FabSwingers.com forum: Does anyone actually meet ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

More often than enough you read the same statuses from the same people week in week out, whinging how they had been let down again, their meet was a non show bullshit this and bullshit that. The ones who put statuses up like looking forward to my meet, and ten minutes later their status changes to had a great time ! what in ten minutes ? You stand out like a sore thumb and you don't even realise it.

I keep well clear

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We meet ppl . But we seem to struggle to find meets at the min . Not even an offer of meet . U know winge winge lol

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I go to clubs in the North West and West Midlands and attend the south Wales socials when I can but weekend work can sometimes make it difficult on here

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By *ickawitchCouple
over a year ago

Away with the fairies (Liverpool to you)

We meet

a little bit more than we should but it's rude not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't met anyone since last year from here. We have started going to clubs holding parties and we attend newport social x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet regularly but I tend to stick with the few I've been meeting for a few years, now n again something will tempt me, but thats not often. Don't always rave about things on my updates but have to admit I sometimes post shit on there because I'm bored or to wind Saucy up

As a single female I could meet several times a day everyday, but where's the fun, quality or satisfaction in that & lets face it, most the guys looking to meet NOW aren't interested in what's lying on the bed or bending over the sofa, they're simply looking for the quick fix & not my satisfaction. Cynical view yeah, but I've been here long enough. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well said peachy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet regularly but I tend to stick with the few I've been meeting for a few years, now n again something will tempt me, but thats not often. Don't always rave about things on my updates but have to admit I sometimes post shit on there because I'm bored or to wind Saucy up

sofa, they're simply looking for the quick fix & not my satisfaction. Cynical view yeah, but I've been here long enough. X"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had lots of no shows recently but done with moaning about it, actually just find it quite funny now so rather than look for 'meets' I'm now looking for regular fun with a select few and going to enjoy the social side of the lifestyle more too.

It's a shame things seem to have changed on here whilst people tended to be more genuine and no bullshit before but guess not a lot can be done by it.

Too much complaining, not enough moaning!

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By *entletimMan
over a year ago

by here

I think what will be will be there are a lot of fakes on here and so nice people. Not been on here as long as some but have net one or two nice friendly people.

And my fair share of fools

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People do meet, it's just become a bit frustrating with the mass influx of bellends now the site is a bit more mainstream.

Tempted to put a meet up myself but I think I'd spew a load of vodka, jaegerbombs and chow mein over them today

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

It the way things are going due to idiots.

Socials. private parties, and ad peachy said people will only meet select few they know and trust.

Can be frustrating especially if you live in mire remote area where you can be 90mins away from others like i do, but also understandable as to why.

People either need to grow manners, patience or look for another site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well said peachy xxx"

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff

We meet..had a few last minute let downs

"I forgot my son was coming over"

Lol,no one forgets that shit,especially if they are a weekend parent!

Single guys seem to bail out..all talk but no balls

We had our first taste of a party so are looking for more of them in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We meet..had a few last minute let downs

"I forgot my son was coming over"

Lol,no one forgets that shit,especially if they are a weekend parent!

Single guys seem to bail out..all talk but no balls

We had our first taste of a party so are looking for more of them in the future"

Single guys are the worst for no shows at our parties. We get messages from guys asking to come we invite them then they don't show not even a message with an excuse x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hence why I only do clubs and partys now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had more trouble with couples than I have singles - singles just fail to turn up and not had a word off them after, I've had couples come up with the most hilarious excuses.

But I've also had a couple land up full blown argue when we met so seem to have the worst of luck with couples and at a point now where I tend to not look for couples.

I do however agree there are a lot of single guys on here looking for written/visual wank material and ego boosts which is making the site seem full of knobers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had more trouble with couples than I have singles - singles just fail to turn up and not had a word off them after, I've had couples come up with the most hilarious excuses.

But I've also had a couple land up full blown argue when we met so seem to have the worst of luck with couples and at a point now where I tend to not look for couples.

I do however agree there are a lot of single guys on here looking for written/visual wank material and ego boosts which is making the site seem full of knobers!

I think we may have met the same couples lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently had the chance to be part of a female friends mmf. I turned up, and the males who apparently said they would come, just either didnt reply, or came up with feeble excuses not to be there.

Its such a shame as I can see why fems and couples are getting so pissed off with the amount of time wasters who are all talk and no action.

Suffice to say we enjoyed ourselves, but I was really upset that she never got what she really wanted due to time wasters. And I hope this hasnt put her off from getting what she wants on here.

There are so many genuine people on here that find it increasingly difficult because of those who are not cut out to actually be on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had more trouble with couples than I have singles - singles just fail to turn up and not had a word off them after, I've had couples come up with the most hilarious excuses.

But I've also had a couple land up full blown argue when we met so seem to have the worst of luck with couples and at a point now where I tend to not look for couples.

I do however agree there are a lot of single guys on here looking for written/visual wank material and ego boosts which is making the site seem full of knobers!

I think we may have met the same couples lol

Hahaha and me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently had the chance to be part of a female friends mmf. I turned up, and the males who apparently said they would come, just either didnt reply, or came up with feeble excuses not to be there.

