FabSwingers.com forum: do many fabbers miss the point of fab... its not just about sex !

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so ive been reading some threads recently about people being un successful meeting etc ... but for me its not just about meeting for sex its about chatting making friends and showing respect to each other .. same as life in general !

for me thats the point of fab ie meeting nice people along the way not just about the sex .... if more people had the approach maybe theyd have more luck.

am i wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so ive been reading some threads recently about people being un successful meeting etc ... but for me its not just about meeting for sex its about chatting making friends and showing respect to each other .. same as life in general !

for me thats the point of fab ie meeting nice people along the way not just about the sex .... if more people had the approach maybe theyd have more luck.

am i wrong ? "

I so much prefer the social side of fab and playing is a bonus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me thats the point of fab ie meeting nice people along the way not just about the sex .... if more people had the approach maybe theyd have more luck.

am i wrong ?

I so much prefer the social side of fab and playing is a bonus

Have to agree with both of you - I've had some great meets but made some brilliant friends as well

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

I agree with all of the above , good personal qualities are always welcome with me aswell as good communication on here and in person via the socials that we have down here in south wales

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By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney

I just wanna get my end away hehehehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just wanna get my end away hehehehe "

At least you're honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree, for some, it's only about sex. I.e, those who just want to make their fantasies come true.

Fab is what you make of it, there is no right or wrong, just different.

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By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney

"I disagree, for some, it's only about sex. I.e, those who just want to make their fantasies come true.

Fab is what you make of it, there is no right or wrong, just different."

Yeah there is a right n wrong. For example if you don't want your end away your doing it wrong hehe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there might be a hint in the name

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it seems like im with the majority then, as I enjoy the social aspects just as much as the sex.

as for fulfilling fantasy's, I dont really have any left

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

for me thats the point of fab ie meeting nice people along the way not just about the sex .... if more people had the approach maybe theyd have more luck.

am i wrong ?

I so much prefer the social side of fab and playing is a bonus

No I totally agree with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love the social side of fab . It gives us the chance to meet up socially and hopefully meet new friends even if it never goes any further . But also enjoy the benefits mmmmmm bustylou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met some amazing people off this site ... Most have been good but have come across the occasional bad egg ( cheats and dis honest ) but I wouldn't swap anything I've done for a second xx so NO its not all about the sex n meeting for pointless fun - that's not swinging to me xx

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

Its more about the social side for me if i get to play thats a bonus if i don't its no biggie got to say in the last 6 months i've truly met some great people though this and hopefully made some friends for life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its more about the social side for me if i get to play thats a bonus if i don't its no biggie got to say in the last 6 months i've truly met some great people though this and hopefully made some friends for life

I've met some morons on here too mind ^^^^^^^ahem ^^^^

^^^^^^ t bone *cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I attract the dick heads lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

I've met some morons on here too mind ^^^^^^^ahem ^^^^

^^^^^^ t bone *cough*"

Biatch pmsl Where's my honey nut clusters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I attract the dick heads lol

I do as well xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought it was just me...

I have to keep checking that no one has raped my status and put

"CAN ALL BELLENDS PLEASE MSG ME...ABUSE WELCOME..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thought it was just me...

I have to keep checking that no one has raped my status and put

"CAN ALL BELLENDS PLEASE MSG ME...ABUSE WELCOME...""

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't like wham bam sex like to find out a bit before hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well it seems like im with the majority then, as I enjoy the social aspects just as much as the sex.

as for fulfilling fantasy's, I dont really have any left

Same here, wham bam sex doesn't do much for me, much prefer friends with benefits as far more fulfilling x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the social side and have thrown a few good parties.......the fun is a bonus....Knob heads need not apply....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've met some amazing people off this site ... Most have been good but have come across the occasional bad egg ( cheats and dis honest ) but I wouldn't swap anything I've done for a second xx so NO its not all about the sex n meeting for pointless fun - that's not swinging to me xx

my thoughts exactly .... seems in general people enjoy the social side as much as playing unfortunately there also seems to be an element of arrogant people also, thats just life though lol

been great to share peoples thoughts on this ...

your all great guy ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The majority of times I've been to Chams, I haven't been interested in anyone so havent played, just socialised. This suits me fine, the sex is a bonus but I'm loving the social side a lot more recently.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel I'm one of the few guys who likes to chat before trying to meet. So for me it's more about the social aspect.

