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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys, a mate of mine owns a bar in Bridgend and I was chatting to him about maybe putting on a swingers night once a month to start off and maybe once a week if it takes off It could be good for people who find other venues alittle far away!

It could be somewhere quiet, safe and fun to all get together and have social meets, a good laugh and some drinks! No charge to get in and maybe some drinks offers aswell!

Is there anything anyone would look for in an event/night like this? Any specific day? Certain music? Theme nights? Fancy dress? Any ideas then let me know!

I'll take everything anyone says and pass it on to him. If you feel it'd be a waste of time then dont be scared to say! But it could be a chance to have a close, quiet venue with a night you can have a say in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes that be great let me now if it take off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"yes that be great let me now if it take off "

Of course guys! Everyone will be invited to the nights if it gets up and running If you know anyone who'd be interested, get them to comment! If there's enough interest he's more than happy to sort it.

I'm torn between private (fab swingers only) night or a more open night where we can all have socials etc any suggestions welcome!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

And what about the Bridgend socials?

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

I'm up for this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are there hotels nearby ? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we'll pop in for a few x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And what about the Bridgend socials? "
Don't worry about bridgend, its still on xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what about the Bridgend socials? "

It wouldnt be about taking away any socials or trying to rival them just a bar with a night aimed at swingers any ideas about what could make them fun are appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there hotels nearby ? X"

I'll drop him a message now and ask! I also forgot to ask if there was a private function room if people would have preferred that I'll let you know!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"And what about the Bridgend socials? Don't worry about bridgend, its still on xx

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Glad to hear that hun, just don't understand why someone would do this when there is an established one in the area. Highly doubtful they would get enough people to make it a (financially) viable monthly thing, plus it detracts from the social as well.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"And what about the Bridgend socials? Don't worry about bridgend, its still on xx

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always a good social when jade does it there

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And what about the Bridgend socials? Don't worry about bridgend, its still on xx

Glad to hear that hun, just don't understand why someone would do this when there is an established one in the area. Highly doubtful they would get enough people to make it a (financially) viable monthly thing, plus it detracts from the social as well. "

We dont have to, I just thought I'd put it to everyone!

It could also just be another swinger-friendly venue that people could put socials on at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we think that's it a good idea give it a try and see who / how many turn up

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By *es2fungirlCouple
over a year ago

Swansea


"we think that's it a good idea give it a try and see who / how many turn up "

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By *tud6666Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Great idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys! If there were drinks offers on that night, any particular ones people prefer?? I'm a whiskey man but if everyone else prefers something (cider/cocktails/wine) let me know and I'll put it to him

Still waiting back on the hotels guys, but even if we dont end up putting on a night, if all you saucy people are going it might well end up becoming my local haha

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By *nion boyMan
over a year ago

bajeeh


"And what about the Bridgend socials? Don't worry about bridgend, its still on xx

Glad to hear that hun, just don't understand why someone would do this when there is an established one in the area. Highly doubtful they would get enough people to make it a (financially) viable monthly thing, plus it detracts from the social as well.

We dont have to, I just thought I'd put it to everyone!

It could also just be another swinger-friendly venue that people could put socials on at "

dont worry about him mate you not in his gang. good idea i will come if single blokes wanted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is enough room for many activities to go on I'm sure ...I be interested in a night like this ...live band would rock my world but hard to please everyone ...cocktails would be fun ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there hotels nearby ? X"

He said Travel Lodges are a 10 minute drive and the Wyndham is within a 5 minute walk


"There is enough room for many activities to go on I'm sure ...I be interested in a night like this ...live band would rock my world but hard to please everyone ...cocktails would be fun ..."

I'll ask about live bands! itd be cool to get some good cover bands in and cocktails haha!

Thanks for the support guys, like I said it could just be another nice venue for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a great idea. Ignore the naysayers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its all good, put my name down xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like a great plan.

is it in town?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great idea

And I know a few live bands if regular could get a deal mayb ?

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By *r n mrs zorroCouple
over a year ago

caerphilly

We would be interested in coming.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There is enough room for many activities to go on I'm sure ...I be interested in a night like this ...live band would rock my world but hard to please everyone ...cocktails would be fun ..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be interested x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is a great idea. Nice one! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you say swingers night, will there be playing allowed?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also what would be the rules for a single guy wanting to go?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you say swingers night, will there be playing allowed? "

No playing, more of a venue for people to meet up, have a drink, listen to music and have a laugh

He said there is accomodation 5 minutes away or travel lodges 10 mins if people dont want to drive or cant keep their hands off each other!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just another social then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So just another social then?"

If you have any ideas on how to make it more than 'just another social' feel free to say choice of music (live,requests,themed nights) certain cheaper drinks and offers, guestlist or just casual come and go as you please, whether youd want the bar closed for a private night or not etc

Its more that I found another venue with lovely owners willing to be really accommodating and open to suggestion from people on what theyd look for plus anyone could put organise their own oneonone socials there whenever they wanted, or bigger ones on one specific night

I only suggested the idea of it to him, it's up to you guys if you think its worth doing!

