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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Guys

Ladies get 100's if messages.

I've found some simple guidelines I use on this site

1: be yourself, after all everyone else is being theirselves

2: be polite/respectful. A little respect goes s long way. Don't expect a reply with 2 minutes, the lady has other things on her mind. Yes I know they can multi task.

3:don't be pushy. Nobody likes being pushed. Take your time. They won't be going anywhere soon

4: if addressing a couple, use their names, not hi both, guys, folks. After all you were named by your parents.

5: give the other people some space. If they reply to your first message. Don't reply with in 5 seconds. Think about what you want to say.

6: if you are going to meet, TURN up. If you've been lucky enough to have a mobile number, text or call to say you are on your way.

7: always always practice safe sex. Always offer the condom at the beginning of your play time.

8: leave a nice verification. Don't be crude. Don't give away real names or address.

9: let the lady suggest some ideas. Don't go in all guns blazing claiming to be the best bull/Dom on the site.

10: last but not least. No lady or couple are impressed by a picture of your best friend. It's not what you got but what you can do with it.

I know I'm likely to get slated for some/all of this. But as you can see I'm not talking complete tosh.

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By *20 And ChillMan
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Don't all these really go without saying ?...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't all these really go without saying ?... "

They should yes. But after seeing some of the ladies status and their profile text, I thought I might just point some out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let natural selection deal with that mate. To be fair I appreciate what you're saying but it won't change much. You've either got respect for others or you're going to fall at the first hurdle. Let them fall. It will make gents like yourself stand out and that can only be a good thing for you and the ladies you're interested in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11. Offer them a game of ludo.

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By *astmeetswest77Couple
over a year ago

monmouth

Don't get on the guys case. Three veri's in seven weeks is good going for a single guy.

He must be doing something right.

Should keep it to yourself though or all the bellends will be at it. Instead of writing "fancy a fuck"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate it when your nice and police and then your ignored.

Oh well better to keep trying. Maybe one day a lady will reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"11. Offer them a game of ludo."

I prefer tiddlywinks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"11. Offer them a game of ludo.

I prefer tiddlywinks "

I'm not convinced I was asking you... But if I don't get any bites from the lasses I'll be sure to gravitate towards you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I just clarify - men always say " you must get loads of messages" " you women get 100's of messages "

I may be the only one but literally I get far from 100's of messages. Today, for example ive had 5 at the most!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just clarify - men always say " you must get loads of messages" " you women get 100's of messages "

I may be the only one but literally I get far from 100's of messages. Today, for example ive had 5 at the most!!!"

Very surprised at this. .you have hot pics and great veries. ..it has been quiet today though... enjoy the peace and quiet xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just clarify - men always say " you must get loads of messages" " you women get 100's of messages "

I may be the only one but literally I get far from 100's of messages. Today, for example ive had 5 at the most!!!

Very surprised at this. .you have hot pics and great veries. ..it has been quiet today though... enjoy the peace and quiet xxx"

I really don't mind not getting 100's of messages. 99 of them would only be shit Id delete im sure anyeay.

( thanks for the compliments though! )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just clarify - men always say " you must get loads of messages" " you women get 100's of messages "

I may be the only one but literally I get far from 100's of messages. Today, for example ive had 5 at the most!!!

Very surprised at this. .you have hot pics and great veries. ..it has been quiet today though... enjoy the peace and quiet xxx

I really don't mind not getting 100's of messages. 99 of them would only be shit Id delete im sure anyeay.

( thanks for the compliments though! )"

90 are fancy a fuck

8 are il in your area

2 are decent

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't get on the guys case. Three veri's in seven weeks is good going for a single guy.

He must be doing something right.

Should keep it to yourself though or all the bellends will be at it. Instead of writing "fancy a fuck""

Thank you. I guess I must be. It's just called good old fashioned manners.

I know I'm slightly out your range but would you be willing to take a punt!!! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just clarify - men always say " you must get loads of messages" " you women get 100's of messages "

I may be the only one but literally I get far from 100's of messages. Today, for example ive had 5 at the most!!!

Very surprised at this. .you have hot pics and great veries. ..it has been quiet today though... enjoy the peace and quiet xxx"

Second this. It has been quieter today than for a while. I've probably had a 100 messages today but vast majority are shit.

Especially the I know you only meet wed daytimes or weekends BUT. How about no, fuck off you're blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I just clarify - men always say " you must get loads of messages" " you women get 100's of messages "

I may be the only one but literally I get far from 100's of messages. Today, for example ive had 5 at the most!!!

Very surprised at this. .you have hot pics and great veries. ..it has been quiet today though... enjoy the peace and quiet xxx

I really don't mind not getting 100's of messages. 99 of them would only be shit Id delete im sure anyeay.

( thanks for the compliments though! )

90 are fancy a fuck

8 are il in your area

2 are decent "

this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 words to stop the message bombardment Rigid Filters, works a treat because it leaves me time to go perve & select my own fun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 words to stop the message bombardment Rigid Filters, works a treat because it leaves me time to go perve & select my own fun X"

Totally agree on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies you are all worth the effort.

If single men don't put the effort in for a decent message that interest you it's not a good advert for how they will be at other things.

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

but the one biggest thing missing of the list, is make sure you have a good supply of biscuits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"but the one biggest thing missing of the list, is make sure you have a good supply of biscuits "

And they have to be the right biscuits.

The wrong biscuits could seriously affect your chances

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales


"but the one biggest thing missing of the list, is make sure you have a good supply of biscuits

And they have to be the right biscuits.

The wrong biscuits could seriously affect your chances"

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

One person's rules can be different to others. We don't mind being called both its better than our usual messages just wanting dirty chat with female half of couple.

This is why fab is so fun, different people x

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a serious problem now.. Meeting someone for a coffee at theirs and said I would bring biscuits.... They have given no hint what biscuits......

Ahhhh if I choose the wrong ones I could blow it before I even open my mouth.

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland


"I have a serious problem now.. Meeting someone for a coffee at theirs and said I would bring biscuits.... They have given no hint what biscuits......

Ahhhh if I choose the wrong ones I could blow it before I even open my mouth."

Chocolate digestive and custard creams

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a serious problem now.. Meeting someone for a coffee at theirs and said I would bring biscuits.... They have given no hint what biscuits......

Ahhhh if I choose the wrong ones I could blow it before I even open my mouth."

No biscuits here, bring me a banana next time

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