FabSwingers.com forum: swapping phone numbers

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would you or wouldn't you swap phone numbers after messaging for 3 weeks..and 2 days be4 a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Immediately before a meet maybe in case you can't find each other.

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Would you or wouldn't you swap phone numbers after messaging for 3 weeks..and 2 days be4 a meet?"

Everyone is different, certain people have different styles. I have even met a couple who don't send photographs but are verified and meet in a public place (the verifications did say she was stunning).

If I am ever in doubt then I call if off. Are they recently verified, do they BOTH meet (if its a couple), are they evasive. The signs are always there.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree ty

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

And I realise you are the female, then if you are prepared to let the person have your number then a guy should def be ready to exchange numbers

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Was she stunning?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree ty

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Was she stunning?"

Hell yeah

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Result...

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

"Result..."

I always go with my gut feeling and I have NEVER been wrong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was prepared to drive 2 hrs to his place...all I asked was for his number so I could chat the day be4 and during my journey...

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

[Removed by poster at 07/01/16 01:26:30]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would you or wouldn't you swap phone numbers after messaging for 3 weeks..and 2 days be4 a meet?"

I have learnt the hard way. I don't give my number out now we give andys out. I have had single females who turn out to be men messaging me offering me money for sex. I have had the male half of a couple we met constantly message asking to meet us/me alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you give your number out ensure you have the ability to block numbers on your phone, it's no fun getting booty calls at silly time in the morning from pissed guys, wanting to visit you with their mates

Kik is so much safer x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 phones would do the job and u turn the fun phone off until u need it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I understand but I'm the one taking the risk driving to his which would take 2 hrs..without one Phone call

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I did suggest a spare sim

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I ask him if he has kik..he didn't have a clue what I was on about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kik is safe way..a lot on here use it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just posted a direct message to you on this topic.

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By *ardiff123Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Once there is trust between you I see no problem giving my mobile number

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree ty x

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By *ardiff123Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

My pleasure xx

I just replied privately by mistake sorry x

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By *eswillMan
over a year ago

Chepstow

I have a pay and go phone which I only use for swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is there any kik groups in wales

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 07/01/16 09:08:17]

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There wasn't even a alternative suggestion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We also have a swing phone that only gets turned on the morning of the meet, other then that it sits turned off in its safe hiding place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My phone works with dual sim but I honestly can't be arsed, everyone I've given my number to is awesome so I'm just lucky I guess

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

Paignton

we just use our fab phone..works fine for us..connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hi couples xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no prob giving out my number ...so easy to block ...Def like to have a phone chat prior to meeting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

saucy u fancy a chat ? x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Due to him not willing to swap numbers I have now cancelled out meet.... He has lost out big time.... X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Good idea nit most phones ate capable of blocking numbers nowadays thanx for your reply x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Uep I agree with you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only give my number out once I feel I can trust them and arranged meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have been chatting for 3 weeks.....arranged a meet for tomorrow which I have to drive over 2 hrs to his..think the least he could Av done is give me his phone number for the journey or a chat be4 ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of ways of communicating for people who don't wish to exchange numbers such as Kik but ultimately they don't entrust you with a mobile number, then I'd be cautious about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I agree...i have cancelled my meet...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree...i have cancelled my meet..."

Can phone me anytime

Best whatsapp or kik

07508200179

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no prob giving out my number ...so easy to block ...Def like to have a phone chat prior to meeting x"

& then they phone you all night from random numbers & hang up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no prob giving out my number ...so easy to block ...Def like to have a phone chat prior to meeting x

& then they phone you all night from random numbers & hang up

crikey!! I guess building a rapport before disclosing such information is the key. Hopefully you'll get some idea of the type of person they are at an early stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no prob giving out my number ...so easy to block ...Def like to have a phone chat prior to meeting x

& then they phone you all night from random numbers & hang up

Unless you knew and completely trusted a man, I would put my house on you getting treated like this at some point if you give out your number.

These days with mobile data there are plenty of ways to stay in touch while traveling to a met.

It's a bit strange that he wouldn't give you his number and certainly a good reason for you not to go, since there would be no good reason for him to refuse.

If you were prepared to drive for two hours, then a basic £30 pay as you go phone would be a wise investment. To avoid being harassed in the middle of night. TBH I'm rather shocked and ashamed that other men treat women on this site like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Due to him not willing to swap numbers I have now cancelled out meet.... He has lost out big time.... X"

He sounded a bit sketchy to me anyway hun. Probably best that you did cancel it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time I gave a number out) after chatting for a few weeks and meeting a couple of times), I noticed they only ever seemed to contact me when THEY wanted fun.. When I asked, it was always a BS excuse.. Since I've changed sim and never give my number out.. There's no need to when you can all message through site..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tl;dr

Yes.

But get a swinging-specific phone, never give out personal numbers

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