FabSwingers.com forum: Bit of a rant....sorry all

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sorry for ranting but just felt had to share and find peoples opinions.

Yes I'm a single female.

Yes I'm a few extra pounds.

Does that make me desperate..... No.

I am who I am and if people don't like it then that's up to them, but just move on.

Can't believe the cheek and audacity of a few people over last day or so, who have thought it was ok to point out the fact I'm a larger lady and then continue to say that I must be in desparate need of a good hard seeing too as I ain't going to get it anywhere else!!!! Grrrrrrrr

Then another who thinks it's ok to offer money for a meet and yes I replied and said no thanks not my thing but had a comeback reply of 80 for a bj and fuck.

Arghhh getting very frustrated at the amount of d***heads who are here.

I know there are genuinely nice men here too and to them I say Thank you.

To the arses I say crawl back under your stones.

Ok rant over.

Sorry everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we all get our fair share of these. That's why we have delete and block buttons, just ignore. They are the desperate ones wjrh nothing better to do but to say shit like that to people.

Ive been offered money loads. Ive also had people tell me I won't ever get anything on here because im fat. Someone also said no amount of sexy underwear wjll work on me and that you can't Polish a turd, it's still a turd.

Can't all be everyone's taste, and some people feel so shit about themselves they feel the need to put others down.

Ignore it lovely. As you said there are some great ones on here so just concentrate on that xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This has become a regular occurrence over recent months, you need to report, block & move on to the genuine single guys, there's a few about. The shit guys are usually UNLOS within hours or days & they're not worth stressing about tbh. I know it's easier said than done sometimes x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly guys like this ruin it for genuine but like above posts ignore block and move on cos these guys dont last long on site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately, as in real life, a percentage of the populace have no idea how to talk to people.

The thing that makes this place worse is the level of anonymity afforded by sitting behind a keyboard/phone.

It can be a very schoolyard-like environment, which a lot of times can be extraordinarily fun, but at others can be oppressive and unpleasant.

Ignore the idiots, seek out the diamonds, and you'll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you all xx

Yes trying to out the decent genuine ones from the arses.

I shouldve remembered what it was like from last time but I guess it was inevitably going to happen at some point. Xxx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Hi

I'm sorry for ranting but just felt had to share and find peoples opinions.

Yes I'm a single female.

Yes I'm a few extra pounds.

Does that make me desperate..... No.

I am who I am and if people don't like it then that's up to them, but just move on.

Then another who thinks it's ok to offer money for a meet and yes I replied and said no thanks not my thing but had a comeback reply of 80 for a bj and fuck.

Arghhh getting very frustrated at the amount of d***heads who are here.

I know there are genuinely nice men here too and to them I say Thank you.

To the arses I say crawl back under your stones.

Ok rant over.

Sorry everyone

Honey the ones that send that kind of message wouldn't know how to treat any kind of lady with respect and decency. Unfortunately we have to take the rough with the smooth, not a good excuse but it's the only one.

There's a lot on here that can talk a good talk. There's the ones who like to play the games. And then there's the idiots. Get them bloody everywhere tho that's the problem!

Like the others said report and block xx

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I'm still looking for a diamond. Not greedy, just one would do! Ok then those that know me know that I am greedy lol....

Back on the subject though, I was once told that this site isn't called "swinging, fat grannies". I said that's ok then cos I'm not a granny....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you both xxx

Yes doing the usual. Sorry for ranting everyone.

Just you know when you get to that point and it's just........

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"Thank you both xxx

Yes doing the usual. Sorry for ranting everyone.

Just you know when you get to that point and it's just........"

Hey you can rant if you want too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am so sorry to hear this.

If they are insulting block them. If they aren't nice and think being rude to you is the right way to go about it they are wrong.

For the single guys there... Serendipity is more than worth the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm still looking for a diamond. Not greedy, just one would do! Ok then those that know me know that I am greedy lol....

Back on the subject though, I was once told that this site isn't called "swinging, fat grannies". I said that's ok then cos I'm not a granny....

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I am and proud of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you both xxx

Yes doing the usual. Sorry for ranting everyone.

Just you know when you get to that point and it's just........"

You exactly right in what you say....you are who you are and everyone has there own special attributes....

There is no room at all for arseholes on this site....so support your fellow fabbers....report block and move on because there are some really nice men on this site that are suitable for really nice honest people like yourself x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you everyone.

Yes block is becoming a habit lately. And report.

