FabSwingers.com forum: Replies from women and couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As a very respectful single guy I am very surprised at how many rude and sarcastic replies I receive to my perfectly polite e-mails. I messaged a lady today complimenting her on her profile and received a disgustingly worded rebuke in response. It is clear that many single guys can be pushy and disrespectful and I would never condone that but the attitude of some women and couples to single men is both ignorant and shameful.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Had you read the profile? Were you within age limits? Were they looking for a single guy? Do they meet inside / outside distance between you??

There could be many reasons why you got a shitty response. Not called for some of the time. If your message was ignored then you would be moaning about that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the site isn't flooded with idiots and desperate Dan's who think we're all here to fuck anybody that offers the attitude from couples and women might change.

Some messages may also come across as cheesy as hell, I get loads of them and they make me laugh.

The words on last message similar were the words 'incredible' hottest guy on here' 'best dick I've seen' and many more cheesy things. Made me barf and delete message. More so in the knowledge I'm nothing special just a number on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When the site isn't flooded with idiots and desperate Dan's who think we're all here to fuck anybody that offers the attitude from couples and women might change.

Some messages may also come across as cheesy as hell, I get loads of them and they make me laugh.

Which number message was that 1 or 100?

Surely we should be used to it, there's loads of single men on here and women and couples can be very picky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Welcome to fab

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By *arnie07Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Fab is shit you would have more joy on other sites , I'm the same polite and genuine and no joy won't be renewing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is shit you would have more joy on other sites , I'm the same polite and genuine and no joy won't be renewing "

There is an option to delete your account if you are so disgusted with the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is shit you would have more joy on other sites , I'm the same polite and genuine and no joy won't be renewing

There is an option to delete your account if you are so disgusted with the site"

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By *oup dragonMan
over a year ago

newport

There is a lot of arrogant twats on here who don't know how to say no thanks. And there are some very very nice people to it just that the twats out number them.

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over a year ago

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over a year ago

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By *randMrsHorny24Couple
over a year ago

South wales

Some people are just rude when u write a simple complementing message and they don't even read it they just delete it but other people are nice just depends what ure looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha I want a violin

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

If people replied to every single message they get, there would be a huge amount of "no thanks" and "why not" messages flying around fab.

I have sent messages that haven't been replied to. So what! Not going to cry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the way of Fab OP. The numbers are stacked heavily (very heavily) in favour of the ladies on here.

Don't take things to heart. Just accept the fact that this is the way Fab is and move on.

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By *r n Mrs LiciousCouple
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Our profile clearly states NO single men, every single male message we get doesn't earn a reply, it earns an immediate block, if they can't be arsed to read and understand then I can't be arsed with replying xx

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea

"Our profile clearly states NO single men, every single male message we get doesn't earn a reply, it earns an immediate block, if they can't be arsed to read and understand then I can't be arsed with replying xx"

Can I cum play with you guys? PMSL

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By *lewelyn23Man
over a year ago

swansea

I think even though no reply can be annoying, it's better than them being rude or offensive,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This place is just like the wider world in microcosm, I suppose.

Some people are nice, some aren't. You'll click with some, not with others. As with every text-based medium, it can be quite difficult to get tone into what you're trying to say - and some people will get the wrong end of the stick and go off the deep end.

Look at it this way: if you had a choice between finding out that the beautiful pair of tits/legs/arse you fancied having a go on were attached to a total twat right at the start, OR after you'd booked a hotel/turned up at their house, which would you really want?

Sometimes shitty messages like that are a blessing in disguise.

Luckily there's still loads of nice folks here to chat and play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am one of those arrogant twats who deletes, blocks & moves on, I wouldn't chat to, look at or even notice 99% of you in real life, so why should I feel obliged to be polite to you here? Oh yeah, I'm meant to be flattered that you want to use one of my holes for pleasure, I think not cos I'm happy for most of you to jog on by. My profile is not a place for wimps, needy guys or those with a big ego, it's my profile to do as I wish with X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes both ways don't always get a response to mail sent our and depending on how many have come in that day or what they say I don't always respond either. ..especially if it's obvious that the profile hadn't been glanced at.

Rach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate the ones (which has happened last week) that when politely decline (as I don't believe in being rude ) then they ask "why" and then " what can I do to my profile to help me" are my picture ok, am I gd looking enough etc I try to be nice and give some basic advise ie don't moan u can't get a meet if u won't attend a social etc but can get tedious xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe its polite to send a little "no thank you" if you have the time, but I do understand how annoying it is when getting bombarded by people who our profile states we clearly arent after..

I have also been asked "why wont you meet me" and my answer is usually along the lines of "do I have to give a reason? We still wont meet you reason or not im sorry" and on the odd occasion people kick off when you reply and reject.. or keep messaging until you do.

Personally i would prefer it if we had a polite no from people..

theres no win with replying really is there?

Miss xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I believe its polite to send a little "no thank you" if you have the time, but I do understand how annoying it is when getting bombarded by people who our profile states we clearly arent after..

Personally i would prefer it if we had a polite no from people..

theres no win with replying really is there?

Miss xx "

Have to agree with this SOME go on and on looking for a reason...begging!! Surely not get some pride! And some are plain rude and abusive. There are some good guys there who take it well and thank for replying but occasionally the majority weigh me down and I chose to ignore rather than take the chance.

Rach x

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