FabSwingers.com forum: ways that fab has changed you ...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

After having a conversation with someone vanilla I realised that not all girls wear stockings during sex ...

Pre fab I'd not worn stockings or hold ups in years. These days I don't feel in Kgirl character without them.

Thoughts...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After having a conversation with someone vanilla I realised that not all girls wear stockings during sex ...

Pre fab I'd not worn stockings or hold ups in years. These days I don't feel in Kgirl character without them.

Thoughts...?"

hell im so old tights werent invented so i have always worn stocking and sussies specially during sex lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i didnt realise how much it had changed me until i went on a vanilla date recently. i think my confidence has grown and i realise that im just a dirty boy... cant help it so best i just embrace i guess ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It opened my eyes to how much fun sex can be

Plus it made me realise that things I wanted to do or try weren't perverted in fact some people are into worse stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm surprised how many people are actually swingers, tend to play game of swingers or not if bored having coffee out and about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally ruined my ability to do vanilla dates

And made me give even less of a fuck what other people think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I was quite kinky and open minded before joining here but some of the things I have seen have made even me go

I have fine tuned my fantasies though and discovered that I'm super fussy and that I get easily put off by little things.

Mrs x

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"It opened my eyes to how much fun sex can be

Plus it made me realise that things I wanted to do or try weren't perverted in fact some people are into worse stuff "

This for me too. I just love the openmindedness (if there's such a word) of the lifestyle.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Don't really know if it has change me for the best to be honest. its certainly increased my circle of friends, and maybe improved my confidence a little, which was really low. plus i occasionally get my willy wet every few weeks, which is much better than every few years like the bad old days haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ups and downs

(Charlie)

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

"Ups and downs

(Charlie)"

In and outs too? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ups and downs

(Charlie)

In and outs too? Lol

Shake it all about

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Quite a few things people have said above, lush and miss hit the nails on the head. Definitely given me more confidence and that I like wearing nice underwear now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In some ways it has made me more confident. It has reminded me how much I love to flirt for the fun of it.

It is also helping me discover who I am, and who I want to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that it's opened my eyes to a whole lot of sexually I was not experiencing an now I ain't looking back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't really know if it has change me for the best to be honest. its certainly increased my circle of friends, and maybe improved my confidence a little, which was really low. plus i occasionally get my willy wet every few weeks, which is much better than every few years like the bad old days haha "

pmsl xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"After having a conversation with someone vanilla I realised that not all girls wear stockings during sex ...

Pre fab I'd not worn stockings or hold ups in years. These days I don't feel in Kgirl character without them.

Thoughts...?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely more confident and starting to get sassy with it lol

Nice matching underwear at all times ...I even walk differently lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"Definitely more confident and starting to get sassy with it lol

Nice matching underwear at all times ...I even walk differently lol "

That HDs big willy making you walk funny lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone mentions anything being "fab" or says they're getting a fab lolly, my ears prick up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've come to realise that even the fattest, ugliest of women can still get laid. And there are way more bi people than straight in the world.

For me, it has made me admit to myself that I don't really need sex to feel good about myself and will happily go long periods without it rather than fuck just anyone who offers.

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

Fab has given me much more confidence

I would say it's made me kinkier but it hasn't

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely given me more confidence ...after being put down a lot in past its really uplifting and a nice feeling when on meets guys are blown away... or say wow etc

It has also like others said made me struggle with vanilla dates etc...not naughty enough..different views etc x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Definitely more confident and starting to get sassy with it lol

Nice matching underwear at all times ...I even walk differently lol

That HDs big willy making you walk funny lol"

Lmfao you could be right there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wore nice underwear and had great sex before joining fab...(other sites are available

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I guess it has helped my confidence levels as I used to be quite shy with people I didn't know really well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Totally ruined my ability to do vanilla dates

And made me give even less of a fuck what other people think"

This for me, plus my confidence has grown & I now don't really care much who likes me or not, I am who I am & that's a sexually confident woman who is happy in her skin & with her life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has made me very distrustful of people on here Im sorry to say. It wasnt so bad when I first joined many moons ago. Its seeems to have got worse over the last 4 or 5 years.

Im not having a go at single guys as Ive found women just as bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree with you Bubbs our eyes have been opened to how narrow-minded people are, in our vanilla life we used to think everyone was genuine, show's how wrong we can be lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Luckily I have an amazing family and a good circle of vanilla mates who Ive know most of my life.

