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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right your at a party or club and your shagging but the guy doesnt wear a condom!!!!!

But you don't notice till its to late!!!!

Who's to blame????

The man?

The women?

Or both?????

Fire away fabsters....

And i say both are to blame

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both to blame - even if not in a club or at a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both unless the man is a sneaky twat and whips it off between positions

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Both unless the man is a sneaky twat and whips it off between positions"

No its starts with nothing on at all so no sneaky removal

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By *ager_jdCouple
over a year ago

bridgend

Both to blame in my opinion x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both to blame. Don't forget the recent Posters in STI clinics especially aimed at people on this site, I can't remember the exact STI in question but it was one of the nastier ones. Fuck that!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both. Bloke has a responsibility to make sure he's not waving a loaded weapon about, woman has a responsibility to check what she's letting someone put in her body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both are to blame

It wouldn't enter my cave to start with if it weren't bagged up no matter what x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both to blame. Don't forget the recent Posters in STI clinics especially aimed at people on this site, I can't remember the exact STI in question but it was one of the nastier ones. Fuck that!!!

Chlamydia if I remember correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no brainer......both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both to blame. Don't forget the recent Posters in STI clinics especially aimed at people on this site, I can't remember the exact STI in question but it was one of the nastier ones. Fuck that!!!

Chlamydia if I remember correctly."
which can be carried and passed on from the throat. That could be spread like wildfire in a party, no one uses protection for oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was syphilis and hiv

I recently went just as you do for your own piece of mind and was talking to the nurse about it

Who said she is shocked at the amount of adults who don't realise you can catch chlamydia and gonorrhoea through oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both in my view !!

Does this mean the end of oral ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both in my view !!

Does this mean the end of oral ? "
imagine sex with no oral, it'd be like toast without butter!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both in my view !!

Does this mean the end of oral ? imagine sex with no oral, it'd be like toast without butter!!!!"

I hear Jehovah's don't believe in it !!! But not sure as I haven't played with any lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both in my view !!

Does this mean the end of oral ? imagine sex with no oral, it'd be like toast without butter!!!!"

I can't imagine anything worse!! I love butter lol

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By *ax-BangingMan
over a year ago

town

i'm due for a test i think last one was nov best get my arse down there tomorrow now after reading this i never put it uncovered but very really wear one for a gob job

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By *he tunnelsCouple
over a year ago

newport

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, but I would be questioning my own standards first and foremost as to why I didn't insist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both, but I would be questioning my own standards first and foremost as to why I didn't insist."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both, I always do the grab test & prefer to take responsibility for guiding the cock in, that way I know it stays on. In the early days I put the condom on for the guy, who went behind & it was only when he cum I realised he'd removed it & thrown it behind him, he said it fell off, it must've jumped because it was about 3 foot away

so so careful since & you're right about the oral, that's why I get checked every 6 to 8 weeks & I'm selective who I let enter my mouth & rarely let guys cum in my mouth until I'm happy with their pedigree. Not an exact risk assessment process mind, cos who knows what else they get up to & don't say, same for all of us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s get this out of the way first, people on here don’t know how to debate. They have opinions and if yours does not coincide with theirs, yours doesn’t count. Anyway I digress here’s my opinion

The two key points are here “If they guy doesn’t wear a condom” “but you don’t notice until it’s too late”

Let’s examine this, “but you don’t notice until it’s too late” if this is the case then the onus would be on the lady, as she should have respected herself enough to do a pre-flight check prior to allow boarding.

However the scumbag, I say “scumbag” as it appears to be the in term lately on here, should have respected the lady and explained that he did not have protection. If said conversation did not take place then there clearly is a deliberate intention not to use protection and “scumbag” has verified his status by not respecting the lady by giving her a choice.

Moreover as the scenario is in a party or club, both should have taken the responsibility to protect themselves, parties and clubs are unique places, whereby there should have been plenty of condoms available should the need arise, you only need to ask if you are caught short.

So my opinion is it’s the person who shows no respect for the other person.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Let’s get this out of the way first, people on here don’t know how to debate. They have opinions and if yours does not coincide with theirs, yours doesn’t count. Anyway I digress here’s my opinion

The two key points are here “If they guy doesn’t wear a condom” “but you don’t notice until it’s too late”

So my opinion is it’s the person who shows no respect for the other person.

Good way of putting prof

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

Im giving up sex that's it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both to blame - even if not in a club or at a party "

Lmao bubbly fun you try to keep the condoms don't you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

But in a party if they go from person to person with a condom on the woman is still at risk

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If he removed it on the sly then he should be named and shamed and banned from everywhere for being a sneaky rat

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

But in a party if they go from person to person with a condom on the woman is still at risk

I'm hoping they change it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

But in a party if they go from person to person with a condom on the woman is still at risk

Yep this is my point on orgies

Not saying I haven't taken part in group sex

But no one is checking that every guy changes when he swaps women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

But in a party if they go from person to person with a condom on the woman is still at risk

I'm hoping they change it lol

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or at least swilled it under the tap

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

But in a party if they go from person to person with a condom on the woman is still at risk

I'm hoping they change it lol

or at least swilled it under the tap

Does oral count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all know that men try their best to shag without a condom, so female should be on the lookout, moreso lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oral does count, a quick gobble and they are as good as new, and saves a couple of quid xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the duty of everybody to ensure that everybody practices safe sex, I had altercation when a married man tried to play with my gf at the time with no condom. When I stopped him he denied it and then his wife went mental slapped him across back of the head and screamed you always spoil it and try that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its the duty of everybody to ensure that everybody practices safe sex, I had altercation when a married man tried to play with my gf at the time with no condom. When I stopped him he denied it and then his wife went mental slapped him across back of the head and screamed you always spoil it and try that "

Good on her!

