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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

After a few conversations with numerous people last night.

That people for some reason think that as I do things in chams it is chams that pays.

Well I'm sorry to disappoint anyone but if I hold a theme night there I actually pay for the buffet myself and I pay to get in also.

People will prob say "why do it then"?????

My reply to that is is love the swinging scene and love the social side to.we have already lost a sat night in chams when it changed to couples only as people moaned they wanted a couples only night.so now all we have is a Friday night.

This is our only local club and i for one don't want to lose it so if I can help build up the custom and organise nights there I am will to do that and support the club

So they treat me just like ever

Single one of you that goes there

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By *r reliable cardiffMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Most people wouldn't give their time up unless there was something in it for them, usually money! So when someone genuinely does something for nothing, some people are surprised. Fair play to you for giving up your time an putting the effort in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Most people wouldn't give their time up unless there was something in it for them, usually money! So when someone genuinely does something for nothing, some people are surprised. Fair play to you for giving up your time an putting the effort in "

Do you think???

I never looked at it like that at all..

I do it cos I want to and don't expect anything back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there will always be doubting thomas's about rise above it ignore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must admit, I'd never given it a thought either way!

While it's awesome that you don't expect anything from them, I think given the amount of business you've brought to them, it would have been nice if they'd given you a free membership as a birthday present or something.

Just my two penneth...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit, I'd never given it a thought either way!

While it's awesome that you don't expect anything from them, I think given the amount of business you've brought to them, it would have been nice if they'd given you a free membership as a birthday present or something.

Just my two penneth... "

I agree - I was shocked when giggles told me she had to pay to get it - after paying for a buffet and attracting people to the club who may not have gone if it wasn't her mad hatters party. Ruthless business

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must admit, I'd never given it a thought either way!

While it's awesome that you don't expect anything from them, I think given the amount of business you've brought to them, it would have been nice if they'd given you a free membership as a birthday present or something. I'll

Just my two penneth...

I agree - I was shocked when giggles told me she had to pay to get it - after paying for a buffet and attracting people to the club who may not have gone if it wasn't her mad hatters party. Ruthless business "

Exactly what it is..if free memberships were dished out the business wouldn't be a business for long..but definitely should of provided a buffet...after all we all like a nosh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must admit, I'd never given it a thought either way!

While it's awesome that you don't expect anything from them, I think given the amount of business you've brought to them, it would have been nice if they'd given you a free membership as a birthday present or something.

Just my two penneth...

I agree - I was shocked when giggles told me she had to pay to get it - after paying for a buffet and attracting people to the club who may not have gone if it wasn't her mad hatters party. Ruthless business "

I know they appreciate what I do and I did have a present and card

I'm not slating the club or nothing like that I'm just shocked to hear that people think I get everything free when I have to pay just like everyone else does

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I must admit, I'd never given it a thought either way!

While it's awesome that you don't expect anything from them, I think given the amount of business you've brought to them, it would have been nice if they'd given you a free membership as a birthday present or something. I'll

Just my two penneth...

I agree - I was shocked when giggles told me she had to pay to get it - after paying for a buffet and attracting people to the club who may not have gone if it wasn't her mad hatters party. Ruthless business

Exactly what it is..if free memberships were dished out the business wouldn't be a business for long..but definitely should of provided a buffet...after all we all like a nosh "

It's free membership for women anyways lol

And i dont mind paying as it was my party lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we're lucky across the board because all of our great socials only exist because people choose to run them, it's their own time & effort & sometimes at a financial loss. So I say thanks to all those who arrange such fun events, that enable all to get together x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think we're lucky across the board because all of our great socials only exist because people choose to run them, it's their own time & effort & sometimes at a financial loss. So I say thanks to all those who arrange such fun events, that enable all to get together x"

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By *he mischiefsCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

Why do ppl even want to think of others & wat their gaining or not rather than live their own lives... Good on u for arranging these events & club invasions & socials... Keep up the good hard work !! xx

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