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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Personally, I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy or have a connection with, it just wouldn't happen

Would you still have sex with the other person/persons in this scenario or would you be honest?

Lets have a friendly debate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy or have a connection with, it just wouldn't happen

Would you still have sex with the other person/persons in this scenario or would you be honest?

Lets have a friendly debate lol "

Depends on how bloody horny I was lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Quality over quantity there has got to be a attraction for me otherwise i will run away lol but then again i could always take them to the glory-holes in chams i don't have to look then (joke)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quality over quantity there has got to be a attraction for me otherwise i will run away lol but then again i could always take them to the glory-holes in chams i don't have to look then (joke) "

It could be a man on the other side though

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"Quality over quantity there has got to be a attraction for me otherwise i will run away lol but then again i could always take them to the glory-holes in chams i don't have to look then (joke)

It could be a man on the other side though "

thats always the risk there lol i cheat and have a look first tho hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quality over quantity there has got to be a attraction for me otherwise i will run away lol but then again i could always take them to the glory-holes in chams i don't have to look then (joke)

It could be a man on the other side though

thats always the risk there lol i cheat and have a look first tho hahaha"

And what would you do if there was a couple in there? Lol

I would be hopeless in them, would have to inspect all rooms first to find someone I like, btw, this is lola and not Charlie pmsl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quality for me every time!

Although been in situations where I'm attracted to somebody but there was no lust kinda thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quality for me every time!

Although been in situations where I'm attracted to somebody but there was no lust kinda thing. "

Yeah, had that too, I love kissing and it could be Mike Phillips with me but if he a crap kisser I just would not be turned on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn't have sex with someone if I didn't fancy them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't if i didn't fancy them but not many i don't like lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done a meet where I played and I didn't fancy her when I first started swinging.

I have kind of always regretted it.

I much prefer there to be a connection as it makes it all more intense.

I personally like to chat via message or chat room and then go from there. The worst is when you gel via message and think it's going to be a great meet but when you get together it just isn't right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry forgot to say club play if I don't know you is purely on attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quality for me every time!

Although been in situations where I'm attracted to somebody but there was no lust kinda thing.

Yeah, had that too, I love kissing and it could be Mike Phillips with me but if he a crap kisser I just would not be turned on lol"

I have an odd case of happy to kiss/bite lips but only really passionately kiss somebody if I'm big time into them or met a few times.

#proudoddball

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry forgot to say club play if I don't know you is purely on attraction."

Deffo got to be attraction if there no connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me there has to be a real spark before is worth getting naked with anyone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quality for me every time!

Although been in situations where I'm attracted to somebody but there was no lust kinda thing.

Yeah, had that too, I love kissing and it could be Mike Phillips with me but if he a crap kisser I just would not be turned on lol

I have an odd case of happy to kiss/bite lips but only really passionately kiss somebody if I'm big time into them or met a few times.

#proudoddball "

I just couldn't do it, kissing gets me going more than anything, not odd at all though, everyone is different. Nice arse btw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst is when you gel via message and think it's going to be a great meet but when you get together it just isn't right"

Been in that situation, months of messaging, chatting daily via kik, never felt sexual tension like it via message before - they were NOTHING like they were when messaging! Was so awkward I just left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quality for me every time!

Although been in situations where I'm attracted to somebody but there was no lust kinda thing.

Yeah, had that too, I love kissing and it could be Mike Phillips with me but if he a crap kisser I just would not be turned on lol

I have an odd case of happy to kiss/bite lips but only really passionately kiss somebody if I'm big time into them or met a few times.

#proudoddball

I just couldn't do it, kissing gets me going more than anything, not odd at all though, everyone is different. Nice arse btw "

Ah thanks

It's my best feature haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The worst is when you gel via message and think it's going to be a great meet but when you get together it just isn't right

Been in that situation, months of messaging, chatting daily via kik, never felt sexual tension like it via message before - they were NOTHING like they were when messaging! Was so awkward I just left "

Best thing to do. I was lucky and neither of us felt it in person so we were both gutted and went for a drink together as friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally, I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy or have a connection with, it just wouldn't happen

Would you still have sex with the other person/persons in this scenario or would you be honest?

