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Have I understood it correctly...?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've put up my profile hoping to find a lady who wants to meet up for regular one-on-one fun (when it works both for her and for me). Someone open to establishing a nice no-pressure friendship, chatting, social company, etc...and hopefully great sex as and when we both feel the urge to enjoy each other physically as well.

Am I right in describing this as a no-strings friendship...?

Is this what would be termed a Friend With Benefits, or a Fuck Buddy...?

I've been told by a two people now that I'm using the wrong terms...NSA, FWB, FB.

Confused...just when I thought I'd worked out the right approach and the right phrases to describe what I'm looking for.

Any sensible thoughts/pearls of wisdom on this would greatly appreciated. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own interpretation of what those various terms mean.

Just explain what it is you want, like you just have on here. Saves any confusion then as it is quite clear

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Everyone has their own interpretation of what those various terms mean.

Just explain what it is you want, like you just have on here. Saves any confusion then as it is quite clear "

Thanks MissP, I think my profile sets it out reasonable well as to what I'm hoping for in finding a friend, but as you say, it does seem that EVERYTHING is open to interpretation on here, and the few responses I have had are giving me very mixed messages.

I'm certainly not ready to give up on this yet, but just want to be as sure as I can be that I'm explaining myself and what I'm looking for properly and with clarity.

Nothing in life that is worthwhile is easy to achieve...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it usually works out that when there is that extra spark you will know it and she will know it and you become a twosome but still swing as a couple or singles. Friends with benefits, fuck buddies or nsa dont worry about labelling. if it is meant to be it will happen. just enjoy yourself and see what fab brings your way lovely xxxx kitts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Re-read your explanation of what you want and maybe it sort of fits with my interpretation of swinging so took my original response down before I was attacked by 'how dare you have an opinion' police!

I just think swinging is most fun when everyone shares with everyone else and doesn't get hung up on one person - or couple - if you get what I mean!

Rosie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Am thinking now that perhaps I AM on the right track with my thoughts and what I'm hoping for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No offence but if you're not interested in swinging I'm not sure why you've joined a swingers site. Might explain the responses. I instantly delete messages from men who want 1 woman only for NSA fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No offence but if you're not interested in swinging I'm not sure why you've joined a swingers site. Might explain the responses. I instantly delete messages from men who want 1 woman only for NSA fun. "

I was going to say something similar

Most people on here want to experience the pleasure of various partners , however some do in fact end up as couple which kitten mentioned

My personal view and this is mine is that most women & men do not want to be exclusive as this then confuses the issue and feeling get hurt

If your looking for that then you are right to state it in your profile but it may be that the woman you end up with might want more

My advice is continue to look but be careful what you wish for ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From what I have read the op isn't asking for exclusivety, he doesn't say that he expects the woman he meets to not meet anyone else. Or am I getting it all wrong??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It reads like he's looking for a swinging buddy, something a lot of us here would like, it's still swinging but with the added bonus of someone to enjoy the party n club scene with, these can be very lonely places as a singleton & there is something to be said for mixing it up a bit X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me looking at the ops first post there is no mention of any other people just him and a fem

I've been lucky enough to meet some great ladies and some are now accompanying me to parties and clubs as well as 1-1 fun

This works for all concerned as there is no exclusivity and isn't complicated as some are married and join me with their husbands consent

Maybe the op should clarify if that is what he wants or just fun with one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read everyone's comments and viewpoint studied op profile in depth an considered all angles.

I think he just wants a shag now and again.

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