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By *adie7Couple
over a year ago

Llantrisant

It's a no brainier... Both are to blame... We have to take responsibility for our own well being... If some guy tried to hoodwink me he'd be bloody sorry.. hell hath no fury and all that....

But let's be honest.. There is so much "moralising" here... We are all playing a risky game as much as we try to be careful. So do skydivers, mountaineers, rock climbers or many other people who pursue "risky" hobbies in pursuit of their pleasure. I know the pitfalls that could happen & try to eliminate risks... But this lifestyle carries risks...

Look after yourself & ENJOY lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had it almost happen twice now in two gangbangs. Lucky I'm pie hot on that stuff and told them straight, no chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

But in a party if they go from person to person with a condom on the woman is still at risk

Eww double dipping, don't like that either, much prefer a guy who doesn't feel he has to cum in the condom before changing it lol. It's why I carry lots with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if a condom splits and the guy stops to change for a new one ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So do skydivers, mountaineers, rock climbers or many other people who pursue "risky" hobbies in pursuit of their pleasure. "

If you do more than one of them, does that make things exponentially worse?

*fears for skydiving, rock climbing swingers*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does anal count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anal count?

Nope....just flick the sweetcorn off and away to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened to me , my male friend was meant to be looking after me , I was in a club in a black vinyl covered mattress (very slippery ) playing with a couple of guys when this old guy took it upon himself ( was dark he must have been at least 70) to slide his cock , condom free in my pussy ! Straight away I stopped play and sent him away with a limp cock as I went ballistic the cheeky bastard how rude !!! Now I don't mind helping the elderly but that took the piss . 2 hours next day at health clinic !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really the woman should've checked first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Giggles I'm going to sue you for false advertisement. There's no arguing at all in here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does anal count?

Nope....just flick the sweetcorn off and away to go

Omg I know I shouldn't be I have to admit to laughing at this one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Both to blame - even if not in a club or at a party

Lmao bubbly fun you try to keep the condoms don't you

Lol I told you - I'm greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All this talk about oral and stds is putting me right off giving oral now!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

do women know when a condom has split ??

i can tell 90% of the time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Giggles I'm going to sue you for false advertisement. There's no arguing at all in here!"

Pmsfl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"do women know when a condom has split ??

i can tell 90% of the time."

Split condoms are a whole different ball game. And a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

90% ???? You should know every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

Im giving up sex that's it

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lol u give up sex hell would freeze over first xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Trust no one I say and use condoms. Even those who swear blind they've just that minute had an all clear on their test results

Im giving up sex that's it

lol u give up sex hell would freeze over first xx"

It's froze

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

"Does anal count?

Nope....just flick the sweetcorn off and away to go

Omg I know I shouldn't be I have to admit to laughing at this one "

That made me laugh too. But yes it does.

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By *lly McbealWoman
over a year ago

Neath

"Right your at a party or club and your shagging but the guy doesnt wear a condom!!!!!

But you don't notice till its to late!!!!

Who's to blame????

The man?

The women?

Or both?????

Fire away fabsters....

And i say both are to blame

OMG has this happens to you? Message me let me know who it was so I can avoid xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always wear at least 3

one to fill out the 2nd one a bit and a 3rd just to be extra safe...

costs me a fortune but 32 rs and counting ive yets to get myself up the duff and i wank loads....

^be scared ladies people like me actually exist

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right your at a party or club and your shagging but the guy doesnt wear a condom!!!!!

But you don't notice till its to late!!!!

Who's to blame????

The man?

The women?

Or both?????

Fire away fabsters....

And i say both are to blame

OMG has this happens to you? Message me let me know who it was so I can avoid xx"

No didn't happen to me

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By *lly McbealWoman
over a year ago

Neath

"Right your at a party or club and your shagging but the guy doesnt wear a condom!!!!!

But you don't notice till its to late!!!!

Who's to blame????

The man?

The women?

Or both?????

Fire away fabsters....

And i say both are to blame

OMG has this happens to you? Message me let me know who it was so I can avoid xx

No didn't happen to me

Just desperate for attention then

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

"Right your at a party or club and your shagging but the guy doesnt wear a condom!!!!!

But you don't notice till its to late!!!!

Who's to blame????

The man?

The women?

Or both?????

Fire away fabsters....

And i say both are to blame

OMG has this happens to you? Message me let me know who it was so I can avoid xx

No didn't happen to me

Just desperate for attention then "

Who is?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Right your at a party or club and your shagging but the guy doesnt wear a condom!!!!!

But you don't notice till its to late!!!!

Who's to blame????

The man?

The women?

Or both?????

Fire away fabsters....

And i say both are to blame

OMG has this happens to you? Message me let me know who it was so I can avoid xx

No didn't happen to me

Just desperate for attention then "

Excuse me.....

How is having a discussion about something desperate for attention??????

I get all the attention I want and need but thanks for your input

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By *arren e treggidenMan
over a year ago

pembroke dock wales

the man who has no respect for any of his partners

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