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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Having just received a " hands off" message from someone about a guy we have it seems mutually met...advice on how you would reply be appreciated....im not a nasty person but this annoyed me and offended me as message was quute nasty. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My advice, try to ignore the message. There are troublemakers on here as everywhere, just rise above the abuse. As for the guy, let him decide.

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By *INKYCAT123Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

I have had a messege like this from a single fem about a single guy I chat&met up with,

My reply was this is a SWINGING site, get over yourself,

I also made the single guy aware of it and showed him the messege I received, (kat) x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a message last night saying if this woman finds out I was meeting a certain male when she was I will see a different side to her.

Said male I have only ever met socially at events and exchanged a few words, nothing more. I have also made this male aware of the message I received.

I replied instantly saying it was nothing to do with me and I have no idea why they would think so. Simples!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think all of these grievances should be settled in a jelly wrestling tournament.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But on a serious note, I'm with Kat on this one. It's swinging. Attachment (to the point of showing aggression/actually threatening violence to another individual) isn't part of the game.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, there are a few who seem to think this is a dating site and not a swinging site and get all possessive and attached. Thats fair enough if its both ways and you discuss it, but when its one sided it can get nasty and others get dragged into it which is totally unfair and unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off."

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off.

Exactly this "

& I wouldn't block her to make sure she can see any verifications or updates

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off.

Exactly this

& I wouldn't block her to make sure she can see any verifications or updates "

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By *INKYCAT123Couple
over a year ago

cardiff


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off."

Haha love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had one of these warnings from a guy.

Oh mercy me!!! I'm no shrinking violet so could deal with it appropriately, but he was interrogating me. What a plum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It also would seem that this has gone further and other people are getting messages about me and said single male.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off."

Ha ha brilliant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think all of these grievances should be settled in a jelly wrestling tournament. "

I agree, could we do this at the Newport social? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off."

lmfaoooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally I think all of these grievances should be settled in a jelly wrestling tournament. "

Lol. THIS.

I'd love to have ONE lady interested...I think I'd feel like I'd died and gone to heaven if there were two...!

Jelly-wrestling, all the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody class that one ...seabiscuit?? Pmsl love it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just tell whoever to google swinging and look up uncomplicated or better still go join match.com and hit block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As tempting as it would be to say fuck off I agree it's best to ignore but if only things could be as simple as it seems or it should be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Funny thing is she never informed me who bloody hell guy is...now she blocking and unblocking just to send nasty mail...and i quote ..she tells me that she has a clasd about her and im a filthy frump....ok ok i hold my hands up im a filthy minx with OCD...i think i will become a NUN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if she unblocking you just to bitch at you then blocking before you can reply, block the silly saddo then she cant unblock you and sent nasty messages. just ignore block her and have fun on here love xxxx tc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but that fem and anyone who gets possive about some they meet meet here is wrong.

Yes I will admit I have met someone I would love to spend more time with and there are times she sees others when I could see her but she has her own life to lead.

There are other times when I decide to do things and meet others without her.

We are all here to enjoy and have fun.

Now I need to find someone to be jealous and possive so I get some of you very sexy ladies to ride me like sea biscuit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"if she unblocking you just to bitch at you then blocking before you can reply, block the silly saddo then she cant unblock you and sent nasty messages. just ignore block her and have fun on here love xxxx tc "

Im all for blocking her but racking what little brains i have who the guy is, so i can then have even MORE fun with him, she wont stop me thats for sure xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if she unblocking you just to bitch at you then blocking before you can reply, block the silly saddo then she cant unblock you and sent nasty messages. just ignore block her and have fun on here love xxxx tc

Im all for blocking her but racking what little brains i have who the guy is, so i can then have even MORE fun with him, she wont stop me thats for sure xx"

Doh posted to early and should be now saying it's me lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry but that fem and anyone who gets possive about some they meet meet here is wrong.