The sex can be great but making friends is better

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By *appy campersCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

We have met some amazing, sexy people through Fab, lots are friends we chill with on a social level still. After meeting new people at socials etc it determines whether you connect on a personal level and the blatant flirting that follows is a huge turn on. Sex is an added bonus. We LOVE our alternative lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did someone say sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I disagree, for some, it's only about sex. I.e, those who just want to make their fantasies come true.

Fab is what you make of it, there is no right or wrong, just different."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm deffo not a fan

Of wham bam sex much prefer to meet chat

See if there a connection if there is then

It's much more enjoyable x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

glad you agree milly moon.

your an fine exame of enjoying getting to know someone, hope you dont mind me saying on the thread you seem a lovely lady ...

isnt this what its about

kind regards milly moon x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"glad you agree milly moon.

your an fine exame of enjoying getting to know someone, hope you dont mind me saying on the thread you seem a lovely lady ...

isnt this what its about

kind regards milly moon x "

thank you and likewise to xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people don't grasp the swinging scene - some men are on here for exactly that and we see loads of threads on forums about can't get a meet - go to socials and speak to ppl . it's all about talking and meeting others . Then if there's an attraction sex .

I ve been to clubs and not played as there was no one there I fancied. But had fantastic nights just chatting and having a laugh with ppl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience on here I'd say that, for every interesting guy who can comprehend the breadth of swinging there, there are at least ten who think that it's just a sex site and that all women on here are free prostitutes who owe them attention...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"From my experience on here I'd say that, for every interesting guy who can comprehend the breadth of swinging there, there are at least ten who think that it's just a sex site and that all women on here are free prostitutes who owe them attention...

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very well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Some people don't grasp the swinging scene - some men are on here for exactly that and we see loads of threads on forums about can't get a meet - go to socials and speak to ppl . it's all about talking and meeting others . Then if there's an attraction sex .

I ve been to clubs and not played as there was no one there I fancied. But had fantastic nights just chatting and having a laugh with ppl. "
ive meet lots of new friends with this approach ... will be nice to say hello in person to you in person if your still going friday.. kind regards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ve been to clubs and not played as there was no one there I fancied. But had fantastic nights just chatting and having a laugh with ppl. ive meet lots of new friends with this approach ... will be nice to say hello in person to you in person if your still going friday.. kind regards "

Thanks babes I m not going Friday next time eh xxxxxx have a fab night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the flip side. .as much as some of us love the social side others would argue for them it is just about the sex..

For some people they have full lives..plenty of friends .busy life and jyst want fab as a tool for no strings sex..Some ppl don't want or need chit chat ..socials etc and pop on and off solely to fulfill fantasies and sexual needs

That's ok too .. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very true - and I do use it myself for just no-strings sex sometimes. But only with people who can give respect and who deserve it in return. You can arrange wonderful no-frills fast sex on here and still treat people nicely at the same time.

But that respect is so often missing!

I had an approach recently that more-or less said (not quite verbatim) "Fancy a fuck?" When I politely refused, I got the response "Why are you on here then? This is a sex site and I want to fuck you..."

Doesn't quite have the tone that I usually hope for....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I get that daily...

"What u doing now"

Umm..why??

"Well so u want to fuck "

Umm...no?...

"Wha u on here for then luv"

Sooooo much to learn. ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup I get that daily...

"What u doing now"

Umm..why??

"Well so u want to

"Wha u on here for then luv"

Sooooo much to learn. ....

xx"

Never had that myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup I get that daily...

"What u doing now"

Umm..why??

"Well so u want to fuck "

Umm...no?...

"Wha u on here for then luv"

Sooooo much to learn. ....

xx"

Best couple I've had before I changed a few photos was chatting away maybe arrange a pub meet then

"Hi, looking through your pics. Didn't notice your black sorry don't find black guys sexy"

does make me chuckle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yup I get that daily...

"What u doing now"

Umm..why??

"Well so u want to fuck "

Umm...no?...

"Wha u on here for then luv"

Sooooo much to learn. ....

xx"

Get that myself as well as :-

I m in wales /

meet me now ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yuppp!!! Aren't we lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yuppp!!! Aren't we lucky!

hmmm lol are we Pmsl x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the ones who write "I'm visiting Wales, staying in Cardiff, want to pop round to my hotel?" - when if they looked at the map they'd see that I'm at the other end of Wales, 180 miles away....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think fab has the same structure as a community and works well. Everyone can still do there own thing, put out good vibes everyone lol

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

for me thats the point of fab ie meeting nice people along the way not just about the sex .... if more people had the approach maybe theyd have more luck.

am i wrong ? "

no respect women an they will come

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