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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have found on here that a few guys are a bit immature it just ruins it maybe my age limit is wrong help needed cause ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for any advice to help get me out of this funk and back to meeting again? X

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By *iffidusMan
over a year ago

lydney


"I have found on here that a few guys are a bit immature it just ruins it maybe my age limit is wrong help needed cause ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for any advice to help get me out of this funk and back to meeting again? X"

Some specifics without naming names?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What do you define as maturity??

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone who doesnt strop over not being able to meet me :s or someone whos mature enough to except a "im sorry but not interested" which out kicking back with verbal abuse

I think maybe my age limit being 20-30 allows them type of guys access its put me off doing meets cause I think what if an emergency comes up or I or my daughter falls ill and the meet has to be cancelled will he kick off n strop

its put me in a bit of a funk tbh not had a meet for couple of weeks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some just can't take rejection hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you think that only guys under 30 can be immature....think again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what if they kick off and strop??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone who doesnt strop over not being able to meet me :s or someone whos mature enough to except a "im sorry but not interested" which out kicking back with verbal abuse

I think maybe my age limit being 20-30 allows them type of guys access its put me off doing meets cause I think what if an emergency comes up or I or my daughter falls ill and the meet has to be cancelled will he kick off n strop

its put me in a bit of a funk tbh not had a meet for couple of weeks x"

This is kind of standard. A lot of single guys will throw their weight about because you're a relative newbie.

STick to your guns hun. Block people as soon as they are disrespectful. I've stuck to what I want and no longer get the crap. People have learnt that I'll block quickly.

Hope you get out of your funk soon.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh I know it's not just under 30s I know a couple of guys over 30 that strop worse than my daughter lol

it makes me feel bad if they kick offn strop I cant cope with it like ive got a child I dont need another

x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks kgirl your right I do need to stick to my guns and not be a push over im not here to please them im here to please me lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I know it's not just under 30s I know a couple of guys over 30 that strop worse than my daughter lol

it makes me feel bad if they kick offn strop I cant cope with it like ive got a child I dont need another

x"

You get used to it I guess xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The decent guys are the ones who understand that there's more to life than fab. Things come up that can't be helped. Decent ones will see that you're not going to vanish and are happy to rearrange.

As mentioned, block the twats, a shame there's so many of them. I get enough of them, I can't imagine what its like for a lady on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If you think that only guys under 30 can be immature....think again. "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ava x

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

Life's to short to deal with strop masters and drama Queens. Just forget them and move on.

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By *ragonwalesMan
over a year ago

Pontypridd

The old saying is true on here ...there are plenty of fishes in the sea so just block and move on and don't worry about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You think that under-30's are immature?

I've struggled to find anyone under 40 that has the maturity that I'm looking for! Yes, there's a few, but I've given up and in general won't meet men under 40 at all!!

I don't feel right about it - but the time came to say that I'd put up with enough disrespect and sometimes downright abuse, and just draw the line...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Oh wow see ive slightly gone along that road by raising my age to 40 but im just not sexually attracted to any older :s x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just stick with it as some of us are ok

Block guys that mess you around as life to short

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same .. The abuse is crazy.. sone of the 20-30s are fitttttt but iv had loads of hassle.. abuse if I don't reply..facebook messages .. started meeting slightly older and have seen a big difference xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What youve had guys off here message you on facebook!? Thats over stepping yeh I agree they fit but still immature ive been with a few older and agree there is a diff x

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By *inky BunnyMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for X"

So meet someone from the other group of 5

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found on here that a few guys are a bit immature it just ruins it maybe my age limit is wrong help needed cause ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for any advice to help get me out of this funk and back to meeting again? X"

Well your hardly struggling with 4 veris in 3 weeks bit sounds like you just need to use your block button and deal with the nice guys only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never got funny with anyone from here if I've met them or not life to short don't you think ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for the over 50's, you can't beat them lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Go for the over 50's, you can't beat them lmao"

Nah that's way too old you'd be better off going for the between 45 and 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over 45's are bloody worse lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ageist peeeeeeg.i have the body of a 44 year old and a mind of a two year old so I'm an average of 23

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You ageist peeeeeeg.i have the body of a 44 year old and a mind of a two year old so I'm an average of 23 "

My ideal man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rub me in chip fat I look 21 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol @filthy.

You knows it gigs GRwwllll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The minority of single guys on here can spoil it for the majority of the genuine people on Fab.

It's not necessarily down to the age bracketing for maturity but more down to the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Same .. The abuse is crazy.. sone of the 20-30s are fitttttt but iv had loads of hassle.. abuse if I don't reply..facebook messages .. started meeting slightly older and have seen a big difference xx"

Don't think you can judge every bloke in that age range the same

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She wasnt she said some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alright

That fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck though blondie, don't stand for the abuse etc as most of them are time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, as most have said its less to do with physical age more to do with mind set. Just because we swing it doesnt mean we shag anything that moves (at least some of us dont haha)... If they dont float your boat and kick off when you tell them that its no great loss - block and let live, to mangle a well known saying

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