be replaced but can't face it yet as it hurts alot

Mrs"

Age of 16 even***

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By *itzWoman
over a year ago

south wales

I had the copper coil. I had it taken out after 8 months as my body was rejecting it. I have spoken to so many women who it does suit, the mirena in particular. You just wont know until you try it, everyone is different. Try it and find out and then by process of elimination you can find what does suit you. xxxx

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By *onnieandclyde69777Couple
over a year ago

birmingham

I had the coil for 3 years was good at first but then started bleeding constantly and it took me 8 months before they would take it out much better now! Was feeling low in myself and my sex drive was bad but it's back now

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