FabSwingers.com forum: M to f ratio. .whyyyy?....

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why do you think the male to female ratio is so high?

Is it because men are hornier?

Because girls feel it isn't socially acceptable to be sexually liberal?

Because girls don't gave the guts to join where men are like yeeehaaaaa let's get on there?

Myself and female friends are naughtier than our male mates so often wonder how there are so little fems on here? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish it was the other way round

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"Why do you think the male to female ratio is so high?

Is it because men are hornier?

Because girls feel it isn't socially acceptable to be sexually liberal?

Because girls don't gave the guts to join where men are like yeeehaaaaa let's get on there?

Myself and female friends are naughtier than our male mates so often wonder how there are so little fems on here? Xx

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maybe because they are less comfortable with this lifestyle than you are and dont have the same approach to having fun on here than you and your friends have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's still not the done thing to be as liberated as men. Bar one male friend who works in the adult entertainment industry Im always the filthiest one. It's why Scarlett and I gelled so quickly.

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By *roggMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest

"I think it's still not the done thing to be as liberated as men. Bar one male friend who works in the adult entertainment industry Im always the filthiest one. It's why Scarlett and I gelled so quickly.

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I am sure that you both are good to meet in here anyway socially IR whatever as you both come across as friendly and open minded and good to chat with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the ratio is higher because there are more attached single men on here than total single ones. Not saying that there aren't some attached women on here as single but for some reason more men seem to join this site looking for a bit xtra fun than their female counterparts.

Each to their own as long as they're all having fun but personally I/we have found women tend to be more liberated sexually and filthier during play than a lot of men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's to do with social boundaries and preconceptions. A man sleeps around he is a stud. A woman does it and she is a slag. I disagree with it but that is how it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's to do with social boundaries and preconceptions. A man sleeps around he is a stud. A woman does it and she is a slag. I disagree with it but that is how it is "

An aussie comedian said the following about this, bit contraversial but spot on I think.....ha!

"Every single time a man sleeps with a lot of women, he’s called a stud. But if a woman sleeps with a lot of men, she’s called a slut, and people think this is unfair… Nah. It’s completely fair, and I’ll tell you why, alright? ‘Cause it’s fuckin’ easy to be a slut. It’s fuckin’ hard to be a stud. To be a stud you have to be witty, charming, be well-dressed, have nice shoes, and a good job. To be a slut you just have to be there. There are fat ugly sluts out there, there are no fat ugly studs"

Jim Jefferies

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's to do with social boundaries and preconceptions. A man sleeps around he is a stud. A woman does it and she is a slag. I disagree with it but that is how it is

An aussie comedian said the following about this, bit contraversial but spot on I think.....ha!

Jim Jefferies

Haha very contraversial.. but doesn't explain why so little fems enjoy the life style..

I defo think it's because it isn't socially acceptable... that girls worry about being found out etc. . Or of people's opinions.

We are all different but as I get older I worry less about what ppl think...

We are here once. .I am not going to spend my time on this planet worrying about conforming or about people's opinions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons filthy might be very tame to another person.

And some dont feel the need to brag about how filthy or kinky they are all the time .It gets boring

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think the ratio is higher because there are more attached single men on here than total single ones. Not saying that there aren't some attached women on here as single but for some reason more men seem to join this site looking for a bit xtra fun than their female counterparts.

Each to their own as long as they're all having fun but personally I/we have found women tend to be more liberated sexually and filthier during play than a lot of men. "

This^^^^

I have found women to be naughtier..up for more..less boundaries too

Women rock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I concur bubbs........

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"One persons filthy might be very tame to another person.

And some dont feel the need to brag about how filthy or kinky they are all the time .It gets boring

Defo! As the saying goes "it's the quiet ones you have to watch"

Anyone in Chams on Fri would relate to this..

To the little innocent looking young girl that was there on fri. .

She knows who she is...wow!just wow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I believe it comes down to ease of access and social acceptance.

Being honest it is easier for women to get what they want, as lets be fair just hinting to a guy he can get some will make him bend over backwards to achieve her goal. Hence I believe the lack of girls om here. They can get a man interested and say wanna do ..... if they say no they can get anothrr guy probably in 5 mins.

Socially especially umungst my friends even the word sharing beings them to blush and swear they wouldn't ever, so whilst it isn't seen as accepted mainstream it will drive sites like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could safety maybe play an issue as well?? Many single women may not feel safe meeting men through a site like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree nawty women are more willing to experiment.