But there are some decent fun genuine single guys out there, I can fully support now how hard it is for them to get replies from us ladies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am so sorry to hear this.

If they are insulting block them. If they aren't nice and think being rude to you is the right way to go about it they are wrong.

For the single guys there... Serendipity is more than worth the effort.

Thanks,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I'm sorry for ranting but just felt had to share and find peoples opinions.

Yes I'm a single female.

Yes I'm a few extra pounds.

Does that make me desperate..... No.

I am who I am and if people don't like it then that's up to them, but just move on.

Then another who thinks it's ok to offer money for a meet and yes I replied and said no thanks not my thing but had a comeback reply of 80 for a bj and fuck.

Arghhh getting very frustrated at the amount of d***heads who are here.

I know there are genuinely nice men here too and to them I say Thank you.

To the arses I say crawl back under your stones.

Ok rant over.

Sorry everyone

just ignore those stupd twits hun. we are all people slim, large, or like me larger, young, old or like me older. and the men that offer to pay you just block and report think they do get confused between the "working girls" so to speak and the "non working girls", block, move on and have lots of fun there are some really lovely people on here take care kittsxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really sorry to read this. I agree with Clit Girl. It's the insecure men that can't handle rejection that will find something - anything - to pick on.

I have been told that I'm full of myself, stuck up, I'm a posh tart, and think I'm something special when I'm not just because I don't want to meet people. Tossers.

Even low quality people know that picking on a woman's body is an easy way to hurt her feelings. They are probably just angry because they are so unloved in general. Don't take it personally

Rise above them. Immediately block offers of money or gifts for sex - don't even respond. Generally I just delete other messages that don't interest me rather than respond as a rule.

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

Sorry to hear this but like the others have said block them they obviously feel insecure about themselves to feel the need to take it out on other people sad really but there are guys like that but then there are some really nice and genuine guys out there. Chin up and keep smiling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not related to the rant etc but thought I'd just point out you have the most beautiful eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not related to the rant etc but thought I'd just point out you have the most beautiful eyes.

that's not all she has that is beautiful....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True beauty starts from within hun for those who can't see that then they are not worth your time or effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear you have had disrespectful unsolicited messages. Good guys know this is not the correct way to treat a lady.Like others have already said ,amongst those who don't get it or don't know how to treat a woman there are some great single men on here too that are decent and respectful.

I may not be popular after saying this but feel I have to make a point here to balance the argument. There are also some women on here that contribute to the poor behaviour shown by some men. For example, asking for gifts and meals etc in exchange for meets. In my opinion both parties should make equal effort when it comes to arranging meets not one person buying gifts and or paying for everything. That isn't swinging its a business arrangement. Its no wonder some men get the wrong idea at times. I've seen it so many times buy me gifts, looking for someone to treat me and spoil me etc. If people want to sell themselves in whatever way they choose then fine. I'm not against prostitution either just for the record.

This post isn't meant to offend anyone but all too often on here the finger is pointed at the single guy. In this instance rightly so. I'm just trying to highlight that similar enabling behaviour also comes from some women and couples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you to everyone who has responded.

The support has been wonderful. It reminds me why I am here. How many nice people there are here.

I agree with the last comments also, there are those that do that too, which yes doesn't help at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not related to the rant etc but thought I'd just point out you have the most beautiful eyes.

that's not all she has that is beautiful...."

Thank you to the above comment and to Taliesin thanks blushing now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi

I'm sorry for ranting but just felt had to share and find peoples opinions.

Yes I'm a single female.

Yes I'm a few extra pounds.

Does that make me desperate..... No.

I am who I am and if people don't like it then that's up to them, but just move on.

Then another who thinks it's ok to offer money for a meet and yes I replied and said no thanks not my thing but had a comeback reply of 80 for a bj and fuck.

Arghhh getting very frustrated at the amount of d***heads who are here.

I know there are genuinely nice men here too and to them I say Thank you.

To the arses I say crawl back under your stones.

Ok rant over.

Sorry everyone

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a few sad people ruin it for all...forget them...have fun and banter with the good guys who appriciate a good women...ignore the dickheads x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww the op is lovely, just block the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put a similar post up a Cpl weeks bk had the Same problem

It is upsetting when it happens but

Like everyone else's good advice block um

I'm the larger lady

Lol sometimes a lady hahaha

And I've met some really lovely guys here

Everyone has a quality someone else finds attractive

These guys are more insecure than anyone

Xxx

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