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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

"

It's because they aren't getting anywhere on the site as they're not in the mindset of swinging, they're just on here as they think it's easy sex for when they want it, of course it's not so when things don't go their way they have to resort to insults, like children.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

It's because they aren't getting anywhere on the site as they're not in the mindset of swinging, they're just on here as they think it's easy sex for when they want it, of course it's not so when things don't go their way they have to resort to insults, like children."

It does nothing for the confidence though lol

and yes your right on what you say sad really x

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Totally agree. What i laughat with them is that they are also on this site so what ever insults they throw relate to themselves. I wouldnt spend to much time stressing over them, if they insult you it goes to show that you made a good choice in saying no

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By *RWYNMan
over a year ago

Blaenau Gwent

Don't let it get to you, we are all on here for the same reason, man or woman , so take no notice of them. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I made a point of saying on my profile. Those who send insults after being turned down go back to kindergarten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're better than they are and just keep thinking that way, there are much better people on the site that deserve your attention than them

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath


"That's why I made a point of saying on my profile. Those who send insults after being turned down go back to kindergarten "

Well put and unfortunetly for the genuine men that want to have fun these other out weigh us 6 too 1 and it does spoil it for the genuine males to meet others on the site as a bit of curtiousy goes a long way as I've always been taught but can't blame people either for choosing to block single males either as it seams that the majority not the minority are rude and insulting and there's never any need for it tbth xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As careful as I am sorting whom I believe to be respectful and trustworty guys to meet sadly a few slip through and leave you feeling cheap and empty! Often they want their cake and to eat it...I choose guys who want friendship too but sometimes they are full of bull and then when it doesnt go their way they are unable to take it like a man and accept gracefully.....

The problem is not you its them and you deserve more respect than is dished out to you...block the bastards and move on hun xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Totally agree with you all

and I did think

I had a lucky escape saying no to this narrow minded

Person

I've blocked him

But its really sad that lots of guy's get tarred with the Sam brush

But there are lovely genuine ones here to and I've been lucky to meet a few xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"As careful as I am sorting whom I believe to be respectful and trustworty guys to meet sadly a few slip through and leave you feeling cheap and empty! Often they want their cake and to eat it...I choose guys who want friendship too but sometimes they are full of bull and then when it doesnt go their way they are unable to take it like a man and accept gracefully.....

The problem is not you its them and you deserve more respect than is dished out to you...block the bastards and move on hun xxx"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's why I made a point of saying on my profile. Those who send insults after being turned down go back to kindergarten "

Love this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

I was brought up with some old fashioned values, be polite and respectful.

But if someone say no, having a go and insulting them isnt going to change their mind.

Be polite and hope you meet at social and let them see that you are a decent person

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was brought up with some old fashioned values, be polite and respectful.

But if someone say no, having a go and insulting them isnt going to change their mind.

Be polite and hope you meet at social and let them see that you are a decent person"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get it all the time. I'm easy, a slag, slut. Especially when guys are on here and use the same dating sites as I do. I've got nothing to be ashamed of and so am open with same photos on all sites. I've even had messages on plenty of saying they feel sorry for my children. I just block and report as abusive to admin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get it all the time. I'm easy, a slag, slut. Especially when guys are on here and use the same dating sites as I do. I've got nothing to be ashamed of and so am open with same photos on all sites. I've even had messages on plenty of saying they feel sorry for my children. I just block and report as abusive to admin. "

it's sad kgirl

I only felt it today because was having a bit of confidence loss

And he probably made me feel a little worthless

I've blocked him and know it happens x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always remember that the females and couples on here hold all the aces...single males hold very little...

Remember that at the very time that male was being rude to you he was probably being rude to another 30 or so females that he had messaged that day with his 'fancy a fuck' message and his uninteresting and predictable cock photo, the majority of whom also told him to fuck off...and to the majority of whom he was also rude.

Don't take it personally. ..its his lack of understanding of the site and what women on here want...combined with the personality of chip fat..that led to his outburst...let it go over your head and giggle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

It's because they aren't getting anywhere on the site as they're not in the mindset of swinging, they're just on here as they think it's easy sex for when they want it, of course it's not so when things don't go their way they have to resort to insults, like children."

Exactamondo , 'celibate, billy no mates' pmsl xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always remember that the females and couples on here hold all the aces...single males hold very little...

