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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Talking to a couple , they ask me if I want to meet them at theirs, after a few messages the meeting is agreed only for them to ask for £40 for sex,,,,, the cheek

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Report and block is best

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From the heads of the valleys or merthyr-ish? The user has had well over 20 profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a woman on here earlier asking for money to pay her rent. Some people have no shame

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Couple in late 30s from merthyr area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends what your doing if your drinking as well I myself wouldn't have a problem contributing to the cost of the drinks.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I guess it depends what your doing if your drinking as well I myself wouldn't have a problem contributing to the cost of the drinks.

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I'd someone asks you to their house for some fun surely a drink isn't out the question and plus if your driving should you be drinking! £40 quid for a call round is prostitution however you dress it up! This is a swingers site there are other sites for that if someone chooses to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends what your doing if your drinking as well I myself wouldn't have a problem contributing to the cost of the drinks.

I'd someone asks you to their house for some fun surely a drink isn't out the question and plus if your driving should you be drinking! £40 quid for a call round is prostitution however you dress it up! This is a swingers site there are other sites for that if someone chooses to do. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately it seems to be the way this thing is going...downhill...leaving me to begin considering whether to remain on here as an 'active' member (trying to find a genuine meet), or just to enjoy the entertainment on the Forums. Time will no doubt tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Talking to a couple , they ask me if I want to meet them at theirs, after a few messages the meeting is agreed only for them to ask for £40 for sex,,,,, the cheek "

Yeah they have mew profiles every other day. Normally start chatting on here then go to text and that's when they mention the charging. I report the profile every time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"From the heads of the valleys or merthyr-ish? The user has had well over 20 profiles. "

And made no attempt to make themselves sound like a different person.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

i reported one account yesterday 3 times fab really needs to up their game with the fake profiles and those who are using the site to advertise services

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't heard of this so far, but I only really started here last week.

Can someone message me a link to one of these profiles so I can look and learn how to avoid them

Steve

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I haven't heard of this so far, but I only really started here last week.

Can someone message me a link to one of these profiles so I can look and learn how to avoid them

Steve"

or hurtle to Merthyr wit £40

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funny

But I don't need to pay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny

But I don't need to pay"

I'm sure they were joking Steve. You'll learn to spot these kinds of members very quickly I'm sure. If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have reported the same couple a few times too by the sounds of it. People like that are making the site go down hill rapidly.

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

To be honest I've handed over a similar amount, but that was when we were using a hotel room, my friend had booked and paid for it. It did still feel a bit ... awkward, but didn't spoil the fun

I'm sure there are plenty of other ways they could advertise for punters not dragging this site down and spoil it for people who want to have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it depends what your doing if your drinking as well I myself wouldn't have a problem contributing to the cost of the drinks.

I'd someone asks you to their house for some fun surely a drink isn't out the question and plus if your driving should you be drinking! £40 quid for a call round is prostitution however you dress it up! This is a swingers site there are other sites for that if someone chooses to do. "

I am just saying that to some people it's acceptable and others not. I personally don't see it as prostitution and if I was going to be drinking I would gladly be willing to spilt the cost also not everyone drives.For me personally it's only polite to spilt the cost at the end of the day times are hard and I wouldn't go drinking somebody's else's alcohol without contributeing something myself. Personally £40 is a bit steep and I would avoid unless it was a hotel or something and then I would only help towards the cost of the room.

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By *ighugs69Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"I guess it depends what your doing if your drinking as well I myself wouldn't have a problem contributing to the cost of the drinks.

I'd someone asks you to their house for some fun surely a drink isn't out the question and plus if your driving should you be drinking! £40 quid for a call round is prostitution however you dress it up! This is a swingers site there are other sites for that if someone chooses to do.

I am just saying that to some people it's acceptable and others not. I personally don't see it as prostitution and if I was going to be drinking I would gladly be willing to spilt the cost also not everyone drives.For me personally it's only polite to spilt the cost at the end of the day times are hard and I wouldn't go drinking somebody's else's alcohol without contributeing something myself. Personally £40 is a bit steep and I would avoid unless it was a hotel or something and then I would only help towards the cost of the room."

Asking £40 to visit a house, even if you're giving food and drink is clearing a cash for services offer.

Personally if I tried to consume £40 worth of food and drink, all I'd be fit for is few hours sat in front of the television.

If it looks like a duck, walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck. Then it's someone trying to make money.

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By *r sugarandspiceMan
over a year ago

South Wales

at comments and replies

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

I/we, my lover and I would love to meet more often with others for 3somes and moresomes but the expense prevents us from doing that. So if they were to ask to meet us both, we would expect them to contribute to the cost of the meet.... After all they are the ones that asked us, not the other way round.

I don't mean to stir a hornets nest but I do think it's fare.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I/we, my lover and I would love to meet more often with others for 3somes and moresomes but the expense prevents us from doing that. So if they were to ask to meet us both, we would expect them to contribute to the cost of the meet.... After all they are the ones that asked us, not the other way round.

I don't mean to stir a hornets nest but I do think it's fare."

I get what your saying if it's transport and hotels, when it's a mutually agreed meet like that why should costs be split when like you said times are hard for some. But as previously stated. If you were asking someone to come to your house/flat, why would they need to pay anything when it's their petrol or taxis fair to come join you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont agree with paying at all no matter unless uts hotel but other than that its not that shit at all x

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales


"I/we, my lover and I would love to meet more often with others for 3somes and moresomes but the expense prevents us from doing that. So if they were to ask to meet us both, we would expect them to contribute to the cost of the meet.... After all they are the ones that asked us, not the other way round.

I don't mean to stir a hornets nest but I do think it's fare.

I get what your saying if it's transport and hotels, when it's a mutually agreed meet like that why should costs be split when like you said times are hard for some. But as previously stated. If you were asking someone to come to your house/flat, why would they need to pay anything when it's their petrol or taxis fair to come join you? "

Thanks for your understanding, I don't meet at my home but would meet at someone's else's and having said that if I was to meet at your or their home I would pay my own fuel costs and ask for nothing in return... unless they lived miles away and it was them that instigated the meet, then I would think it would only be fair to meet halfway with fuel costs.

Hard to explain here but I don't do this to make money, I do it because I enjoy it.

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