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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when messaging or arranging meets etc, how much does 'looks' come in to it rather than the mutual swinging connection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when messaging or arranging meets etc, how much does 'looks' come in to it rather than the mutual swinging connection? "

Looks is 95% for me. Even if someone has the most amazing personality if I'm not attracted I'm not attracted. End of. I can only think of one man I've met from here that's won me around from my 'type' by being an absolute gem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if I'm not physically attracted to someone then there will be no connection

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I'm a ugly bugger best is when your chatting away send your face pic and the messages just stop haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" if I'm not physically attracted to someone then there will be no connection"

If you ain't hot, you ain't getting in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not shallow so mostly meet on personality alone......unlike the men who msg me asking for meets without asking for a face pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality is big for us. We are a large couple so the looks department is not our strongest point. We like to spend time with each other, laugh a lot, have fun. Then the sex is good. A meeting of minds you might say. No point being a looker if you can't get on. Depends what you are after really. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say they are both important because there has to be a physical connection but then if they have a crappy personality it wont work and its just not appealing to have sex with them......so probably personality is slightly more important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say they are both important because there has to be a physical connection but then if they have a crappy personality it wont work and its just not appealing to have sex with them......so probably personality is slightly more important "

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By *_PlayMan
over a year ago

cardiff

I dunno weather I'm hot or not????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't shag a personality, all about the looks

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By *untime biatchWoman
over a year ago

ova by ea wales


"Can't shag a personality, all about the looks "
this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say they are both important because there has to be a physical connection but then if they have a crappy personality it wont work and its just not appealing to have sex with them......so probably personality is slightly more important "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm no fine art painting, but i do have to admit that yes, I have gone for looks in the past, and been very disappointed.

Why have a meet with someone you don't gel with just because of their looks ?

I'm sorry but if we get along, then its a definite yes from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm no fine art painting, but i do have to admit that yes, I have gone for looks in the past, and been very disappointed.

Why have a meet with someone you don't gel with just because of their looks ?

I'm sorry but if we get along, then its a definite yes from me "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If looks weren't important then nobody would be asking for face pics and blind date would turn into blind shag

If any of us ask for face pics then the answer has to be yes it's very important

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet without seeing a face pic

So looks are important to me

But they do have to have something upstairs lol

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By *r and mrs willingCouple
over a year ago

SOUTH WEST & WALES

Looks and personality are equally important to us. I guess if "fuck n go" swinging is your thing, then looks might be unimportant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I'm no fine art painting, but i do have to admit that yes, I have gone for looks in the past, and been very disappointed.

Why have a meet with someone you don't gel with just because of their looks ?

I'm sorry but if we get along, then its a definite yes from me "

This. Also an attitude thing. If you walk in like you're gods gift then its unlikely I'd give you a second glance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I don't think it's shallow to base on looks.

I'm here to have sex with aesthetically hot men and fulfill my fantasies at the end of the day. Personality means nothing, I'm not looking to date them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't swing with someone I don't find attractive, be it looks or personality

it's not one or the other, but both together

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