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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I know this has likely been talked about but for me, this kissing on meets thing just doesn't cut it or is it appealing.

I could have all the attraction to them possible and be horny as hell - but I cringe if they kiss me unless I have some sort of meaningful connection.

See I associate kissing with intimacy and all part and parcel of something you do with somebody you love, a hello, or farewell or them hanging off your lip like a savage dog when you're making love to them and their in ecstasy.

Am I odd?

Or do I just need to lighten the hell up and pucker up?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how mood is but I enjoy kissing-its all part of the same thing. However if they don't want to then also cool with that.

Like I said just go with it if it happens it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the biggest turn on for me

No kissing no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you don't kiss on meets?

I have to ...it's what starts you off..however. ...I do get what you mean.

.... I've been on a meet where the kiss isn't very good. .. or there just isn't any chemistry there and I turn my head and just think just carry on fucking no need to kiss me .....

This isn't very often though...

I normally can't stop kissing ... this would be as a result of getting the meet right....someone that I have clicked with and have chemistry with...

I don't like no kissing meets .....or when they don't kiss as I like. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing for me is so important. I just couldn't imagine having sex with someone and not kissing them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Omg! Kissing is so important....I would meet just for a kiss!! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well things have to be there for me to meet for fun, I normally chat for a while before meeting and as such forge a connection but even so, too many times I've just cringed when they've gone to kiss me if it doesn't feel right.

There are a few different kinds of sex for me.

1) Just a fuck, two people being selfish in their needs and meeting to satisfy them. (Never kiss in this situation)

2) somebody you just click with, they arrive and you start to tingle at their touch and sex just becomes rampant, hot and effortless (very likely kiss)

3) (never met but) fully connected, know them quite well and talked about things you're going to do, they arrive and they're just not as you expected and nothing goes as planned (couldn't kiss, likely cringe) bit like fucking a friend

4) straight through the door and too forward (awkward - cringe, turn head and give them my neck) this type leaves as fast as they arrived.

5) better than you expected on entry (praise the Lord you can breathe through your nose)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is one of the biggest turn ons it sets the scene and starts things off. Sex without kissing is so clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I met and the kissing didn't do it for me I wouldn't go no further

if I don't get turned on physically and mentally I don't have sex

Simple

Just say straight sorry but

Not attracted

And in fairness I've still got friends here that I've Sai this to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has likely been talked about but for me, this kissing on meets thing just doesn't cut it or is it appealing.

I could have all the attraction to them possible and be horny as hell - but I cringe if they kiss me unless I have some sort of meaningful connection.

See I associate kissing with intimacy and all part and parcel of something you do with somebody you love, a hello, or farewell or them hanging off your lip like a savage dog when you're making love to them and their in ecstasy.

Am I odd?

Or do I just need to lighten the hell up and pucker up? "

When I fist joined to scene kissing was a no no. Like you kidding is far too intimate and I wasn't here for that. Now however I like kissing

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

i prefer to kiss, to not kiss would be a waste of my lips

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

i perfer too be kiss start me of as no kiss dont do anything for me

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By * and hCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

I love kissing! A must in my book. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I didn't fancy someone enough to kiss them I couldn't fuck them.....major part for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't fancy someone enough to kiss them I couldn't fuck them.....major part for me!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I didn't fancy someone enough to kiss them I couldn't fuck them.....major part for me!"

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love kissing! A must in my book. X"

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I don't meet somebody unless I'm attracted to them but sometimes that connection isn't as it was anticipated - I can be attracted to somebody and find them hot just feel too distant to want to kiss.

Realising I'm just odd, haha. Oh well, still no complaints even when I don't kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Kissing is one of the biggest turn ons it sets the scene and starts things off. Sex without kissing is so clinical"
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet somebody unless I'm attracted to them but sometimes that connection isn't as it was anticipated - I can be attracted to somebody and find them hot just feel too distant to want to kiss.

