FabSwingers.com forum: secret codes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I now work as a recovery lorry driver and could swer I have picked up some of you from here so how could you drop a hint in to a conversation that I know you from fab .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple answer is you don't ..

Discretion

When people are out..with family. Friends etc I doubt they want someone trying to wink whisper or whatever that they know them off fab..

Some may not mind ..I hate it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple answer is you don't ..

Discretion

When people are out..with family. Friends etc I doubt they want someone trying to wink whisper or whatever that they know them off fab..

Some may not mind ..I hate it..."

this!

Discretion should be respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Discretion isn't used enough on here

have to be discreet I'd also hate it

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

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"Simple answer is you don't ..

Discretion

When people are out..with family. Friends etc I doubt they want someone trying to wink whisper or whatever that they know them off fab..

Some may not mind ..I hate it...

this!

Discretion should be respected."

Was on my lunch break once and a fellow fabster shouted out my user name in the middle of town i could have died

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never acknowledge a person I recognise, it could get very awkward. Fab is very separate to real life X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be mortified! It does happen and you obviously need to be adult about the situation.

I bumped into a fellow fabber on this thread in a chip shop with my kids and you'd never have known the last time we'd seen each other was in Chams!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was out for lunch with my son one day & two guys at the next table kept looking over, in the end one said to the other "she's on the site, that's Peachy", my son was like, what they on about? I just fronted it out & said I had no clue. That's the direction level of single guys for you, so excited you'd think they'd never seen a woman before

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By *ay871Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Have you ever seen fight club? Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys in gyms approaching me about Fab is bad enough. Guys approaching me in the street whilst I'm holding my 4 year old son's hand - massively inappropriate. Especially as they were both well out of my age bracket.

Scarlett and I were in Ikea Sunday. Someone messaged HD to ask if I was in Ikea. Pretty funny that they needed to know lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I never acknowledge a person I recognise, it could get very awkward. Fab is very separate to real life X"

this. Unless they have become a "real" friend that I see and socialise with on a non-fab basis. And I've only got one of those! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was out for lunch with my son one day & two guys at the next table kept looking over, in the end one said to the other "she's on the site, that's Peachy", my son was like, what they on about? I just fronted it out & said I had no clue. That's the direction level of single guys for you, so excited you'd think they'd never seen a woman before

Sure they'd have loved you to have acted in such a way if they were out for lunch with their parents or children.

Just no need for it!

I've ignored fab members in public and been called ignorant in a PM, I'd rather be known as ignorant than break my own or somebody else's discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure they'd have loved you to have acted in such a way if they were out for lunch with their parents or children.

Just no need for it!

I've ignored fab members in public and been called ignorant in a PM, I'd rather be known as ignorant than break my own or somebody else's discretion."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst on here as naughtygirl86.

Was in Bristol on a team building exercise when this guy was literally chasing us down the street shouting naughty girl!!!naughty girl!!

Just isn't on

Op- leave it there ...smile to yourself maybe but that's it.

Don't even bother messaging saying "I just seen you in..." I get them all the time and just want to scream/and or reply "yes...and what"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simple answer is you don't ..

Discretion

When people are out..with family. Friends etc I doubt they want someone trying to wink whisper or whatever that they know them off fab..

Some may not mind ..I hate it...

this!

Discretion should be respected."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had loads pass me and say hiya sazzz coz it's my nickname within friends & family so I don't mind... when I was in a club once before with my sister & friends a bloke was saying I know her and seen her pics etc so I kindly informed his friends that he was on a swinging site safe to say he didn't look at me again all night bitchy but it worked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had loads pass me and say hiya sazzz coz it's my nickname within friends & family so I don't mind... when I was in a club once before with my sister & friends a bloke was saying I know her and seen her pics etc so I kindly informed his friends that he was on a swinging site safe to say he didn't look at me again all night bitchy but it worked

Hed deserved it. A quick glance maybe a smile as you would to someone you looked at and they caught you looking. Depending on who they are more an internal smile.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

A quick glance maybe a smile as you would to someone you looked at and they caught you looking. Depending on who they are more an internal smile."

I'd do the same cause that's what I'd do if I was checking someone out full stop a polite smile. I'd only ever say Hello if it looked like they were going to do the same.

I say hello or speak to fellow fabbers that I am good friends with and have stories set with family/friends on how I know these people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had hints dropped to me in real life. I just smile sweetly and feign innocence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A sly wink is all that's required. Blowing someone's cover when you have absolutely no idea who they're with is an arsehole's trick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was walking outside my business premises once and a voice from across the road shouted out " oh theres BUCK from fab" ffs i nearly died what the fuck did she think she was doing??

Good job nobody took much notice.it could have caused huge problems for me .

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By *ubicinchMan
over a year ago

Gwynedd

I can't say that I have too much sympathy for people who have face pics all over their publicly accessible fab accounts. Yes, some people are dickheads, but what do you expect?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

respect the person or persons lifelike of here and always be discreet hi and walk on by

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say that I have too much sympathy for people who have face pics all over their publicly accessible fab accounts. Yes, some people are dickheads, but what do you expect?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't say that I have too much sympathy for people who have face pics all over their publicly accessible fab accounts. Yes, some people are dickheads, but what do you expect?"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A quick glance maybe a smile as you would to someone you looked at and they caught you looking. Depending on who they are more an internal smile.

I'd do the same cause that's what I'd do if I was checking someone out full stop a polite smile. I'd only ever say Hello if it looked like they were going to do the same.

