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By *sm1967 OP   Man
over a year ago

swansea

consideration has to be you can pay a stunning escort who is 10 out of 10 and have the type of company you want, or scrap with thousands of men for 1 out of 10 female and get blown out in the process!

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Each to their own but i wouldnt pay

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By *igsweatysackMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"consideration has to be you can pay a stunning escort who is 10 out of 10 and have the type of company you want, or scrap with thousands of men for 1 out of 10 female and get blown out in the process!"

Wait for the abuse you got balls mate Hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every man pays for it one way or another

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As someone who's done that job be careful. A escort you pay £140 odd an hour for has sex with a good 4-6 men a night.

If your gonna go pro book as early a slot as possible before 8pm if you want the best performance

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By *igsweatysackMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Just go out on a nite out more luck that way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it comes down to whether you would rather fuck someone who actually WANTS to fuck you or not. If you aren't bothered about that then you may as well pay

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By *JLittleminxxxxWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

In this day and age when no one what to work at anything escorts are definitely becoming popular and the norm. People say that it a lot of money but when you think about it they are cheap. A quick phone call. A sexy lady. And if youve picked a good one the best Sex you have ever had.

We are all after effortless Sex. Nsa etc etc. With an escort that's exactly what you get. These site not always a guarantee and you have to compete with 100's of other guys and then sort out when they are free etc.

With escort you ring book and and finished before lunch. So when u compare it to time and effort. They are the cheaper option.

Can't wait for the back lash on this. Funny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"consideration has to be you can pay a stunning escort who is 10 out of 10 and have the type of company you want, or scrap with thousands of men for 1 out of 10 female and get blown out in the process!"

but the average escorts aint stunners are they. and you have to pay them bout 80 quid an hour but a real stunner would cost quite a few hundred an hour

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By *igsweatysackMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly."

Then surely he has answered his own question??

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By *igsweatysackMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??"

He might be a tight Buggar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own I say..

And to be fair paying for a shag is prob cheaper for a guy than it is to pull a bird on here...

I've seen some crazy demands that women have asked for and then see the women behind it and think really lol....

If a man takes a women to chams for instance on here

33.00 entry

10.00 petrol

10.00+ drinks

And that isn't he a guaranteed shag lol

That's if the women doesn't pay half lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i was a single guy and say i wanted to try my luck in a club(100 pounds to get in)with absolutely no guarantee of getting anything then the escort seems a better/more cost effective option..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"consideration has to be you can pay a stunning escort who is 10 out of 10 and have the type of company you want, or scrap with thousands of men for 1 out of 10 female and get blown out in the process!"

why should it have to be a consideration at all? as your profile says you play as part of a couple anyway...and unlike hundreds of other 'single' men on here you have verifications so not really that much of a priority for good sex, I'd have though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

If that's what you wanna do then fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mind you as i reach my oap years 58 now two years to old age i might consider a fit young male escort just to go out and about lol make me mates jealous ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess it comes down to whether you would rather fuck someone who actually WANTS to fuck you or not. If you aren't bothered about that then you may as well pay"

I would say this & time would be key to the decision making, generally if you get a play meet here the woman is generally wanting to have fun with you, the same can't be said the other way round mind x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol"

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap "

Someone I work with is known to regularly meet with quite a few of these apparent stunners, he's paid small fortunes for some evenings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd personally rather spend the money on toys myself

But if he likes their company and happy then who is he harming x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an escort once. £500 but I thought that was brilliant value. Beautiful, clean and brilliant fun.

Eventually the exhaust went though so I chopped it in for a Kia.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had 2- wrote one off blew engine on other. Never have again

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I had an escort once. £500 but I thought that was brilliant value. Beautiful, clean and brilliant fun.

Eventually the exhaust went though so I chopped it in for a Kia. "

The Sierra was much nicer. although a tad risky

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Don't pay. Sex and money don't mix.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never paid either and never will no matter how desperate I get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had an escort once. £500 but I thought that was brilliant value. Beautiful, clean and brilliant fun.

Eventually the exhaust went though so I chopped it in for a Kia.

The Sierra was much nicer. although a tad risky"

yep years back i had an escort soft top bright red was wicked good runner

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap "

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

"

I wasn't judging at all. All the best to them. If I could stomach shagging men who I didn't fancy I would be right behind them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can pay me £150 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

"

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date "

A escort is never paid for sex you pay for their time and company only.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date

A escort is never paid for sex you pay for their time and company only."

This has been done before about people meeting for cash.

And it was such a different outcome then

How come it's the same thing but people have total opposite views??????

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date

A escort is never paid for sex you pay for their time and company only.

This has been done before about people meeting for cash.

And it was such a different outcome then

How come it's the same thing but people have total opposite views?????? "

My issue with the last debate on here was the advertising of service's on a free swinger site big difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date

A escort is never paid for sex you pay for their time and company only.

This has been done before about people meeting for cash.