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By *ndyandMandyCouple
over a year ago

swansea

Friday evenings would be good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Friday evenings would be good"

Yeah any preference on nights would be good too guys! ive seen alot of socials on in Neath but theyre always in the day in the week so I can never go! I only get Sundays off work and Lady is on shifts so its finding ones that we can get to! We'd love to meet more of you lovely people!

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By *orken1985Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Sounds like a good idea, we be interested in coming x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can never please everyone so just give it a go. I imagine a Friday or Saturday night would be most popular. hope it goes well

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

If it was going to be a regular thing, maybe change the night each time so everyone has a chance of attending

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By *tu griffMan
over a year ago

bridgend

If it's s social that we can be a but more 'affectionate' I would love to come, wil do anyway. But I would be careful as it's the likes of me I wouldn't trust not to turn it into something that could go a bit too far?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If it was going to be a regular thing, maybe change the night each time so everyone has a chance of attending "

I'm meeting up with him next week so I can let him know what everyones said and suggested! I'll see if he wants to put a few nights on and see how it goes!


"If it's s social that we can be a but more 'affectionate' I would love to come, wil do anyway. But I would be careful as it's the likes of me I wouldn't trust not to turn it into something that could go a bit too far?"

There would be no playing at the venue, I imagine if anything did happen the people responsible would be removed by security and the nights may not carry on, so it'd ruin it for everyone. Especially when there's a hotel 5 minutes round the corner!

Thanks for the support everyone! hopefully we can pull off an enjoyable night for everyone that comes x

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By *arcus14Man
over a year ago

cowbridge

I'm Deffo up for it !

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

I think this is a great idea and we would be interested.

Saturday sounds good as I know alot are looking for things to do that date as chams is only Friday for swinging

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Any questions for the owner guys? Im with him today for awhile!

Wednesday nights hes thinking for a private closed bar night for swingers, its the middle of the week but the bar is open as normal over the weekends. Would people be able to make that?

Deals on drinks, DJ taking requests etc plus the hotel is only a minute walk away

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot


"Any questions for the owner guys? Im with him today for awhile!

Wednesday nights hes thinking for a private closed bar night for swingers, its the middle of the week but the bar is open as normal over the weekends. Would people be able to make that?

Deals on drinks, DJ taking requests etc plus the hotel is only a minute walk away "

Definitely in..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good to me especially as its only for swingers as some are reluctant to go x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds good to me especially as its only for swingers as some are reluctant to go x"

Itd probably be a guestlist based night so if its going ahead, Id ask some swingers with a bit more experience with putting events on for some help doing it!

Theres also choice of Wednesday nights or Sundays! whichever people would find easiest to get to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Sunday sounds good as I said if music is needed my mate if booked regular would do it at cost price xxx

Message me if interested

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A Sunday sounds good as I said if music is needed my mate if booked regular would do it at cost price xxx

Message me if interested "

I think we'd start out with a DJ at first just so theres something for everyone plus its easy enough to request everyones favourite songs too!

But if all goes well, we could try a few different nights in there (live rock night, fancy dress etc)

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sunday would be good. They're so sleepy and boring. Plus church in the morning and can re-sin again by the evening, haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sunday is best but be carefull not to clash with Club Bizzare at Omg in Swansea.

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By *arcus14Man
over a year ago

cowbridge

I think Sunday would be a good night as people would be more likely to come ? A dj is a must if pos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested too and Sunday is the best night to go for x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sunday it'll probaby be then guys! I had a good chat with him about it yesterday and he seems up for it! I saw some pictures of inside and it looks lovely aswell

Maybe starting less frequently (monthly) and becoming more often if the numbers are there

I'll see about organising a trial run before Christmas and we can see how it goes! Anyone interested in helping, just drop us a message!

x

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By *ason 3Couple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Yes it will work it works in gran canaria amazing free entry great we will visit when we can about time some one done it over here

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By *iterallymikeMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I'd definitely be up for this.

I think it should be kept to Fab users and anyone they invite rather than making it completely open. As for music/theme, perhaps change it each month? There's a great swingers club in Liverpool I used to go to that does a different theme each month so that if you don't like the music/costume, just go next time.

But yes, I'll keep an eye out for this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well the owner is definitely up for it and based on what everyones asked for, it'd most likely be a closed night on a Sunday for us (We'd have the whole bar to ourselves) with a DJ (taking requests, maybe looking to do certain themed nights if it took off and maybe live bands at some point) offers on drinks etc too Any more suggestions are still welcome!

It's really just a case of when to start and numbers of people wanting to go now, so I'll have a chat and let you all know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are definitely interested in coming ... Sunday's are good for us as no work on Mondays!

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By *onnie55Man
over a year ago

Port Talbot

Reaffirming interest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will you be vetting people?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Will you be vetting people? "

Im probably going to get someone with abit more experience putting on socials to help organise it, it would be a closed bar so it'd have to be some sort of list of people wanting to come I'd imagine..

