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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've only gone and fallen for my regular FB.

Should I tell him how I feel and take the risk of spoiling what we have?

Confused.com

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if hes on site and reads this won't have to tell him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if hes on site and reads this won't have to tell him"

I'm not that daft lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk away

Feelings=heartache

Fuck that shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Risk

Telling him because if you don't it'll probably

Show if he meets others

But you may be surprised and he feels the same XXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might as well tell him just to make yourself feel better about things but it's unlikely to make a difference to his motivation to play. I suppose it depends how this new attachment makes you feel, if you're jealous of his other meets & feeling the need for an exclusive relationship you could very well have a problem, unless he's on the same page. It is possible to develop that particular attachment & carry on with the swinging but it isn't an easy life tbh. Good luck with it all X

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By *RH and HRNCouple
over a year ago

Carmarthen


"You might as well tell him just to make yourself feel better about things but it's unlikely to make a difference to his motivation to play. I suppose it depends how this new attachment makes you feel, if you're jealous of his other meets & feeling the need for an exclusive relationship you could very well have a problem, unless he's on the same page. It is possible to develop that particular attachment & carry on with the swinging but it isn't an easy life tbh. Good luck with it all X"

Either way you'll feel bad . . You have to be honest with yourself, first and foremost.

Feel your anguish, I really do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only gone and fallen for my regular FB.

Should I tell him how I feel and take the risk of spoiling what we have?

Confused.com"

Oh god women

Text me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Walk away

Feelings=heartache

Fuck that shit"

That's what my head is telling me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only gone and fallen for my regular FB.

Should I tell him how I feel and take the risk of spoiling what we have?

Confused.com

Oh god women

Text me lol "

You've enough on your plate without listening to my woes!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You might as well tell him just to make yourself feel better about things but it's unlikely to make a difference to his motivation to play. I suppose it depends how this new attachment makes you feel, if you're jealous of his other meets & feeling the need for an exclusive relationship you could very well have a problem, unless he's on the same page. It is possible to develop that particular attachment & carry on with the swinging but it isn't an easy life tbh. Good luck with it all X"

Thanks Peachy - he's not meeting anyone else at the moment.think I'll fess up and take the risk - at least I'm being true to myself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Either way you'll feel bad . . You have to be honest with yourself, first and foremost.

Feel your anguish, I really do x"

I think you are right - thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away

Feelings=heartache

Fuck that shit"

nothing ventured nothing gained ! If you taste a piece of fruit and don't like it,that doesn't mean you won't enjoy a different piece? Enjoy the experience.

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

You have 3 options in my view

1 tell him ( hopefully he'll feel the same ) & nothing changes

2 do nothing & carry on as you are

3 walk away (clean break)

All 3 have good & bad sides

Or flip a coin heads you say something tails you don't. (If it's ment to be then chance will decide.

Good luckxxx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"You have 3 options in my view

1 tell him ( hopefully he'll feel the same ) & nothing changes

2 do nothing & carry on as you are

3 walk away (clean break)

All 3 have good & bad sides

Or flip a coin heads you say something tails you don't. (If it's ment to be then chance will decide.

Good luckxxx"

You forgot number 4... She tells him, and he doesn't like it, and it all goes to ratshit!

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys


"You have 3 options in my view

1 tell him ( hopefully he'll feel the same ) & nothing changes

2 do nothing & carry on as you are

3 walk away (clean break)

All 3 have good & bad sides

Or flip a coin heads you say something tails you don't. (If it's ment to be then chance will decide.

Good luckxxx

You forgot number 4... She tells him, and he doesn't like it, and it all goes to ratshit! "

True place as no4

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only gone and fallen for my regular FB.

Should I tell him how I feel and take the risk of spoiling what we have?

Confused.com

Oh god women

Text me lol

You've enough on your plate without listening to my woes!"

Don't be so daft

That's what friends are for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, be bold

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd


"You might as well tell him just to make yourself feel better about things but it's unlikely to make a difference to his motivation to play. I suppose it depends how this new attachment makes you feel, if you're jealous of his other meets & feeling the need for an exclusive relationship you could very well have a problem, unless he's on the same page. It is possible to develop that particular attachment & carry on with the swinging but it isn't an easy life tbh. Good luck with it all X

Thanks Peachy - he's not meeting anyone else at the moment.think I'll fess up and take the risk - at least I'm being true to myself"
I think you have to do it anyway.. eventually it has to come out, so go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd have to get it off my chest, you'll never know if he feels the same as you otherwise, if he does that's great, if he doesn't then I think it's probably best you move on and find that person who deserves your love.

Good luck

Mia xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think I'd have to get it off my chest, you'll never know if he feels the same as you otherwise, if he does that's great, if he doesn't then I think it's probably best you move on and find that person who deserves your love.

Good luck

Mia xx "

Thank you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh post an update on how it turns out.

Best of luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh post an update on how it turns out.

Best of luck."

Thank you - not going to rush anything. Need to get used to the idea myself first. Didn't expect to have these feelings for him lol

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By *exycouplemmmmCouple
over a year ago

Surrey

Good luck, hope he feels the same xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just say as he might feel the same

Good luck hope it turns out the way you want x

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,

Never regret things you've done, only things you never had the courage to do x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The risks of a casual sex site.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away

Feelings=heartache

Fuck that shit"

That can be a lonely way to live long term ??

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By *igjrvMan
over a year ago

blackwood

Ask him how he feels first, it's simple. if he says no and asks why? Make up a really over the top lie. Something involving an escaped chipmunk, how bad the weather is in Peru or tripping over a match stick and falling down a manhole. This has never worked for me personally. I live in hope that It will for someone. Let me know if it does as their could be a reward xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this happened to me.not so long after she told me we stopped seeing each other.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"this happened to me.not so long after she told me we stopped seeing each other."

You didn't feel the same way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Walk away

Feelings=heartache

Fuck that shit

That can be a lonely way to live long term ?? "

Loneliness is less painful than heartbreak

Each to their own

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