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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is it on here recently with people wanting unprotected sex. Not so long ago there was 2 different woman asking to get pregnant and now people asking for multiple bareback sex dont people have any worries anymore or is there a cure now for all sexual transmitted diseases.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally if I see a pic of bareback I won't even chat to the person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just look after yourself OP, don't worry about what other adults choose to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it's risky/silly

But.. I find it funny that "open minded swingers" judge other swingers...

Each to their own... if they are willing to take risks..

Live and let live...

I've seen people on here casting judgement on ppl barebacking and then during a social or play meet guys saying "pffft well she did with me" ...

If we all looked after our own sexual health and not worried about others. ..

There are so many threads on this ..and lots of good points raised..

For eg. .. do you perform oral with a condom on? Do you wear mouth guards for oral on female ? Less risk yes..but still risk

A good point raised in a recent thread was "I wonder how many of you playing the health risk card..smoke?"

To reiterate...each to their own... live and let live

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look after yourself OP, don't worry about what other adults choose to do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn off for me. Friends get removed/blocked when bareback photos are posted. New messages that include bareback photos get an automatic delete.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look after yourself OP, don't worry about what other adults choose to do "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's risky/silly

But.. I find it funny that "open minded swingers" judge other swingers...

Each to their own... if they are willing to take risks..

Live and let live...

I've seen people on here casting judgement on ppl barebacking and then during a social or play meet guys saying "pffft well she did with me" ...

If we all looked after our own sexual health and not worried about others. ..

There are so many threads on this ..and lots of good points raised..

For eg. .. do you perform oral with a condom on? Do you wear mouth guards for oral on female ? Less risk yes..but still risk

A good point raised in a recent thread was "I wonder how many of you playing the health risk card..smoke?"

To reiterate...each to their own... live and let live "

Quite right! Performing oral without protection is a risk. How many suck and lick without it??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look after yourself OP, don't worry about what other adults choose to do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, im very much of the opinion that unless someone can show you proof they are clean then any of it is always a risk!! That's my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bareback is a huge no for me, but each to their own.

I avoid anybody who I know to play bareback or the people they play with.

But again, each to their own, it's not my health they're risking.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"Yes it's risky/silly

But.. I find it funny that "open minded swingers" judge other swingers...

Each to their own... if they are willing to take risks..

Live and let live...

I've seen people on here casting judgement on ppl barebacking and then during a social or play meet guys saying "pffft well she did with me" ...

If we all looked after our own sexual health and not worried about others. ..

There are so many threads on this ..and lots of good points raised..

For eg. .. do you perform oral with a condom on? Do you wear mouth guards for oral on female ? Less risk yes..but still risk

A good point raised in a recent thread was "I wonder how many of you playing the health risk card..smoke?"

To reiterate...each to their own... live and let live "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least when people are open and honest about it you know who to avoid!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its not your thing of course

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By *ubywants2playCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own yes & the more we moralise about it in an open forum the more underground it'll become, I much prefer a site where people can be open about their preferences & then we each get to make an informed choice about who we play with & how & we can each judge our own level of risk. I have my personal views & those who meet me will know them, but I'm making my choices as those who bb make theirs X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own yes & the more we moralise about it in an open forum the more underground it'll become, I much prefer a site where people can be open about their preferences & then we each get to make an informed choice about who we play with & how & we can each judge our own level of risk. I have my personal views & those who meet me will know them, but I'm making my choices as those who bb make theirs X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own yes & the more we moralise about it in an open forum the more underground it'll become, I much prefer a site where people can be open about their preferences & then we each get to make an informed choice about who we play with & how & we can each judge our own level of risk. I have my personal views & those who meet me will know them, but I'm making my choices as those who bb make theirs X"

I totally agree and it's the ones you don't see or know about is the one you have to be worried about

Just look out for no1 as no one else will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dont be so quick to judge pictures some of the bare back pics on their profiles could be with trusted individuals in their life or partners etc, also doesnt mean they wont use it with you either if you ask as long as you look after yourselves that's all that matters really

Lady xx

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By *onny-n-clydeCouple
over a year ago

cwmbran,


"Dont be so quick to judge pictures some of the bare back pics on their profiles could be with trusted individuals in their life or partners etc, also doesnt mean they wont use it with you either if you ask as long as you look after yourselves that's all that matters really

Lady xx "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So glad some are so open and honest in their verifications to others about playing bareback at least you know who to avoid on here. Its team hidden stuff that means you can't make an informed decision about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is getting beyond it used to be that people joined this site to have some fun with like minded people

Now it's more a case of who can I judge or look down my nose at......... get a life and let others lead theirs however they want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is getting beyond it used to be that people joined this site to have some fun with like minded people

Now it's more a case of who can I judge or look down my nose at......... get a life and let others lead theirs however they want to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is getting beyond it used to be that people joined this site to have some fun with like minded people

Now it's more a case of who can I judge or look down my nose at......... get a life and let others lead theirs however they want to "

Some things never change

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just look after yourself OP, don't worry about what other adults choose to do "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread took its tole on members is it three or 4 left after posting

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I think a lot more people would bareback but they are full of hang ups and sheer ignorance. They just want to spoil it for others.

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By *ovis69 and green eyesMan
over a year ago

valleys

Glove up all the way,

I can understand solid couples not just FB's going bb with each other.

But it's not worth the risk in my eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is getting beyond it used to be that people joined this site to have some fun with like minded people

Now it's more a case of who can I judge or look down my nose at......... get a life and let others lead theirs however they want to

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from me too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't agree more I was actually told to get off my horse when I said it was madness last week with a few extra words thrown I couldn't believe it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This place is getting beyond it used to be that people joined this site to have some fun with like minded people

Now it's more a case of who can I judge or look down my nose at......... get a life and let others lead theirs however they want to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think a lot more people would bareback but they are full of hang ups and sheer ignorance. They just want to spoil it for others."

