FabSwingers.com forum: Etiquette

By *otsoSnowWhite OP Woman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Well we've had a thread that mentioned "classy" and we know how those threads go. So this thread could go tits up too.

But I just wanna throw it out there about etiquette in clubs and on meets.

Now this isn't a bash guys thread cause there are women and couples just as bad.

Common cutesy says you should ask before touching. Invading someone's space is not acceptable. And just cause you were given permission to touch a little doesn't mean you were given the green light for it all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We know what you mean, the wife and our girlfriend were getting intimate on a bed in Infusion and some guy walked past me and decided he was just going to touch,no chance don't touch unless you get the green light xx

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By *otsoSnowWhite OP Woman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"We know what you mean, the wife and our girlfriend were getting intimate on a bed in Infusion and some guy walked past me and decided he was just going to touch,no chance don't touch unless you get the green light xx"

That's exactly what I'm on about. Not always the men mind. Fems of couples just grabbing what they want too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been to a club but hoping to break my club virginity sometime soon and thats the thing that worries me is whats the etiquette. thats whats stopped me upto now, fear of the unknown

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By *otsoSnowWhite OP Woman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Ive never been to a club but hoping to break my club virginity sometime soon and thats the thing that worries me is whats the etiquette. thats whats stopped me upto now, fear of the unknown"

Simple manners can't go far wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very frustrating and some individuals seem to think if your in a sex Club your fair game.mind in our experience it's a minority x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive never been to a club but hoping to break my club virginity sometime soon and thats the thing that worries me is whats the etiquette. thats whats stopped me upto now, fear of the unknown

Simple manners can't go far wrong. "

Don't be a dick. Etiquette lesson in one sentence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ive never been to a club but hoping to break my club virginity sometime soon and thats the thing that worries me is whats the etiquette. thats whats stopped me upto now, fear of the unknown

Simple manners can't go far wrong. "

Happens to me all the time in tescos

lol x

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

This is what puts us off playing in public sometimes

Mrs

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This. Nothing like having a finger almost inside you in Chams jacuzzi. Fucking raging I was.

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By *otsoSnowWhite OP Woman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Whether it be man or woman a simple do you mind or would you like to play wouldn't go a miss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

Awh, you on about Mama?

I just can't help myself

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

Awh, you on about Mama?

I just can't help myself

LOL I wasn't on about you. You're a good friend and more than welcome to touch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This. Nothing like having a finger almost inside you in Chams jacuzzi. Fucking raging I was. "

Lord would end anyone who tried to do something like that without permission! Thats wrong hahah!!!

I suppose going with your partner as your body guard helps haha, cant exactly walk around chams with a sign on you that says "ask before you touch" people should at least have enough manners to know this is a big unspoken rule in swinging or in clubs!

People these days.

Just cuz youre on a swinging site or in a club doesnt make you desperate, easy or anything else alot of people have been called

xxx

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

Usually clubs have on display some rules and no means no even in the strongest sex club

Good manners and respect for others costs nothing but unfortunately not everybody respects that

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

The trouble in clubs is some single blokes think once they've payed to get in ,every ones fair game and they can grab grope and touch to their hearts content. I try to be as respectful as possible and only touch if I know it's welcome...

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

"This. Nothing like having a finger almost inside you in Chams jacuzzi. Fucking raging I was.

Lord would end anyone who tried to do something like that without permission! Thats wrong hahah!!!

People these days.

Just cuz youre on a swinging site or in a club doesnt make you desperate, easy or anything else alot of people have been called

xxx "

Exactly!! Think more people need to understand this

Mrs

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By *tu griffMan
over a year ago

bridgend

As a single guy Iv chatted with the guys that hover around in chams, and dissapointingly many of those guys Say the same thing, 'what's the point in them coming here if they are not going to play' that's their attitude,

They just want as many bj's and sex as they can. That's ok I guess, but it's their assumption that everyone else should be the same. 'It's a sex club after all'

The club would be much better with out those kind of attitudes.

It all boils down to manners, common curtosy and respect for others.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"As a single guy Iv chatted with the guys that hover around in chams, and dissapointingly many of those guys Say the same thing, 'what's the point in them coming here if they are not going to play' that's their attitude,

They just want as many bj's and sex as they can. That's ok I guess, but it's their assumption that everyone else should be the same. 'It's a sex club after all'

The club would be much better with out those kind of attitudes.

It all boils down to manners, common curtosy and respect for others. "

I like to think as it as a social club that allows sex on the premises many a time I've just gone to socialise and not played at all...

Some of the comments I've heard from the hallway wankers as i like to call them (yes the single guys who just stand their all night playing with their cocks and stalking) have made me feel sick and angry with their attitudes and total lack of respect towards the ladys even when they have been lucky enough to play with said ladys makes my blood boil it do

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

Been to Darlaston quite a few times now and the guys have always been very respectful. They've always asked and most that Mrs has played with have taken the time to chat for a while before any fun.

Not sure whether Chams tends to be like that all the time or we've just been lucky?

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

They just want as many bj's and sex as they can. That's ok I guess, but it's their assumption that everyone else should be the same. 'It's a sex club after all'

The club would be much better with out those kind of attitudes.

It all boils down to manners, common curtosy and respect for others.

I like to think as it as a social club that allows sex on the premises many a time I've just gone to socialise and not played at all...

And then they wonder why so many couples don't want to play with single males, for this reason exactly

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

Awh, you on about Mama?

I just can't help myself

LOL I wasn't on about you. You're a good friend and more than welcome to touch

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

Awh, you on about Mama?

I just can't help myself

LOL I wasn't on about you. You're a good friend and more than welcome to touch

Don't pretend to be shy MissPeachy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uninvited touching equals indecent assault! Besides I wouldn't want to touch anyone unless they wanted me to? It's the chemistry that adds to the experience not just the touching alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This. Nothing like having a finger almost inside you in Chams jacuzzi. Fucking raging I was.

Lord would end anyone who tried to do something like that without permission! Thats wrong hahah!!!

People these days.

Just cuz youre on a swinging site or in a club doesnt make you desperate, easy or anything else alot of people have been called

xxx "

He's lucky I didn't push his head under and drown the bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

Awh, you on about Mama?

I just can't help myself

LOL I wasn't on about you. You're a good friend and more than welcome to touch

Don't pretend to be shy MissPeachy

I was being a little ashamed of myself, I'm the world's worst for motorboating, you know how much I love boobs

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"I've found that women can be worse than the men. I've had women just come up and grab my boobs

At least most guys have asked first before they make a move

Awh, you on about Mama?

I just can't help myself

LOL I wasn't on about you. You're a good friend and more than welcome to touch

Don't pretend to be shy MissPeachy

I was being a little ashamed of myself, I'm the world's worst for motorboating, you know how much I love boobs

As I said, I don't mind you doing it....It's people I don't know or want to touch me doing it, that I get annoyed at

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