FabSwingers.com forum: confidence??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lots of different interests on this site. Tonight i asked people if they fancied a bit of chat and banter on chat and very little response! Confidence needs to boost in some people and this site would flourish i believe?

What you all think??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lots of different interests on this site. Tonight i asked people if they fancied a bit of chat and banter on chat and very little response! Confidence needs to boost in some people and this site would flourish i believe?

What you all think??"

People go on chat to chat. You find that banter can often lead to arguments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just weren't interested in you? Nothing to do with confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go into chat be yourself, if people get you they will have a bit of banter if not u can just block and chat to ppl you get on with. u will never get on with everyone on this site but there's plenty that you will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The forums are increasingly posts from people asking advice on "how to be a person"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they just weren't interested in you? Nothing to do with confidence."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you go into chat and ask people if they wanted to chat and banter?? Surely you would just join in whatever was going on. It's like guys who message asking "do you fancy a chat?" rather than just actually chatting. It makes me cringe

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you go into chat and ask people if they wanted to chat and banter?? Surely you would just join in whatever was going on. It's like guys who message asking "do you fancy a chat?" rather than just actually chatting. It makes me cringe"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly like the messages we have had where someones gone "can I ask you something?" Clearly just hoping for a reply in general. Just ask like haha!

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