Just wondered if you could enlighten me as to why some people are full of hang ups and ignorant if they play safe ?

Or have I got the wrong end of the stick ? Or should that be dick ?

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

Totally agree with you.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Almost 10 years ago this same discussion was raised on another site, and someone said there were 2 types of people: the ones that do and the ones that don't.

I respectfully disagreed then and still hold the same opinion that there are actually 3: the ones that do, the ones that don't, and the ones that campaign they don't but if you spot them under the right circumstances (particular person, place, enough alcohol,...) will.

End of the day a lot of people say one thing and do another, all we can do as individuals is be responsible for ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Almost 10 years ago this same discussion was raised on another site, and someone said there were 2 types of people: the ones that do and the ones that don't.

I respectfully disagreed then and still hold the same opinion that there are actually 3: the ones that do, the ones that don't, and the ones that campaign they don't but if you spot them under the right circumstances (particular person, place, enough alcohol,...) will.

End of the day a lot of people say one thing and do another, all we can do as individuals is be responsible for ourselves."

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By *ay rickMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Do what suits ya both--there's a risk in all we do in life--personally I cover up but hey I reckon so far as I've seen on here 99.99999999999% on here an STD--is the least of there problems lol

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By *alisburylad4uMan
over a year ago

newport

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By *alisburylad4uMan
over a year ago

newport


"Just look after yourself OP, don't worry about what other adults choose to do "
??????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by the cleavage thread I'd be more worried about what I'd get sucking tits than I would be about having bareback sex lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Fact of the matter is when it comes to bareback, most people are criticising men for their lack of use of protection ONLY for penetration.

If penetration was off the table but everything else was OK, his much if a "safe sex" issue would it be?

Put into context an all girl party. Lots of touching, likcing, fingering.. And not a cock insight. Now I've never been to one of these so am merely speculating but "have you got a condom?" said no lesbian ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right but how many women insist a guy gloves up for a bj? Not many I reckon. Each of these activities have differing risk levels & it's for each of us to carry out our own risk assessment for the activities we wish to indulge in. It's easy to find information regarding the different risk levels if you Google, but in reality not even using a condom is 100%, even then we're making an assessment of risk in our choice of partner etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The Fab interests' tick box should say "safer sex" not "safe sex." The only safe sex is no no sex. Even wanking can cause a "pulled muscle" apparently

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think safe sex should be a must - maybe after a while if both of you become comfortable and regular with each other bareback could be an option.

But i'd rather be safe than sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are all in charge of our own safety ..each to their own ..we all make choices and live by them xx

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"we are all in charge of our own safety ..each to their own ..we all make choices and live by them xx"

look after number one!

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By *elshykinkyMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Aswell as agreeing you have to look after yourself and make sure you are safe, I really don't understand why people are so quick to judge on here, considering what type of site it is... Why instantly judge someone just for a bareback pic, when it could be with an ex, a trusted fb, in a well organised gb where everyone provided certificates of cleanliness... Worst case scenario, ask if they are willing to prove it, then you can judge by their reaction.

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By *irkby coupleCouple
over a year ago

Kirkby

A few people have said you won't talk to people who have bareback pics, or you block them, what if the bareback pics are with their partner?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes it's risky/silly

But.. I find it funny that "open minded swingers" judge other swingers...

Each to their own... if they are willing to take risks..

Live and let live...

I've seen people on here casting judgement on ppl barebacking and then during a social or play meet guys saying "pffft well she did with me" ...

If we all looked after our own sexual health and not worried about others. ..

There are so many threads on this ..and lots of good points raised..

For eg. .. do you perform oral with a condom on? Do you wear mouth guards for oral on female ? Less risk yes..but still risk

A good point raised in a recent thread was "I wonder how many of you playing the health risk card..smoke?"

To reiterate...each to their own... live and let live "

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

At the end of the day, it's only bareback if a guy is involved: I've seen women playing, no condom/dam involved and no one bats an eyelid

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales


"A few people have said you won't talk to people who have bareback pics, or you block them, what if the bareback pics are with their partner?

"

I always check the text to see if it says anything about a partner or regular fb before I make my decision on that

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By *cotbbtopMan
over a year ago

Glasgow


"The Fab interests' tick box should say "safer sex" not "safe sex." The only safe sex is no no sex. Even wanking can cause a "pulled muscle" apparently "

Very true. All sex has its risks, so if you are at all worried - abstain.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"we are all in charge of our own safety ..each to their own ..we all make choices and live by them xx"

Very true

We all risk it every time we play with someone

If we all got checked regularly there wouldn't be so much to worry about

As already mentioned any form of sexual acts carries risks

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

It's all a matter of personal choice. I enjoy bareback sex with selected men. I get tested regularly. I'm happy to admit to it and am perfectly honest about it. My profile doesn't have safe sex ticked. Other's may disagree, that's their choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's all a matter of personal choice. I enjoy bareback sex with selected men. I get tested regularly. I'm happy to admit to it and am perfectly honest about it. My profile doesn't have safe sex ticked. Other's may disagree, that's their choice."

Well done you, if more people could be allowed to be open & honest then we'd all be able to make fully informed choices & keep ourselves safer. We are all in control of our own safety after all. The depth of feeling on these threads at times is bound to drive most people underground, how on earth can anyone make an informed choice when they're effectively only in possession of partial information x

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