Lets have a friendly debate lol

Depends on how bloody horny I was lol "

Looks like its only you giggs, you can take one for the team hun

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By *INKYCAT123Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x"

Totally agree with this, looks dont come into it at all, obviously its the first thing you notice if in a club etc but if the connection there, personality wise then bring it on lol.

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x

Totally agree with this, looks dont come into it at all, obviously its the first thing you notice if in a club etc but if the connection there, personality wise then bring it on lol."

see i think i'm a minger to be honest but recently some very sexy ladys have told me i'm sexy i still can't see it but i guess i got max from eastenders and ed sheehan to thank for making gingers cool at the mo

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x

Totally agree with this, looks dont come into it at all, obviously its the first thing you notice if in a club etc but if the connection there, personality wise then bring it on lol.

see i think i'm a minger to be honest but recently some very sexy ladys have told me i'm sexy i still can't see it but i guess i got max from eastenders and ed sheehan to thank for making gingers cool at the mo "

Aww, don't put yourself down tbone, your not a minger. Everyone has different tastes, some women like gingers x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be a connection won't just play for the sake of a meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x

Totally agree with this, looks dont come into it at all, obviously its the first thing you notice if in a club etc but if the connection there, personality wise then bring it on lol.

see i think i'm a minger to be honest but recently some very sexy ladys have told me i'm sexy i still can't see it but i guess i got max from eastenders and ed sheehan to thank for making gingers cool at the mo "

See now tbone as a single male I look at profiles like yours and go well they will always go for him over him...

But then I think we all look at the negatives in ourselves. Personally I think the only chance I have is my personality but then at socials I am top shy and feel like I might be intruding on people so will stay in the background.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na dont think i could to be honest thats why i would ask for pics n mabey a social first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally, I couldn't have sex with someone I didn't fancy or have a connection with, it just wouldn't happen

Would you still have sex with the other person/persons in this scenario or would you be honest?

Lets have a friendly debate lol "

This is why I prefer the first meet to be planned as a social. That way if either side doesn't want to take it further there were no other expectations anyway.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x

Totally agree with this, looks dont come into it at all, obviously its the first thing you notice if in a club etc but if the connection there, personality wise then bring it on lol.

see i think i'm a minger to be honest but recently some very sexy ladys have told me i'm sexy i still can't see it but i guess i got max from eastenders and ed sheehan to thank for making gingers cool at the mo

Aww, don't put yourself down tbone, your not a minger. Everyone has different tastes, some women like gingers x"

I think your quite sexy.

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales


"Personally to me looks are not the most important part, although they have gota have somthing sexy about them lol, I more go for the banter and if they can make me smile, more of a personality connection more than a physical connection is needed for me, if we get on and feel happy in each others company then its great (kat) x"
this is the same for me

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've walked away from a few because I just didn't fancy them on site. If there's no chemistry what's the point ?? Also can tell alot by that first kiss mmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There has to be an attraction or a connection . an ex picked someone for us to meet before and he couldn't have picked someone more unattractive to me totally put me off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i'd shag anyone me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people in certain situations can afford to be picky why rush or settle for something less than what you want? There deffinately has to be a connection for me (miss) to enjoy sex, physically and mentally, or else I get nothing from it! Im not desperate or in a hurry, so quality over quantity for me to be honest im completely happy with Mr, we are just greedy and want more but are willing to wait for somebody we are both happy with hehe xx

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES


"I have done a meet where I played and I didn't fancy her when I first started swinging.

I have kind of always regretted it.

I much prefer there to be a connection as it makes it all more intense.

I personally like to chat via message or chat room and then go from there. The worst is when you gel via message and think it's going to be a great meet but when you get together it just isn't right"

Both of us have made this mistake more than once. It's not nice if you get as far as a social before you realise the chemistry is wrong and then have to decline, having already established a swinging friendship. Never easy and I'm sorry to say we have both taken one for the team in the past.

I'd like to say we've learned our lesson from it, but I doubt that.

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