Some guys on here just dont get that some women only want sex and nothing more.

Shut the door on the way out when Ive finished with you guys

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could safety maybe play an issue as well?? Many single women may not feel safe meeting men through a site like this"

Deffo

Although I recently pointed out to my mate that meeting a guy out in spoons whilst steaming and dragging him back is no safer. I think this is a more controlled environment xx

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By *ackStrakerMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

It can also be down to more women 'taking breaks'. Lets face it most women have no problems getting meets. They get burnt out quicker. That's te way its been with my friends. Guys on the other hand get less meets so last longer ... You know what I mean

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree nawty women are more willing to experiment.

Some guys on here just dont get that some women only want sex and nothing more.

Shut the door on the way out when Ive finished with you guys

Hahaha I love it..

And no they don't! On my old profile I had loads that couldn't understand n.s.a ...xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could safety maybe play an issue as well?? Many single women may not feel safe meeting men through a site like this

Deffo

Although I recently pointed out to my mate that meeting a guy out in spoons whilst steaming and dragging him back is no safer. I think this is a more controlled environment xx"

I agree 100%, but I think there has always been a bit of stigma about all the "weirdos" online, as misconstrued as it may be xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my old profile I had loads that couldn't understand n.s.a ...xx"

I understand N.S.A it's No Sodding Anal

My opinion is women don't need to look for it or they are just not interested in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"On my old profile I had loads that couldn't understand n.s.a ...xx

I understand N.S.A it's No Sodding Anal

My opinion is women don't need to look for it or they are just not interested in the scene.

Hey! It's p.o.a for me..

plenty of anal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Could safety maybe play an issue as well?? Many single women may not feel safe meeting men through a site like this

Deffo

Although I recently pointed out to my mate that meeting a guy out in spoons whilst steaming and dragging him back is no safer. I think this is a more controlled environment xx

I agree 100%, but I think there has always been a bit of stigma about all the "weirdos" online, as misconstrued as it may be xx"

Defo...my mate thinks if u meet them in a pub they are safe as houses... fine to bareback with etc

There's a fair few narnas on here tho :')

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it boils down to the fact that most men will hit on any woman yet most women are choosy and also have enough men chasing them on a night out so don't need to come on fab

Men however struggle or just don't care who or what a woman is like so come on here as well as trying elsewhere

After all you don't see to many male brothels do you and if there were women wouldn't use them as they are more picky when choosing who to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pays to be fussy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey! It's p.o.a for me..

plenty of anal

Oh naughty

If we are assuming that it is down to a safety aspect, I would agree entirely. In fact given the scenario of pulling a random in a pub or getting to know someone off here it would be much safer getting a meet here although I think the stigma of signing up to a site such as this is a put off for most ladies.

A: You can vet them at socials or over a drink

B: If anything were to affect your safety they are traceable.

A random in the pub is only as good as their word plus how many guys would try it on and say "hey I haven't got any".

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hey! It's p.o.a for me..

plenty of anal

Oh naughty

A: You can vet them at socials or over a drink

B: If anything were to affect your safety they are traceable.

A random in the pub is only as good as their word plus how many guys would try it on and say "hey I haven't got any".

Yup I tell my mate this daily... here I read veries. .. general get the just of their personalities from forum posts. .. you can tell the oddballs from nonsense they write..tell the pug arrogant wankers from where they refer to ppl as fat ugly etc. .. very often you'll know someone they've met .. where as out ..you just get their say so.. I feel safer on here than a random guy out ...x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks."

Can confirm. Have been happily led around a few bedrooms by mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks.

Can confirm. Have been happily led around a few bedrooms by mine.

I prefer by their necks. On a collar and chain. Crawling on the floor. BARK FOR ME, BITCH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks.

Can confirm. Have been happily led around a few bedrooms by mine.

I prefer by their necks. On a collar and chain. Crawling on the floor. BARK FOR ME, BITCH.

Hmmmm. Doesn't sound wholly unpleasant. Can't lick my own balls though, so you'd need to help with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks.

Can confirm. Have been happily led around a few bedrooms by mine.

I prefer by their necks. On a collar and chain. Crawling on the floor. BARK FOR ME, BITCH.

