FabSwingers.com forum: Is it time to delete?!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

It's also frustrating as people are more than happy to gawp at your pics, fab them, wink you and send you pointless messages which always seem to end up just strange fantasy chat... Is it time to delete?!

If anyone leaves me a veri after visiting my profile and looking at my pics alone, I will actually have not only a boner, but quite possibly a stroke.. Hahaha! Getting a veri or meet is like a sacred thing on this site.. It's also frustrating when you have met someone and they can't be arsed to veri back... Yeah, nice one!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe attend the single social

Or neath day social to meet people face to face and get yourself verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

As an unvarified single male you would be extremely lucky to get any response to a meet that you post, your profile is quite long and pretty strange for a single guy, u only really need to say what your about what you like etc just a brief description of what your here for, the whole put "monkey" in subject heading bit is that really necessary? If your getting that much mail maybe I should change my profile lol

Try going into chat or getting to a social, or just slug it out like the rest of us when we all first joined

it's hard work but when u get into it its worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

Try going into chat or getting to a social, or just slug it out like the rest of us when we all first joined

it's hard work but when u get into it its worth it

Quite strange.. Different.. The monkey thing was mainly to see how many people can be arsed to read profile info, and mainly drive out the size queens who see a pic of a large dick, and instantly message you, regardless of what info is on your profile.. I've had this so much in the past on this site and fabguys.. I think most of the info there states what I'm looking for.. For an experiment though, I will just add "SEX" to my profile info, maybe this will attract more strange people. The best info thus far is attending a social meet, etc..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe attend the single social

Or neath day social to meet people face to face and get yourself verified

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

Try going into chat or getting to a social, or just slug it out like the rest of us when we all first joined

it's hard work but when u get into it its worth it

pmsl maybe your attitude is the issue??? no thanks required though good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

Try going into chat or getting to a social, or just slug it out like the rest of us when we all first joined

it's hard work but when u get into it its worth it

pmsl maybe your attitude is the issue??? no thanks required though good luck

I'm quite sound, just mirror sarcasm when I see it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sarcasm, genuine advice have been on and off here for 4 years so have a fair idea of how to write a decent profile and the correct way to go about actually getting to know people and eventually meeting someone so take my advice as sarcasm if u wish your choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

Try going into chat or getting to a social, or just slug it out like the rest of us when we all first joined

it's hard work but when u get into it its worth it

Believe it or not, women (most anyway) will read a profile, and tbh having to write something to prove it is quite off putting. There are about 50 men here for every woman, or couples so they/we can be very selective. A well written profile and getting involved in banter on forums or chat goes a long way. You were given some good advice after asking for it and didn't take it well. Even to the point where you have written 'sex' instead of a decent profile. Its not going to get you a meet, and neither will it get you verified.

I suggest taking the good advice you were given by all and doing something about your profile, going to socials and chatting on forums or chat.

Good luck

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

U have been given the best advice u can have on a site like this it is hard to get verified as a single male but try going into the chatrooms and having a bit of banter on the forums, attend a few socials show people you are genuine

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"U have been given the best advice u can have on a site like this it is hard to get verified as a single male but try going into the chatrooms and having a bit of banter on the forums, attend a few socials show people you are genuine

Mrs"

Thanks! Not sure if chatrooms are available to those who aren't supporters? In the past I've never used such things or forums and have relied heavily on just local meets, which won't always guarantee a decent meet. Unfortunately this method only seems to conjure up alot older, single men.. :/ thanks for the info! Down here there aren't many social meetings, if at all. I would like to attend some, but can find problems in the travel department... :/

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When is it time to delete?! I've personally posted a dozen or so meets, and to no response whatsoever. It's frustrating as I've only been photo verified, and not yet fully verified.

I mean, how genuine do you have to be in order to either get a meet or be verified?!

Try going into chat or getting to a social, or just slug it out like the rest of us when we all first joined

it's hard work but when u get into it its worth it

I suggest taking the good advice you were given by all and doing something about your profile, going to socials and chatting on forums or chat.

Good luck"

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chat rooms are for everyone's use not just supporters, come into wales room there are lots of swansea and further down people in there xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"chat rooms are for everyone's use not just supporters, come into wales room there are lots of swansea and further down people in there xxx"

Thanks, kitten. Will try that, hopefully I can find what I'm looking for. As I say previously, the meets here are dull, and always seems to go in their favour, ie, what THEY want, but can never have the common decency to return the favour, let alone ask anything similar. It's very much a case of - stick your cock through the hole in my door, let me suck you off and take a picture of it my side, then bugger off-like attitude. Didn't realise there were such rooms available, as the only thing I seemed to stick with was the "see who's near" option, as travel is so restricted with myself. Thanks again, will give this a go now! Seen this available option too many times now to knock it, just didn't realise it was available to everyone, as the cam option (which is one I would have tried) was only available to supporters.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I cannot believe the chat option has only now just been found after some helpful hints.. Feel like such a div, now :/ are the cams available to non-supporters.. Still a bit alien to me.. :/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you can view a cam or put yours on

I didn't mention chat as sometimes it can be hard in chat as well

But always worth a try

Join in on the forums and have a laugh and banter, use the site to get to know people rather then just inbox outbox

And the two socials I mentioned are the only ones I believe that you can attend without a veri

Anyway wish you all the best xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yeah you can view a cam or put yours on

I didn't mention chat as sometimes it can be hard in chat as well

But always worth a try

Join in on the forums and have a laugh and banter, use the site to get to know people rather then just inbox outbox

And the two socials I mentioned are the only ones I believe that you can attend without a veri

Anyway wish you all the best xx "

Thanks, much appreciated! Finding it a lil tedious in the chat side of things as conversation can already be in full swing, but will stick to it and join in on forum banter

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