Remember that at the very time that male was being rude to you he was probably being rude to another 30 or so females that he had messaged that day with his 'fancy a fuck' message and his uninteresting and predictable cock photo, the majority of whom also told him to fuck off...and to the majority of whom he was also rude.

Don't take it personally. ..its his lack of understanding of the site and what women on here want...combined with the personality of chip fat..that led to his outburst...let it go over your head and giggle.

"

I have now thank you feel much better now

thanks everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Milly, are you going to chams on Fri ? X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Milly, are you going to chams on Fri ? X"

no hun I've a funeral in the day

Then taking granddaughter to see Disney on ice

very different from fab xx

You going?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about funeral etc, I may go depending on who goes xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sorry to hear about funeral etc, I may go depending on who goes xx"

Have to arrange to go one week ok x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Easy!? It's like Fort Knox trying to get into my knickers.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Easy!? It's like Fort Knox trying to get into my knickers."

lol

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By *ath_Neil_bifunCouple
over a year ago

near cardiff


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

"

I bet this comes from the guys who cant get laid with there rancid stump of a penis avatar pic,and gallery filled with said pics of rancid stump of a penis....

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

"

All I can suggest is you ask THOSE guys that suggested it in the first place, we cant speak on there behalf and therefore, cant answer for them

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

"

Because they think we should be..then they realize we aren't and have a tantrum.

I don't know about anyone else but being on here and swinging mainly away from here makes me far from easy. I know what type get me going with just a look and it's only those I will consider. So swinging makes me extremely fussy and that's the way it's staying no matter how mainly spoilt children throw their teddies out the cot. Just proves they are not mentally mature enough to be on the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive been on here for a few months and have not managed to hook up. But i still wouldnt dream of giving people abuse. As far as im concerned a no is a no and if people cant handle rejection maybe this isnt the site for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuck it girls. I reckon that the ladies should be allowed to name and shame the stupid and pathetic guys who are vile and abusive.

The genuine and tidy guys wouldn't be worried by the naming and shaming only the twats who's spoiling this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've found that women respond to manners and being nice not abusing them (unless they ask for it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it girls. I reckon that the ladies should be allowed to name and shame the stupid and pathetic guys who are vile and abusive.

The genuine and tidy guys wouldn't be worried by the naming and shaming only the twats who's spoiling this site.

"
i agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it girls. I reckon that the ladies should be allowed to name and shame the stupid and pathetic guys who are vile and abusive.

The genuine and tidy guys wouldn't be worried by the naming and shaming only the twats who's spoiling this site.

i agree"

Women are just as bad let me tell you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fuck it girls. I reckon that the ladies should be allowed to name and shame the stupid and pathetic guys who are vile and abusive.

The genuine and tidy guys wouldn't be worried by the naming and shaming only the twats who's spoiling this site.

i agree

Women are just as bad let me tell you.

"

Well I'm not rude or abusive

Unless I have to be

But have never started abuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it girls. I reckon that the ladies should be allowed to name and shame the stupid and pathetic guys who are vile and abusive.

The genuine and tidy guys wouldn't be worried by the naming and shaming only the twats who's spoiling this site.

i agree

Women are just as bad let me tell you.

"

Giggles I know this but I didn't wanna start a stampede lol

But us men can normally take it though lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fuck it girls. I reckon that the ladies should be allowed to name and shame the stupid and pathetic guys who are vile and abusive.

The genuine and tidy guys wouldn't be worried by the naming and shaming only the twats who's spoiling this site.

i agree

Women are just as bad let me tell you.

Giggles I know this but I didn't wanna start a stampede lol

But us men can normally take it though lol"

Yep or block and move on

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Just around the corner

I wouldn't dare do any of those things OP. It's difficult making conversation as it is, without dissing those are decent enough to reply (even if it is only to say 'no').

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are frustrated they think it will be not stop fucking when they join the site. They quickly realise that it's not as easy as that & they aren't getting anywhere & go into attack mode. I get "oh your stunning" "gorgeous" etc when I politely decline I'm suddenly a "big fat slut" "fat pig"straight after all the time. So predictable lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

"

Sadly it's popularity is what is currently spoiling it Far too many messers, time-wasters, profiles that are here today and gone tomorrow. I don't know what the answer is, but I wish Admin could figure out a way of ing these people out. It's become nigh-on impossible to sort out meets as everyone is so (justifiably) suspicious on here these days.