Hmmmm. Doesn't sound wholly unpleasant. Can't lick my own balls though, so you'd need to help with that

Don't know about lick them, but if you keep being cheeky, I can put a spiky heel on them and assert pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't know about lick them, but if you keep being cheeky, I can put a spiky heel on them and assert pressure

*runs off*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love some NSA with redhead but as always to old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be way to many dudes on here... I count myself lucky if I get a message back!... Na on a serious note girls love it as much as us lads... Everyone has needs... Oi oiiiii redhead u look amazing by the way thought I'd slip that in ?? oi oiiii hahaha ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And Ava both of you are banging!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work on taxi and have to say there's nothing worse than a group of women the things they talk about has shocked me loads of times

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oi oiiiii lol

Thank you

If she were bi we'd make a banging duo I agree Ava is hot .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There must be way to many dudes on here... I count myself lucky if I get a message back!... Na on a serious note girls love it as much as us lads... Everyone has needs... Oi oiiiii redhead u look amazing by the way thought I'd slip that in ?? oi oiiii hahaha ??"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hard for a single good looking guy on here I'm not gona lie I reckon red head and Ava should have a tricky sandwich lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hahahaha a tricky sandwich mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One persons filthy might be very tame to another person.

And some dont feel the need to brag about how filthy or kinky they are all the time .It gets boring

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so true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi oiiiii lol

Thank you

If she were bi we'd make a banging duo I agree Ava is hot .

Xx"

Awh Thank you, that's sweet

Tits and tattoos....we could put on one hell of a floor show!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having read a couple of recent posts on "why can't I meet" posted by guys, it got me thinking.

I don't think the ratio is that far out, yes there are loads of guys looking to get a meet but take out the ones who just want to get their jollies by perving photos, then how many will actually put any effort into building a rapport, that's before the ladies either block them or get bored.

After that you have the effort of actually arranging a meet then you have the task of trying to get them to show so you can abuse them with stilettos and other random objects. So taking all that into account I would say there are actually more women to "available" men on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi oiiiii lol

Thank you

If she were bi we'd make a banging duo I agree Ava is hot .

Awh Thank you, that's sweet

Tits and tattoos....we could put on one hell of a floor show!

*sets up ticket scalping business, wearing appropriate hat*

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oi oiiiii lol

Thank you

If she were bi we'd make a banging duo I agree Ava is hot .

Awh Thank you, that's sweet

Tits and tattoos....we could put on one hell of a floor show!

We sooo should.. no bi play just me and you take on hotties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was this ratio so that there is plenty of men to choose from!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought it was this ratio so that there is plenty of men to choose from!!

Oooohhhhh your a nice chunky build!

*flutters eyelashes*

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Women are mainly led by emotion. Men are mainly led by their cocks."

I think this might be the plain and simple answer to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oi oiiiii lol

Thank you

If she were bi we'd make a banging duo I agree Ava is hot .

Awh Thank you, that's sweet

Tits and tattoos....we could put on one hell of a floor show!

*sets up ticket scalping business, wearing appropriate hat*"

excuse me good sir, how do I go about purchasing said ticket...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awh Thank you, that's sweet

Tits and tattoos....we could put on one hell of a floor show!

*sets up ticket scalping business, wearing appropriate hat*

excuse me good sir, how do I go about purchasing said ticket...

£50 in used notes and some pate and crackers (man cannot live by bread alone). And that's cutting me own throat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I thought it was this ratio so that there is plenty of men to choose from!!

Oooohhhhh your a nice chunky build!

*flutters eyelashes*

Must say thas a first being called chunky!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't mean chunky like that lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Nice thighs nice arms nice shoulders ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do you think the male to female ratio is so high?

Is it because men are hornier?

Because girls feel it isn't socially acceptable to be sexually liberal?

Because girls don't gave the guts to join where men are like yeeehaaaaa let's get on there?

Myself and female friends are naughtier than our male mates so often wonder how there are so little fems on here? Xx

I think it's because women who know about Fab don't tend to tell their non-Fab friends about the site...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could easier cut out 1/4 of the blokes as time wasters... Probably more.. I don't think the numbers of "genuine" swingers are that unequal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could easier cut out 1/4 of the blokes as time wasters... Probably more.. I don't think the numbers of "genuine" swingers are that unequal.

Your probably right... soo many fantasists and wanna bes..I think us women actually walk the walk x

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By *octorManMan
over a year ago

Swansea

A woman doesn't need to come on here to have sex. Sometimes this site is maybe a man's only option.

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