FabSwingers.com forum: Boundries

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just curious...

Have you ever met someone that has overstepped the mark, emotionally i mean.

At what point do you think its got a bit weird?

This is a sex site afterall, have any of you experienced anything that has made you think...hang on a minute???

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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

I wouldn't class this as a "sex" site per se. It's a swingers site which I feel is about friendship, respect and being intimate if all parties are comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't class this as a "sex" site per se. It's a swingers site which I feel is about friendship, respect and being intimate if all parties are comfortable.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Oh yeah I agree. Sorry sex site was a bad choice of words.

I meant has anyone every emotional over stepped the mark or are there no marks to start with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you talking 'attachment', it happens & you learn to work with it or against it, depending on what you're seeking. For me, I want no attachment whatsoever with my occasional meets & yet I have a very close attachment with my long term, regular meet & that seems to be reciprocated as something we both recognise & accept. It's what allows us to play as a couple on occasion X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah I mean attachment.

We have been on and off here for 5 years and made some great friends, I have also witnessed people getting together as couples which is totally amazing.

when we have mets we tend to stay in touch and become friends but there is a healthy respect due to the nature of the site and if they are married/partnered with someone

just curious to know where people think/feel the line is

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By *psbbwcplCouple
over a year ago

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We met a couple who were fuck buddies a few years ago. The male half Would pester Mrs ips to meet him on their own whenever I was out of earshot. We nearly threw in the swinging towel after that and it's why we now only want to meet couples who are in a relationship (with each other lol).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah I mean attachment.

We have been on and off here for 5 years and made some great friends, I have also witnessed people getting together as couples which is totally amazing.

when we have mets we tend to stay in touch and become friends but there is a healthy respect due to the nature of the site and if they are married/partnered with someone

just curious to know where people think/feel the line is

I think it would be impossible to map the line lol, it would be different for everybody & could possibly vary for each person/couple you meet, I agree it'll be interesting to read how others view attachment & where they see the boundaries. Potentially a very interesting thread x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. It was awkward as fuck and I had to put a stop to it. I'm very clear with people now that they will be nothing more than sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if your sleeping with some one there all the time there is a element of attachment and your gona get involved as we are human

That's why the club and party scene suits me to the ground as there is defo nsa

Again if you do meet someone through the swinging scene you have to have the trust in each other....

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

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We get emotionally involved with people all the time... we make friends, to us that's an emotional attachment.

As for it going further than that, never going to happen, we know what swinging means to us, and we know what we want out of it.

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