FabSwingers.com forum: BEEN DONE AGAIN!!!!

By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Got asked for a picture for in return for one back so I sent! They said I'm not they type!!!! Cheek on people... loved see pic of her to know if she's my type.... grips me this site does! Try to be discreet and you have people like that on here. Anyone else have same problem

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

You are not going to be attractive to every single person on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's wrong with having a type?

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

No. I dont get asked for my picture, so be greatful that you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to see a face pic sorry we all

have types xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't see what's wrong with that...They politely replied to you to say you weren't for them..Some people look and block..

It's life..deal with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection is crap, but don't take it personal. Keep on rocking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone approaches me and then sends me a pic, if they are not for me I will politely say "sorry, you're not my type".

Most people accept this but the odd few fly off the handle and call me shallow etc. We cant al fancy each other all of the time can we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always ask for a face pic and only if I am attracted to them and want to keep chatting do I send mine. Never had a complaint about it, I always send a polite message back. Thought this was normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with everyone. At least they did reply telling you they weren't interested which is alot better than just being ignored completely. Plus It wouldn't have made much difference if she sent a pic back or not, so no point lamenting over it. Can't win'em all, so just keep moving.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep smiling it's a nice sunny day...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What on earth would be the point in them sending you a face pic back when they weren't interested in you??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth would be the point in them sending you a face pic back when they weren't interested in you??

My thoughts exactly, I would just have blocked & deleted to absolutely clear. You learn the hard way here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I've had more no thanks can't be everyone type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you for real? If someone sends me a facepic and I'm not attracted to them I either don't reply or block them. Standard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a few occassions i have talked to women for several days or weeks sometimes and they say how nice i sound or how they would like to meet me because i sound nice/lovely or im easy to get on with. Then they ask for a picture then suddenly im not thier type.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth would be the point in them sending you a face pic back when they weren't interested in you??

Good point! Ha

Hey..I think your hanging but here's what I look like anyway :''') xx

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

atleast she replied with a "not my type" reply which shows decency in my eyes

so don't think she should get knocked here (she's alright in my books whoever it may be lol!)

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

I always say when I send a face pic if I'm not your type please let me know i won't be offended as at least if your not their type there's no time wasted messaging back and Fore makes life a lot easier in the long run and you can just move on and see who is your type or vice versa and doesn't matter if they are your type it's the woman who has the last say to who she plays with so if she says your not her type that's final tbth it's easier to accept it and move on

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Are you for real? If someone sends me a facepic and I'm not attracted to them I either don't reply or block them. Standard.

Not even a polite 'thanks but, no thanks'?

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"atleast she replied with a "not my type" reply which shows decency in my eyes

so don't think she should get knocked here (she's alright in my books whoever it may be lol!)"

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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I'm pissed of at fact I sent her pics of me and didn receive 1 back that's what I'm saying lol. No skin off my shit if she likes me or not it's just the whole discretion goes out the window when this happens. They should have something where you can both send pictures the same time and agree to like a disclaimer sort of thing and then you both receive a face pic the same time loool.... Some of you may not give a shit about being discreet but I dooooo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm pissed of at fact I sent her pics of me and didn receive 1 back that's what I'm saying lol. No skin off my shit if she likes me or not it's just the whole discretion goes out the window when this happens. They should have something where you can both send pictures the same time and agree to like a disclaimer sort of thing and then you both receive a face pic the same time loool.... Some of you may not give a shit about being discreet but I dooooo

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totally agree with u if u send a pic even if the other person don't like it would be nice just to say I'm not interested but here's my pic as agreed... some fems on her are too far up there own arses mun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if she had sent you some photos back this would have made things more discrete?

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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

No but at least it would have made it fair. I could have said back to her she not my type then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So chatting a little bit longer maybe the way forward but if you get on the person who wants a face pic could or should send one first.

But that's being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hehe it just makes no sense to make it fair lol

As for replying .. you can't reply to every single male. Doesn't mean your stuck up it own arse. ..you'd need a day off to sift through the mail...

I think she was polite in replying

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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

Yeh she was polite in all fairness but would have been nice if she sent one back.... If you get what I mean??? Just feel like I revealed my identity and got robbed lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeh she was polite in all fairness but would have been nice if she sent one back.... If you get what I mean??? Just feel like I revealed my identity and got robbed lol"

I do understand where your coming from, trouble is as a single guy you will be expected to win them and not the other way round.

Use the tick box that deletes messages after they are viewed....discretion is kind of kept then.