And it was such a different outcome then

How come it's the same thing but people have total opposite views?????? "

My view remains the same, to reach his own but if it's on here & against fab rules why should we agree with it? I would still report, block n delete because it's not what fab is about, there's other sites for that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own. However I would rather have sex with someone who actually wants to fuck me, not someone who is paid to act one out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date

A escort is never paid for sex you pay for their time and company only.

This has been done before about people meeting for cash.

And it was such a different outcome then

How come it's the same thing but people have total opposite views?????? "
because people are fickle and will chop and change to "fit in". Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

"
there are loads of jobs at the job center. It's all about what you are willing to do for the money. If they would rather have sex/spend time with men they find rank, and get paid for it, than work harder/longer for the same money, that's up to then.

I wouldn't. As I've said before, I want to have sex and spend time with someone who actually wants to be with me and I with them. Not who is paid to put on a performance.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"If i was a single guy and say i wanted to try my luck in a club(100 pounds to get in)with absolutely no guarantee of getting anything then the escort seems a better/more cost effective option.."

Or...

Maybe spend that £100 on going to a few socials, getting to know people, getting known, making friends, and then probably (if he isn't a complete bellend lol) getting invites to parties, or even 1 on 1 meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If i was a single guy and say i wanted to try my luck in a club(100 pounds to get in)with absolutely no guarantee of getting anything then the escort seems a better/more cost effective option..

Or...

Maybe spend that £100 on going to a few socials, getting to know people, getting known, making friends, and then probably (if he isn't a complete bellend lol) getting invites to parties, or even 1 on 1 meets. "
exactly!!!! Don't even have to spend that much if you don't drink!

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By *JLittleminxxxxWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"If i was a single guy and say i wanted to try my luck in a club(100 pounds to get in)with absolutely no guarantee of getting anything then the escort seems a better/more cost effective option..

Or...

Maybe spend that £100 on going to a few socials, getting to know people, getting known, making friends, and then probably (if he isn't a complete bellend lol) getting invites to parties, or even 1 on 1 meets. "

But how long is that going to take months and months.

When u can just dial 1 number and be finished in an hour.

Men want sex asap.

It a lifestyle choice and some people will understand it and others won't. Lot of assumption being made for the mind set of these people but unless you know someone, hard to judge.

It always going to happen and always will.

Sex. We all love. We all want and most definitely need it. Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps the op considers the average escort better than the women on here possibly.

Then surely he has answered his own question??

He might be a tight Buggar lol

He can't be that tight if he has previously experienced a "stunning escort who was 10 out of 10". They don't come cheap

Its a lifestyle choice for many attractive young ladys these days and who can blame them why should they work in a factory or shop when they can get wined and dined have sex and get payed more money in a night than they would get a month in a shop i will never judge them, many do it to pay for their education or save to start there own business's or have no other way to provide for their family.

I spoke to a women on here before whom used to do it to provide for her kids after her hubby left her and she couldn't pay bills even struggled to feed her kids

Another women she did it to pay her way through uni

End of the day it's just a job

They don't have to fancy the men

I'm sure in the past most of us have had sex with someone we wouldn't date

A escort is never paid for sex you pay for their time and company only.

This has been done before about people meeting for cash.

And it was such a different outcome then

How come it's the same thing but people have total opposite views??????

My view remains the same, to reach his own but if it's on here & against fab rules why should we agree with it? I would still report, block n delete because it's not what fab is about, there's other sites for that x"

I do agree it's not what fab is for

However it seems to be non swingers using the site and so on.so I really don't see why these escorts can't do what they want to do as long as they ain't hurting any one...

There's a lot of people who use this site just for a quick fuck or one on one and have no intention of swinging so do we report them as well?

Also there are people on here that are married or attached but are single..do we report them???

The list can go on and on but I still say if a guy is willing to pay and the other party is happy with that then just let them do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Each to their own. However I would rather have sex with someone who actually wants to fuck me, not someone who is paid to act one out. "

Agreed

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Isn't everyone entitled to do what they please as long as no one is getting hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Isn't everyone entitled to do what they please as long as no one is getting hurt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Four words. ..

Live and Let Live....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree totally, let people do what they like as long as they're not hurting others.

Personally wouldn't pay for a 'professional' service but that's my choice. I like real people who WANT what I want too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Four words. ..

Live and Let Live.... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whether your in a relationship, in my opinion there is gonna be some cost to fucking someone new.

This site makes that cheaper as people are up for the same thing but in vanilla world most girls will expect a date or two, probably a meal or night out that all cost.

In my eyes if it's just the sex your after from them your paying indirectly but with a working girl you pay directly.

I've paid in the past and personally it ain't for me, rarely met expectations and some were very cold and pretty boring, it was more out of experimenting with the whole thing than a need to pay.

I prefer the chase, banter leading up and the fact that you've got her into bed is like a Lil win! Ha

Eitherway I don't see paying as bad, some guys love it and it works for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Girls, I'm a male escort! And I'm free tonight! There is no charge to you girls completely free! I will even enjoy it ha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that an escort was doing it for money and most likely thinking of her next client would nearly put me off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go for ahonda far more reliable n cheaper on mpg escorts so last season

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