Its such a shame as I can see why fems and couples are getting so pissed off with the amount of time wasters who are all talk and no action.

Suffice to say we enjoyed ourselves, but I was really upset that she never got what she really wanted due to time wasters. And I hope this hasnt put her off from getting what she wants on here.

There are so many genuine people on here that find it increasingly difficult because of those who are not cut out to actually be on this site. "

Could have been your socks that put them off attending, I know they would me

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

We do meet and enjoy meeting people we have met before too.

We seem to always meet the single males who are timewasters as after we have talked for a bit they all of a sudden cant meet, i would just rather the truth and keep hunting.

Would love to meet a guy for mmf but i seem to attract the idiots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do meet and enjoy meeting people we have met before too.

We seem to always meet the single males who are timewasters as after we have talked for a bit they all of a sudden cant meet, i would just rather the truth and keep hunting.

Would love to meet a guy for mmf but i seem to attract the idiots

Really ?

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

"We meet..had a few last minute let downs

"I forgot my son was coming over"

Lol,no one forgets that shit,especially if they are a weekend parent!

Single guys seem to bail out..all talk but no balls

We had our first taste of a party so are looking for more of them in the future

Single guys are the worst for no shows at our parties. We get messages from guys asking to come we invite them then they don't show not even a message with an excuse x"

and then there's the rare genuine guys who do show cough cough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do meet and enjoy meeting people we have met before too.

We seem to always meet the single males who are timewasters as after we have talked for a bit they all of a sudden cant meet, i would just rather the truth and keep hunting.

Would love to meet a guy for mmf but i seem to attract the idiots

You have lots of options you Filthy miss, you just can't make a decision lol & that's not the same as having no choice. You're right though, it has to be & feel right for it to happen x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly only meet people who I have already met at one of the socials these days as I find them better company, more of the same mindset and enjoy the whole lifestyle as opposed to just looking for a quick rub like half the fuckwits on here who bore the fuck out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mainly only meet people who I have already met at one of the socials these days as I find them better company, more of the same mindset and enjoy the whole lifestyle as opposed to just looking for a quick rub like half the fuckwits on here who bore the fuck out of me

Very nicely put Miss P & oh so true x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course people still meet.

There will always be time wasters, fake profiles and the like.

The selection process is important, messaging and looking at veris and if someone is a no show it's a one strike and you are out rule.

Everything is the same these days, promising so much and failing to deliver.

I view meets the same as my Amazon deliveries, I ordered it today, it SHOULD turn up today, but if it doesn't there is fuck all point moaning about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very nicely put Miss P & oh so true x"

best that way i think as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As many have said loads of timewasters. Over the years we have noticed that Fab has become more like facebook.

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By *untime biatchWoman
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bending over the sofa, you say?

*twirls imaginary moustache*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and to stay on topic, yes, I do meet, and more importantly - I turn up when I say I will. In fact last time, I was accurate to the minute!

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Does anyone actually meet ?"

Nope, never, all our veries are faked, we will deffo not be partying on Saturday, or meeting 100 plus swingers on the 30th either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Does anyone actually meet ?"

Nope, never, all our veries are faked, we will deffo not be partying on Saturday, or meeting 100 plus swingers on the 30th either.

Avoid.

Hang on, wrong thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bending over the sofa, you say?

*twirls imaginary moustache*"

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

"We do meet and enjoy meeting people we have met before too.

We seem to always meet the single males who are timewasters as after we have talked for a bit they all of a sudden cant meet, i would just rather the truth and keep hunting.

Would love to meet a guy for mmf but i seem to attract the idiots

You have lots of options you Filthy miss, you just can't make a decision lol & that's not the same as having no choice. You're right though, it has to be & feel right for it to happen x"

I know i have options my fabulous peach and im having fun exploring these options right now. I know what i want so when i find it in a man i will pounce lol. I scare them away haha

Mrs filthy

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By *itchnbastardCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

Well we are genuine as will be at giggles party Friday and the naughty Charlie 2015 ... chams ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it comes down to attraction. Just because your on here it don't give you a guaranteed fuck.

People are free to chose who and when they play with.

For all those that have met they have been attracted to the other person(s)

Personally for me it's better that way as to make it mind blowing there has to be a connection of some sort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well we are genuine as will be at giggles party Friday and the naughty Charlie 2015 ... chams ????"

I hope you are as it wouldn't be the same without my mama bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never turn a meet down if I have already said I will be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never turn a meet down if I have already said I will be there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I recently had the chance to be part of a female friends mmf. I turned up, and the males who apparently said they would come, just either didnt reply, or came up with feeble excuses not to be there.

Its such a shame as I can see why fems and couples are getting so pissed off with the amount of time wasters who are all talk and no action.

Suffice to say we enjoyed ourselves, but I was really upset that she never got what she really wanted due to time wasters. And I hope this hasnt put her off from getting what she wants on here.

There are so many genuine people on here that find it increasingly difficult because of those who are not cut out to actually be on this site.

Could have been your socks that put them off attending, I know they would me

Oi - I never fuck a man wearing socks, but I would (and have) fucked the gorgeous guy behind those glorious socks and they would never put me off lol!

Rosie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I very very rarely meet these days. Having too much fun with himself to want to play with any other guy

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