I say hello or speak to fellow fabbers that I am good friends with and have stories set with family/friends on how I know these people "

Be happy with a smile and a hello, even if I was with friends. Even if questioned on who are they it would be I don't know but wish i did... Of course of the person smiled back it would just play on the I'be obviously still got it...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So say I picked up ava adore just me and her in the cad of my lorry and I realised it was her off here wy cant we use a nice sentence like it has been a fabulous day to got to the park wich she would reply yes I love to play on the swings

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I had gone up to the restaurant in work. Saw someone I thought I knew. He recognised me too. Neither of us spoke to each other but I dropped my bloody lunch all over the floor though

chocolate pudding and custard..... my favourite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So say I picked up ava adore just me and her in the cad of my lorry and I realised it was her off here wy cant we use a nice sentence like it has been a fabulous day to got to the park wich she would reply yes I love to play on the swings "

If you did that to me I'd ask to get out of your cab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you that Ava Adore wouldn't be seen dead in a lorry!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you that Ava Adore wouldn't be seen dead in a lorry!"

No. You'd be seen dead in a hearse, innit

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

If you did that to me I'd ask to get out of your cab x"

Me too. Not quite grasping the whole discretion concept!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you that Ava Adore wouldn't be seen dead in a lorry!

No. You'd be seen dead in a hearse, innit "

Would the hearse be on the back of a lorry? Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you that Ava Adore wouldn't be seen dead in a lorry!

No. You'd be seen dead in a hearse, innit

Would the hearse be on the back of a lorry? Lol"

Depends on if we're in the midst of a zombie apocalypse and have to shift people in bulk, innit.

*resumes watching Doomsday Preppers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times I've thought I've recognised people off here in real life, not even acknowledged them (unless they had to speak to me for any reason) but messaged then afterwards asking if it was them in whatever place......That's still a no no then? Important to learn these things see.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe at the lorry comment

Yeah defo too many weirdos on here now to have face pics but ppl can be recognised by hair/tattoos

Because I love ink and take notice I could look at some of the above ppl see them out and think I've seen that ink before..

It ain't just off face pics

I wouldn't act on it though

Fab is fab. ..leave it there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few messages off people that have asked if they've just seen me somewhere or recognised me at work. No one has publicly outed me tho!! I have no issue once I know and am prepared and will then happily chat but that initial wtf moment...you can keep that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be a bit worried

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can assure you that Ava Adore wouldn't be seen dead in a lorry!"

That quote just crippled me

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By *ay871Man
over a year ago

cardiff

What would be the best outcome of that conversation anyway haha.. As if she would hear this magic phrase and would have an uncontrollable urge to take off her clothes. I Love the assumption that every woman on this site is just ready and waiting for sex 24 hours a day. Funny though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would be the best outcome of that conversation anyway haha.. As if she would hear this magic phrase and would have an uncontrollable urge to take off her clothes. I Love the assumption that every woman on this site is just ready and waiting for sex 24 hours a day. Funny though. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not rely. just to put a real face to the site name .but a magic word would be great think of all the spare time we have on our hands

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By *ay871Man
over a year ago

cardiff

There's a couple of places around Newport where the women use magic words.. "40 quid" lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

No no and o yes no!! I can honestly say that I would never pay for sex I find it degrading to your self and the person that would get payed I dont even like going in a gentlemens club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't turn up to the singles social, then you know I'm in the back of this guy's lorry having being wooed with talk of swings, then hacked up into tiny pieces!

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"If I don't turn up to the singles social, then you know I'm in the back of this guy's lorry having being wooed with talk of swings, then hacked up into tiny pieces!

They'd be pretty tiny pieces tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don't turn up to the singles social, then you know I'm in the back of this guy's lorry having being wooed with talk of swings, then hacked up into tiny pieces!

Fab League of Justice! We have a heroine to rescue!

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By *alleycplCouple
over a year ago

gobblers knob

surely a simple hello in passing is ok unless singles are with partners?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don't turn up to the singles social, then you know I'm in the back of this guy's lorry having being wooed with talk of swings, then hacked up into tiny pieces!

If you don't turn up we will send a posse out to look for you...

Either that or think you have got a better offer than us bunch of pervs.

being serious looking forward to meeting you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I don't turn up to the singles social, then you know I'm in the back of this guy's lorry having being wooed with talk of swings, then hacked up into tiny pieces!

I will track you down biatch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple i dont unless i have met the person and they say it is ok if they say dont i just nod and walk on

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By *adybirdsCouple
over a year ago

brynmawr near Ebbw Vale. Abergavenny

Just smile and keep walking maybe eye contact.

Discretion....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So basically just don't bother

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"So basically just don't bother "

Hallelujah he's finally getting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically just don't bother

Hallelujah he's finally getting

Saucer of milk, table 4

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"So basically just don't bother

Hallelujah he's finally getting

Saucer of milk, table 4

Forget saucer I want a bloody bowl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically just don't bother

Hallelujah he's finally getting

Saucer of milk, table 4

Forget saucer I want a bloody bowl!"

*rubs catnip allover himself*

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"So basically just don't bother

Hallelujah he's finally getting

Saucer of milk, table 4

Forget saucer I want a bloody bowl!

*rubs catnip allover himself*"

Meooooow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So basically just don't bother

Hallelujah he's finally getting

Saucer of milk, table 4

Forget saucer I want a bloody bowl!

*rubs catnip allover himself*

Meooooow"

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

"So basically just don't bother

Hallelujah he's finally getting

Saucer of milk, table 4

Forget saucer I want a bloody bowl!

*rubs catnip allover himself*

Meooooow

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