I'll be sticking with it, for now at least, in the hope that it does improve. It was far better before so many people joined and treated it like Facebook.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they are frustrated they think it will be not stop fucking when they join the site. They quickly realise that it's not as easy as that & they aren't getting anywhere & go into attack mode. I get "oh your stunning" "gorgeous" etc when I politely decline I'm suddenly a "big fat slut" "fat pig"straight after all the time. So predictable lol "

yes this is exactly how they act

sad really x

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"Because they are frustrated they think it will be not stop fucking when they join the site. They quickly realise that it's not as easy as that & they aren't getting anywhere & go into attack mode. I get "oh your stunning" "gorgeous" etc when I politely decline I'm suddenly a "big fat slut" "fat pig"straight after all the time. So predictable lol

yes this is exactly how they act

sad really x"

They are just small minded simpletons. Your great, there not, move on

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By *i6erfMan
over a year ago

Neath

im for name and shame, get rid of the timewasters

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

the reason i am here is because i am a swinger i love the social side as well as the bonus of sex i accommodate and travel have many genuine friends on here always turn up to meetings and always treat lady's with the respect they deserve its a shame men treat them as pieces of meat sex or no sex who cares the social side is fantastic and all women have the rite to say no thank you as people have mentioned a lot of men on here are total wankers and have no protocols manners .yes the women on here are after sex but they have the rite to choose respect that and you'll go far if not they all have block keys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im for name and shame, get rid of the timewasters"

All name and shame will do is get you a ban. Totally against fab rules and quite rightly so. Just report abuse, block and move on. Sad fuckers give abuse for a reason and that is usually that they have unrealistic expectations of the site. Sad, pathetic individuals who I wouldn't give the time of day in the vanilla world or on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open to abuse & unmanageable, guys just create new profiles & start all over again.

I came back this time thinking be nice, be tolerant, I'm now back to the block delete for all messages from guys who either haven't read my profile or update, or for those I have no intention of meeting. I'm not here to massage ego's & I'm not sitting here inviting abuse so I'm running my profile in a way which suits me best. Others may see that as rude, but this thread alone proves why its necessary. The real shame here is that with all the time wasters, rude guys & fantasists you've really got to sift through carefully to find the good guys. Luckily there's enough of them to keep us women on the site. Thank you to all the nice single guys out there, you know who you are

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By *all Mid WalesMan
over a year ago

Mid Wales

Unfortunately some of us genuine and decent guys get missed because of the time wasters.

But due to not being a total w@$!%r, as frustrated as it can be i just chill and carry on and hope someone will take a chance, but until then i am going where possible to attend socials.

But no matter i am me and fab is an addition to my life. I will keep chatting and see where things go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Unfortunately some of us genuine and decent guys get missed because of the time wasters.

But due to not being a total w@$!%r, as frustrated as it can be i just chill and carry on and hope someone will take a chance, but until then i am going where possible to attend socials.

But no matter i am me and fab is an addition to my life. I will keep chatting and see where things go

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"im for name and shame, get rid of the timewasters"
the list would be as long as the bible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some guy's here

Call women easy for being on this site!

make you feel worthless

This is so sad ??

As its supposed to be fun for like minded people from all walks of life

makes me wonder why !

"
i agree its usually because youve said no. They then attack. Sorry to hear youre down. Theyre not worth losing sleep over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

These guys dont get if you say no its a no they then attack you verbally and must expect you to jump into bed with them. Us guys get judged because of it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Open to abuse & unmanageable, guys just create new profiles & start all over again.

I came back this time thinking be nice, be tolerant, I'm now back to the block delete for all messages from guys who either haven't read my profile or update, or for those I have no intention of meeting. I'm not here to massage ego's & I'm not sitting here inviting abuse so I'm running my profile in a way which suits me best. Others may see that as rude, but this thread alone proves why its necessary. The real shame here is that with all the time wasters, rude guys & fantasists you've really got to sift through carefully to find the good guys. Luckily there's enough of them to keep us women on the site. Thank you to all the nice single guys out there, you know who you are "

well said hunni

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