Theres a few on Fab too who are alright like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not been on here that long but before fab I always felt fat and unattractive. Since joining this site ive picked up more confidence and learnt to love my body. Also gained the ability to spot a swinger a mile off and finally I've learnt im an alright story writer x

cant be bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not been on here that long but before fab I always felt fat and unattractive. Since joining this site ive picked up more confidence and learnt to love my body. Also gained the ability to spot a swinger a mile off and finally I've learnt im an alright story writer x

cant be bad

Its all good and your a great story writer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant be bad

Its all good and your a great story writer

Thanks lovely so are you xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My confidence has grown some what since join fab

I've got to the stage where I don't give a toot what people on here think about me as the ones that don't like me or tend to make my life a lil bit harder on here don't actually know me

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By *romiscuous PrincessWoman
over a year ago

Valleys

"Fab has made me very distrustful of people on here Im sorry to say. It wasnt so bad when I first joined many moons ago. Its seeems to have got worse over the last 4 or 5 years.

Im not having a go at single guys as Ive found women just as bad.

Completely agree..... I've learnt not to believe everything you hear or see for that matter either

made me cautious about who I chose to meet and befriend, but made some lovely friends and had some amazing new experiences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's given me a platform to explore a few things over the years but those days are gone.

Fab is now a platform for people to paint facades or bitch......its officially got boring......Adios

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It as opened my eyes big time.

I look at people and think to myself are you into swinging.

I have made some really good friends to. Life is for living and enjoying it to the full.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've changed.

I never used to invite people to my house for sex and fun. .. and I never used to have a cross, chains, paddles and assorted bdsm kit in my bathroom!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changed me for the better....confidence for the first time ever lol xx

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By *aws28Man
over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too!!

Flabbergasted that men like my curves.

I always felt ashamed and shy before, definitely grown in coincidence recently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has made me very distrustful of people on here Im sorry to say. It wasnt so bad when I first joined many moons ago. Its seeems to have got worse over the last 4 or 5 years.

Im not having a go at single guys as Ive found women just as bad.

Completely agree..... I've learnt not to believe everything you hear or see for that matter either

made me cautious about who I chose to meet and befriend, but made some lovely friends and had some amazing new experiences

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its made me a paranoid schizophrenic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Made me rise above the gossips and not take the bait when being goaded. Same as in vanilla situations ie work. Haters can exit stage left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops forgot, also not all single men are douchebags, there are some absolute babes on here just gotta dig through. They know who they are

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Made me rise above the gossips and not take the bait when being goaded. Same as in vanilla situations ie work. Haters can exit stage left.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has made me realise that there's far more to life than just getting laid...

And I got laid far more often BEFORE I joined Fab than since, simply by being nice to people.

It has also made me realise that far more people are willing to hide behind their computers and be unpleasant, dismissive or just downright snidey than I ever thought was possible. Fab should be a place where like-minded folk gather to enjoy a common interest, not like the 'one-up' fest that it has become of late.

There ARE some really nice people on here, but sadly they are completely swamped by the number of messers and people who don't understand or simply don't give a fuck about others.

Rant over.

My time on here is over, and am going to find other avenues for my time and energies. Something constructive. My profile is going to remain open for 24 hours to give my friends on here a chance to message if they want to stay in touch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I have learnt.

People will say anything to get sex, becouse too many people belive them.

What people want, and what they can a achive are not the same.

NSA sex for women is not always what it means to men.

There are any profiles that wouldn't meet themselves. ..

But still learning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's taught me that even showing their bits in their avatar pics they still demand to be taken seriously

That some are very picky and easily offended

That some are terrible spellers doesn't bother me mind we all do it

That some are not what they purport to be

That beauty truly is in the eye of the beholder

That my humour is way over most people's heads

That even the nicest women I've got chatting to and formed friendships with don't keep in touch unless I do

That their are such diversely different people

That I need more than sex

That clubs are very expensive and very much dominated by women and couples and yet funded by men!!##@@

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By *reshcplCouple
over a year ago

pembs

It's like coming home to where you belong. Love chatting and makes friends with people who's minds work the same (thought I was weird for a while lol). Socials have given us a great new circle of friends, and alowed us to be who we are.

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