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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I find it funny that lost days I get a message from straight guys asking if I want a bj, do most of the single guys get that desperate they go looking for men, not saying it's an issue (although I have to decline, I need there to be a woman in the bed). And if there willing to do it, why say they are straight? Confuses me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it funny that lost days I get a message from straight guys asking if I want a bj, do most of the single guys get that desperate they go looking for men, not saying it's an issue (although I have to decline, I need there to be a woman in the bed). And if there willing to do it, why say they are straight? Confuses me "

It's a common theme on here. A lot of single straight men will get messages from single 'straight' men.

Either pissing about or not actually straight Id say!

Back last year when looking for a bi guy, men would change from straight to bi on their profile just to try and get in on what we were offering.

People will chose their sexuality depending on what they want!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it very annoying myself in times but like you just said most do actually change to suit people's preferences hoping they would get lucky gladly I'm not one of those and I pigeon hole myself in the straight catergory each time even if it is hard to get a meet I'll keep trying and using my polite manners I'll get one soon

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not saying I wouldn't touch a mans bits haha but I only do it when the female part of a couple wants to see it, so I do class myself as straight and I do this because of a couple are generous enough to invite me, then it's only fair I make the experience the best I can for them both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying I wouldn't touch a mans bits haha but I only do it when the female part of a couple wants to see it, so I do class myself as straight and I do this because of a couple are generous enough to invite me, then it's only fair I make the experience the best I can for them both "

So your possibly bi curious if your asked to be by the right couple/fem yet you don't put bi curious on your profile?

Guys put straight on their profile when they are bi for many different reasons. Some because lots of females and couples won't meet bi guys. Some because they have straight mates or family on here that they don't want to know they are bi.

I can understand both reasons although we'd prefer if everyone was honest it's just not possible sometimes.

So in answer to why your getting messages of straight guys asking you for a bj, it's because they don't know if your like the many other bi guys and for whatever reason can't or won't put it on your profile so they message you in the hope that you are also bi. Take it as a compliment and stop winging! Women and couples get far worse messages and in much larger numbers! Like them you also have the option to delete.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Not saying I wouldn't touch a mans bits haha but I only do it when the female part of a couple wants to see it, so I do class myself as straight and I do this because of a couple are generous enough to invite me, then it's only fair I make the experience the best I can for them both

So your possibly bi curious if your asked to be by the right couple/fem yet you don't put bi curious on your profile?

Guys put straight on their profile when they are bi for many different reasons. Some because lots of females and couples won't meet bi guys. Some because they have straight mates or family on here that they don't want to know they are bi.

I can understand both reasons although we'd prefer if everyone was honest it's just not possible sometimes.

So in answer to why your getting messages of straight guys asking you for a bj, it's because they don't know if your like the many other bi guys and for whatever reason can't or won't put it on your profile so they message you in the hope that you are also bi. Take it as a compliment and stop winging! Women and couples get far worse messages and in much larger numbers! Like them you also have the option to delete. "

I'm not winging, I quite like the attention haha. And to answer what your saying, i don't see it as bi curios because I don't fancy men, I couldn't meet 1 on 1 with a man, I do it because it gets the woman all hot and bothered, at least some of them, if they don't ask I have no urge to do it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying I wouldn't touch a mans bits haha but I only do it when the female part of a couple wants to see it, so I do class myself as straight and I do this because of a couple are generous enough to invite me, then it's only fair I make the experience the best I can for them both

So your possibly bi curious if your asked to be by the right couple/fem yet you don't put bi curious on your profile?

Guys put straight on their profile when they are bi for many different reasons. Some because lots of females and couples won't meet bi guys. Some because they have straight mates or family on here that they don't want to know they are bi.

I can understand both reasons although we'd prefer if everyone was honest it's just not possible sometimes.

So in answer to why your getting messages of straight guys asking you for a bj, it's because they don't know if your like the many other bi guys and for whatever reason can't or won't put it on your profile so they message you in the hope that you are also bi. Take it as a compliment and stop winging! Women and couples get far worse messages and in much larger numbers! Like them you also have the option to delete.

I'm not winging, I quite like the attention haha. And to answer what your saying, i don't see it as bi curios because I don't fancy men, I couldn't meet 1 on 1 with a man, I do it because it gets the woman all hot and bothered, at least some of them, if they don't ask I have no urge to do it. "

At the start most bi curious guys don't usually fancy men they just want to play with them. I'm sorry but doesn't matter which way you look at it if your a man playing with a cock your at least bi curious!

A straight man would say no whoever asked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not saying I wouldn't touch a mans bits haha but I only do it when the female part of a couple wants to see it, so I do class myself as straight and I do this because of a couple are generous enough to invite me, then it's only fair I make the experience the best I can for them both

So your possibly bi curious if your asked to be by the right couple/fem yet you don't put bi curious on your profile?

Guys put straight on their profile when they are bi for many different reasons. Some because lots of females and couples won't meet bi guys. Some because they have straight mates or family on here that they don't want to know they are bi.

I can understand both reasons although we'd prefer if everyone was honest it's just not possible sometimes.

So in answer to why your getting messages of straight guys asking you for a bj, it's because they don't know if your like the many other bi guys and for whatever reason can't or won't put it on your profile so they message you in the hope that you are also bi. Take it as a compliment and stop winging! Women and couples get far worse messages and in much larger numbers! Like them you also have the option to delete.

I'm not winging, I quite like the attention haha. And to answer what your saying, i don't see it as bi curios because I don't fancy men, I couldn't meet 1 on 1 with a man, I do it because it gets the woman all hot and bothered, at least some of them, if they don't ask I have no urge to do it.

At the start most bi curious guys don't usually fancy men they just want to play with them. I'm sorry but doesn't matter which way you look at it if your a man playing with a cock your at least bi curious!

A straight man would say no whoever asked! "

As a straight man I agree it's just not what straight guys do !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I completely agree with you both, but I joined up with an open mind, if I wanted normal sex, we could all just go out and get it, maybe I am a little curious as you said I wouldn't do it otherwise, all I'm saying is if I was that curious surely I'd go meet a man and experience it, but that actually sounds disgusting to me, my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I completely agree with you both, but I joined up with an open mind, if I wanted normal sex, we could all just go out and get it, maybe I am a little curious as you said I wouldn't do it otherwise, all I'm saying is if I was that curious surely I'd go meet a man and experience it, but that actually sounds disgusting to me, my opinion "

But that's the point I'm making, if guys are messaging you asking for bjs it's because they don't know if you are bi or straight and as you've just admitted your at least a little curious their messages are justified.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I completely agree with you both, but I joined up with an open mind, if I wanted normal sex, we could all just go out and get it, maybe I am a little curious as you said I wouldn't do it otherwise, all I'm saying is if I was that curious surely I'd go meet a man and experience it, but that actually sounds disgusting to me, my opinion

But that's the point I'm making, if guys are messaging you asking for bjs it's because they don't know if you are bi or straight and as you've just admitted your at least a little curious their messages are justified. "

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