Veris and a nice balance of couples and singles would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look forward to this happening

Sounds a really good idea x

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By *live and PopeyesCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope this comes off xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope this comes off xx"

Loving this idea, we need something fresh and new.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh this is where i am Could be interesting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This would be great, really hope it works and single guys are aloud lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good. Will there be any where to park camper?

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By *antasy-man69Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

I know a dj and and security if you need any x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ide be up for this if it gets going would need to find somewhere to stay as itd be nice to have a beer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds great to me...need to start mingling more.

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By *ountrygentMan
over a year ago

swansea

Great idea guys, but I think you would have to vet guests in some way though, if open to anyone it would soon spoil things for the genuine fabsters, hope it comes off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suspect this was just someone's fantasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any idea when plz ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any idea when plz ?"

Would before or after Christmas be better do you reckon? The owners up for starting whenever really, I'll drop him a message tomorrow!

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By *lay mate40Man
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Let me know

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By *antasy-man69Man
over a year ago

Bridgend

What club is it? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Will you be vetting people?

Im probably going to get someone with abit more experience putting on socials to help organise it, it would be a closed bar so it'd have to be some sort of list of people wanting to come I'd imagine..

Veris and a nice balance of couples and singles would be nice

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By *eanna31TV/TS
over a year ago

Llangeinor

Sounds like fun would it be TV friendly?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What bar is it? Haven't been out in bridgend since Astons burned down!

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"What bar is it? Haven't been out in bridgend since Astons burned down! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any update on this?? Would be good to have a rough idea so we can book work off etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in. Sounds like a great night x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For newcomers the idea of attending an organised social can be really scary so something a little less organised if you like could be good way to introduce x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Any update on this?? Would be good to have a rough idea so we can book work off etc "

Still in the process of gathering info on the safest and best way of hosting a social, in all fairness we have had some very good advice from some lovely people on here hopefully update you soon, theres alot going on christmas period with work and such so itll probably be after christmas when it calms down hope this helps!

Lady xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any update on this?? Would be good to have a rough idea so we can book work off etc

Still in the process of gathering info on the safest and best way of hosting a social, in all fairness we have had some very good advice from some lovely people on here hopefully update you soon, theres alot going on christmas period with work and such so itll probably be after christmas when it calms down hope this helps!

Lady xx "

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By *avaman20Man
over a year ago

swansea

That would be awesome for us singlies.

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By *aughty-But-Nice69Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Sounds like great fun ... I'm sure this will kick off .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id deffo be interested in this

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By *iss Kitty KatWoman
over a year ago

Neath

I'd be interested x

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By *vo8Man
over a year ago

bridgend

Sounds good let me know ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

To be honest guys, we've had so many negative messages since we suggested this that we think we're going to give it a miss. We only wanted to let people know about cool, quiet, friendly venue that people could've organised socials at but we've definitely been put off doing anything ourselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest guys, we've had so many negative messages since we suggested this that we think we're going to give it a miss. We only wanted to let people know about cool, quiet, friendly venue that people could've organised socials at but we've definitely been put off doing anything ourselves x"

awww that's such a pity was really looking forward to it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why did you receive negative messages? Surely something fresh and new could only be a plus?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest guys, we've had so many negative messages since we suggested this that we think we're going to give it a miss. We only wanted to let people know about cool, quiet, friendly venue that people could've organised socials at but we've definitely been put off doing anything ourselves x"

Gutted, some people are so grrrr

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

probably a good idea since that fiasco that made the national press 2 years back lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"probably a good idea since that fiasco that made the national press 2 years back lol"

What fiasco??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Told you all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Told you all "

If anyone else wants to organise something I'm sure the owner would still be more than happy to put a night on, but the amount of childishness from other people has put us off. Shame really. We'll still see you at other socials though!

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago


"probably a good idea since that fiasco that made the national press 2 years back lol

What fiasco??"

the swingers party in the conservative club .... google it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hardly a fiasco ...that was three years ago ...no problems since then

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Plus it was a social, so nothing went on, as with all socials!

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By *its_n_piecesCouple
over a year ago

i only posted to lighten the mood ... guess folks who know what bridgend and it's people are like will see the funny side of it and have a laff

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By *winger4uCoolMan
over a year ago

bridgend

id cum x

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By *uicy-trousersMan
over a year ago

Rhondda

I'm interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im still interested,ignore the nastinessxx

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By *iterallymikeMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I'd be up for this. If you could let me know when and where it would be good to break the ice and meet local swingers without the pressure of expectation.

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By *i_DoormanMan
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm dissapointed in you Lady, you didn't message me to let me know about this. We need to have a drink again soon! Been too bloody long!! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds good let us know x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm dissapointed in you Lady, you didn't message me to let me know about this. We need to have a drink again soon! Been too bloody long!! x"

Haha sorry dude!!! We were considering it yeah Lord and some of the lovely people here had some wonderful ideas maybe in the future ^.^ xx

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