Apart from that grow a think skin mate......This is fab and it's ducking ruthless...ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No but at least it would have made it fair. I could have said back to her she not my type then lol"

And what would that gain??

Even if she did and you thought she was hot you wouldn't admit it if she had already blown you out

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By *STAXxMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

you must be a brad pitt look-a-like to of only had this happen a couple of times!

I've been blown out more times than a windsock!!

and only ever got a handful of "sorry not my type" messages (bless them

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Got asked for a picture for in return for one back so I sent! They said I'm not they type!!!! Cheek on people... loved see pic of her to know if she's my type.... grips me this site does! Try to be discreet and you have people like that on here. Anyone else have same problem"

Yes but generally when a guy gets a no thanks not my type you would not return them a pic absolutely no point. It doesn't matter if she was your type as she said you were not hers. Sending a pic to someone you said no to is completely pointless and quite often giving the guy ammo to come back with a load of abuse. That's in general how a lot of guys handle rejection on here. Even if you had been just the guys type suddenly you are equivalent to every vile word possible.

So if we were sent a pic and guy wasn't our type he would not get one from us. Simple as that.

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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago

cardiff

I wouldn't give abuse I'm not the type of person to people down! We are who we are at the end of the day!! FUCK I KNOW how ED MILLIBAND feels like now haha!!!

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"I wouldn't give abuse I'm not the type of person to people down! We are who we are at the end of the day!! FUCK I KNOW how ED MILLIBAND feels like now haha!!! "

Yes but a lot do and will sadly and how is she to know you are not one of them that's the thing...even the absolute lunatics claim to be sensible and normal and say they can take rejection.. Say no thanks.. And it's time to buckle up as they completely unravel..

It's how it is online. Just delete your pic from message I believe and it's then gone they can't see it anymore. As is always the case the lunatics make everyone cautious.

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

"I always ask for a face pic and only if I am attracted to them and want to keep chatting do I send mine. Never had a complaint about it, I always send a polite message back. Thought this was normal."

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To the OP, haven't you heard of ladies first

lol

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By *pples123456Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

"you must be a brad pitt look-a-like to of only had this happen a couple of times!

I've been blown out more times than a windsock!!

and only ever got a handful of "sorry not my type" messages (bless them

Pmsl 'windsock'

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By *ark CharmerMan
over a year ago

Horsham

Its best to get used to it and move on. For every picture they get (must be quite a few) they have instant attraction to people and go with it. It doesn't matter what she looks like as you aint getting it

IMO - you are lucky they were polite to say not my type, as you read above, some people delete and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeh she was polite in all fairness but would have been nice if she sent one back.... If you get what I mean??? Just feel like I revealed my identity and got robbed lol"

You're spiderman aren't you? I probably would with one bag - you're not a double bagger ha ha

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

You could always have a face picture on your profile, for the ladies to see before you write to each. It would save you having to send a picture and also may save you some time writing to someone only to find out you are not their type. Yes i know discretion, but you cant have it all ways, you either be more open or you toughen up and deal with rejection better if you send a picture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Likely wanting to see who the locals on a sex site are... you can spot some sho sre just doing that. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You could always have a face picture on your profile, for the ladies to see before you write to each. It would save you having to send a picture and also may save you some time writing to someone only to find out you are not their type. Yes i know discretion, but you cant have it all ways, you either be more open or you toughen up and deal with rejection better if you send a picture"

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By *girltraceyTV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

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By *urrsMan
over a year ago

"I go on the rule of if I approach someone I send a pic if they are intersted they can send a pic back if not move on simple as that "

Definitely, I know for a fact I'm not everyone's cup of tea. Just get over it when they reject or dint mail you back.

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By *girltraceyTV/TS
over a year ago

cardiff

I go on the rule of if I approach someone I send a pic and if they are not interested then they don't have to send one back i just move on its that simple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had it happen yes move on but it is nice to keep this site friendly . Some people can be up themselves x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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it could of been a fake account & if it's any consolation a guy could be wanking over you pics now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with everyone. At least they did reply telling you they weren't interested which is alot better than just being ignored completely. Plus It wouldn't have made much difference if she sent a pic back or not, so no point lamenting over it. Can't win'em all, so just keep moving."

Agree

It's far better to be told, so that you at least know, than to be left hanging on and hoping...most people don't have the manners to respond and then just ignore. Nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yet again, another single male moaning about being rejdcted.

just move on and accept it. And the next time you get rejected, dont post a tread about it and announce to the world your disappointment as its old news.

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