Realising I'm just odd, haha. Oh well, still no complaints even when I don't kiss. "
don't you find it odd how you feel too distant to kiss their lips, but quite happy to kiss their arsehole/balls/cock/whatever?

I can totally understand in a party situation, as many times haven't kissed, but in a one to one situation, surely it's part of the build up? How else do you get the juices flowing? -unless you only meet men and then anal lube takes over from natural juices....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't meet somebody unless I'm attracted to them but sometimes that connection isn't as it was anticipated - I can be attracted to somebody and find them hot just feel too distant to want to kiss.

Realising I'm just odd, haha. Oh well, still no complaints even when I don't kiss. don't you find it odd how you feel too distant to kiss their lips, but quite happy to kiss their arsehole/balls/cock/whatever?

I can totally understand in a party situation, as many times haven't kissed, but in a one to one situation, surely it's part of the build up? How else do you get the juices flowing? -unless you only meet men and then anal lube takes over from natural juices.... "

awww couldn't have put it better myself

Awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing; its so intimate and such a good form of connection, you can read alot about a person from their kiss so I tend to kiss on meets but not loads! The ones who kiss slowly, firmly, passionately who squeeze you tightly and show that they want you are the ones who do it for me! Could never get that from a complete stranger on the first meet though! Maybe the third or fourth yes

Miss xxx

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Kissing is my biggest turn on, but i have only kissed a few on meets !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Kissing is my biggest turn on, but i have only kissed a few on meets !!"

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By *rShinyKnickersMan
over a year ago

BARRY


"Kissing is the biggest turn on for me

No kissing no sex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a female meet yes I will kiss but if I'm meeting a male then I don't, the stubble puts me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"In a female meet yes I will kiss but if I'm meeting a male then I don't, the stubble puts me off "

What if she's got stubble?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be lots of kissing as it starts the meet off and leads to other things xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must! Can't miss out on one of my best skills. That's like asking Usain Bolt to walk everywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a female meet yes I will kiss but if I'm meeting a male then I don't, the stubble puts me off

What if she's got stubble? "

Then "she" maybe lying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a female meet yes I will kiss but if I'm meeting a male then I don't, the stubble puts me off

What if she's got stubble? "

Then she needs to learn to shave better lol

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By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney


"In a female meet yes I will kiss but if I'm meeting a male then I don't, the stubble puts me off

What if she's got stubble?

Then "she" maybe lying "
.

I knew it!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you serious??? Without kissing there is no passion and build up. Can see it from some couples views who might just want to watch their wife get used and that turns them on and does get me going too but one to one meets it has to start with some deep passionate kissing and gently caressing each other's bodies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are you serious??? Without kissing there is no passion and build up. Can see it from some couples views who might just want to watch their wife get used and that turns them on and does get me going too but one to one meets it has to start with some deep passionate kissing and gently caressing each other's bodies "

I've had some of the hottest sex ever without kissing!

I'd kiss somebodies neck, body....head to ankle (don't do feet haha) in the throws of any situation to tease and 'get the juices flowing'

Meeting for fun for me isn't the same as an effort of being romantically involved where kissing feels right all the time.

And as above in some situations where it's just fun it does make me cringe because realistically, we're just selfishly divulging into sex for satisfaction only.

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I do see kissing as almost the start to foreplay this soon turns to kissing the neck with a few little bites and then I push my luck further!

Without the kissing they'd probably think I was a vampire

Wouldn't be a deal breaker though but is a shame to miss out on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do see kissing as almost the start to foreplay this soon turns to kissing the neck with a few little bites and then I push my luck further!

Without the kissing they'd probably think I was a vampire

Wouldn't be a deal breaker though but is a shame to miss out on it"

love my neck being kissed - my weak spot x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I do see kissing as almost the start to foreplay this soon turns to kissing the neck with a few little bites and then I push my luck further!

