FabSwingers.com forum: Difference between men and women's attitudes

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that the old middle-aged spread and male pattern baldness, man boobs etc are all seen as unattractive things, yet women have to be pretty much corpulently obese and bed ridden before they are described as anything other than 'real women with curves', stretch marks are evidence of the life-giving wonder of womanhood etc etc.

So do men campaign to be seen as 'real men' with hairy backs etc, or do we just go back to acknowledging that people of both genders have varying levels of attractiveness, and that it will definitely diminish over time?

By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney

"Why is it that the old middle-aged spread and male pattern baldness, man boobs etc are all seen as unattractive things, yet women have to be pretty much corpulently obese and bed ridden before they are described as anything other than 'real women with curves', stretch marks are evidence of the life-giving wonder of womanhood etc etc.

Oi I sent you a description of me in confidence and you go n plaster it all over fab!!! Lol

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The things you describe are the very things that some of us women like in a man, but none of that makes up for a shit attitude. Shitty, rude, pushy or in appropriate messages will always be a cause for delete block, but for some of us, the male pattern baldness is a like, obviously there will be a wide variety of likes n dislikes because as human beings we are varied in our preferences & thats one of the beautys of fab, it's diversity. Theres something for almost everyone x

By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

We all end up with some firm of battle scars of life taking its toll. There is not a lot you can do about them without spending money of course. So embrace them.

By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

The difference is regardless of looks alot of men expect a quick shag and they dom't get this because of their attitude not their looks.

Of course women can afford to be fussy on here but thats their choice but attraction is key at the end of the day. I have stretch marks etc but dont judge others for baldness etc so wouldnt expect them to judge me

Mrs