FabSwingers.com forum: how to play????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi I'm new to all this and so far I have had absolutely no luck!

so I was woundering if anyone has any advices how to get a bit of luck

By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

First things first, you've been on here for a week. If you're looking for a quick return on your investment then I'd suggest going into town on a Friday or Saturday night and hitting the bars and clubs, as you'll get lucky with someone.

Secondly, as a single male you need to stand out. There's loads of us on here. The best advice I can offer for this is to 1) participate in the forums or the chat rooms to get yourself recognised; and 2) attend one of the many Socials that happen every couple of months - there's often one in Swansea so you've no excuse really.

I'd also suggest when contacting someone you make sure you've read their profile and that you meet what they're looking for - if not, it's usually a waste of your and their time so don't be surprised if your message is deleted without a reply.

With this lifestyle you'll only get out what you put in. If you put in the effort to get known then it'll pay dividends... if you don't then it won't.

Hope that helps.