Without the kissing they'd probably think I was a vampire

Wouldn't be a deal breaker though but is a shame to miss out on it

love my neck being kissed - my weak spot x"

Mine too - turns me into a raging bull!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do see kissing as almost the start to foreplay this soon turns to kissing the neck with a few little bites and then I push my luck further!

Without the kissing they'd probably think I was a vampire

Wouldn't be a deal breaker though but is a shame to miss out on it

love my neck being kissed - my weak spot x

Mine too - turns me into a raging bull! "

love love love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must.... Stimulates the whole body and can tell from the kiss if it's gonna be good or not...... Fast washing machine tounge ain't for me, has to be slow strong passionate with a bite of their lip here and there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree kissing is a must! Im 29 tomorrow, and I fully expect a birthday kiss ha xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree kissing is a must! Im 29 tomorrow, and I fully expect a birthday kiss ha xx"

I'm sure family member will give you plenty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is the upper persuasion for a lower invasion....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do see kissing as almost the start to foreplay this soon turns to kissing the neck with a few little bites and then I push my luck further!

Without the kissing they'd probably think I was a vampire

Wouldn't be a deal breaker though but is a shame to miss out on it

love my neck being kissed - my weak spot x

Mine too - turns me into a raging bull! "

oooh me too xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kissing is the upper persuasion for a lower invasion.... "

Beautifully put

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"Kissing is the biggest turn on for me

No kissing no sex "

This.

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham


"kissing is the upper persuasion for a lower invasion.... "

Scribbles this in my mental notebook! Love a good rhyming saying

As I'm a poet and I didn't .........

Realise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kissing is the upper persuasion for a lower invasion....

Scribbles this in my mental notebook! Love a good rhyming saying

As I'm a poet and I didn't .........

Realise "

sorry but I can't take the credit for this...I found it on a quotes website a while ago but it fits the bill here! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a female meet yes I will kiss but if I'm meeting a male then I don't, the stubble puts me off

What if she's got stubble? "

Lend her my razor for a bit or offer to do it for her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree kissing is a must! Im 29 tomorrow, and I fully expect a birthday kiss ha xx

I'm sure family member will give you plenty "

Ha ha happy birthday

Hope you got plenty of kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this has likely been talked about but for me, this kissing on meets thing just doesn't cut it or is it appealing.

I could have all the attraction to them possible and be horny as hell - but I cringe if they kiss me unless I have some sort of meaningful connection.

See I associate kissing with intimacy and all part and parcel of something you do with somebody you love, a hello, or farewell or them hanging off your lip like a savage dog when you're making love to them and their in ecstasy.

Am I odd?

Or do I just need to lighten the hell up and pucker up? "

Nope. Totally agree

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By *abes in the woodWoman
over a year ago

wales

Kissing is a must most times even without kissing with partner still can feel good and great sex love my body kiss neck sent tingle down me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"kissing is the upper persuasion for a lower invasion.... "

Can I use that on nights out plz?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really need some good kisses

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for me, cant build to anything without some passionate kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really need some good kisses "

likewise miss M xx

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff


"I really need some good kisses

likewise miss M xx"

I'll snog you Milly.

Sorry...,,I'm mean I'd gently and seductively caress your lips with mine until you were suffused with waves of ecstasy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I really need some good kisses

likewise miss M xx

I'll snog you Milly.

Sorry...,,I'm mean I'd gently and seductively caress your lips with mine until you were suffused with waves of ecstasy.

"

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't beat a seductive, slow, tender kiss which progressively gets stronger x mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pucker up

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Kissing is my biggest turn on I would struggle not to kiss

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"Pucker up "

Oooooh Ivy let me kiss you! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yesssss definitely kissing is a turn on in my eyes u gotta have that build up to passion to make the sex mind blowing an if kisses an neck kisses get my juices flowing look out for the rest of the meet!! An answer to not kissing if u dont feel connected simply a down graded meet! Dont meet if u dont feel like its going to be mind blowing!

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