Yes I will admit I have met someone I would love to spend more time with and there are times she sees others when I could see her but she has her own life to lead.

She wont stop me having fun lol, ive come to conclusion there is serial bunny boilers on here guys and gals but hey ho, my money is on sea biscuit or red rums third cousin twice removed....im on it kiddy up

There are other times when I decide to do things and meet others without her.

We are all here to enjoy and have fun.

Now I need to find someone to be jealous and possive so I get some of you very sexy ladies to ride me like sea biscuit."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if she unblocking you just to bitch at you then blocking before you can reply, block the silly saddo then she cant unblock you and sent nasty messages. just ignore block her and have fun on here love xxxx tc

Im all for blocking her but racking what little brains i have who the guy is, so i can then have even MORE fun with him, she wont stop me thats for sure xx"

Good attitude, that's the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a Cuckquean I just don't get this mentality, watching or knowing Chewy is enjoying other women is the horniest thing for me, I would never want to limit that activity. Takes all sorts I suppose X

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Players going to play..... Hand bags at 10 pace's ladys bet this guy is sat at home with a big cheesy grin on his face loving this thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well tbf its either a case like many guys on here that he wants his cake and eat it...

Or this female may have assumed they were playing exclusively or knows he's,not but wants to stop!!

Either way, by omitting the name of the guy I am failing to see what she hopes to achieve! This is a swinging site after all so quite how the recipient of the email knows who to avoid is beyond me!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As a Cuckquean I just don't get this mentality, watching or knowing Chewy is enjoying other women is the horniest thing for me, I would never want to limit that activity. Takes all sorts I suppose X"

Im with u on this one, i get all excited wstching a fb of mine pleasuring other ladys, huge turn on, driving me nuts now who silly cow on about xx

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By *ardiff123Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Just ignore them, they are looking for a reaction, not worth it.

Enjoy the lead up to Christmas & have some fun.

Don't let this sort of low life get you down.

Now all together breath in and a big smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a Cuckquean I just don't get this mentality, watching or knowing Chewy is enjoying other women is the horniest thing for me, I would never want to limit that activity. Takes all sorts I suppose X

Im with u on this one, i get all excited wstching a fb of mine pleasuring other ladys, huge turn on, driving me nuts now who silly cow on about xx"

Ah it's Xmas fuck all the guys on your friends list, you'll not miss him out then, plus they all get a Xmas bonus

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By *ovely kinkyCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Never experienced this but sounds a bit messed up to me! Jealousy is not something you want in these sorts of things. Just have fun and let other people enjoy their fun too

Rhi xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never experienced this but sounds a bit messed up to me! Jealousy is not something you want in these sorts of things. Just have fun and let other people enjoy their fun too

Rhi xxx"

I just now think she is obviously on wrong site xx wont stop me having fun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh god

Why do ppl get territorial?

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By *ovely kinkyCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Never experienced this but sounds a bit messed up to me! Jealousy is not something you want in these sorts of things. Just have fun and let other people enjoy their fun too

Rhi xxx

I just now think she is obviously on wrong site xx wont stop me having fun x"

Good, glad to hear it hun

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off."

Nobody ever offers to ride me like seabiscuit??.

Well not any more.

Maybe I should get a possessive fb who could then wind people up.

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!


"I'd ride him like Seabiscuit just to piss her off.

Exactly this "

Can somebody warn this lady away from me. Been dying for her to ride me like any famous horse (less Shergar! )

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cheers for all comments ive taken note and advice on board x i will do what i want she wont stop me x

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

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By *hegiftMan
over a year ago

everywhere


"Cheers for all comments ive taken note and advice on board x i will do what i want she wont stop me x"

You could always ride your meets like seabuscuit and get a pic of you doing so and post them just for her to see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cheers for all comments ive taken note and advice on board x i will do what i want she wont stop me x

You could always ride your meets like seabuscuit and get a pic of you doing so and post them just for her to see"

Now that's a great idea, I like it X

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