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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend

So today... I introduce a female friend to fab swingers even helping her with her account set up.

With in 10 minutes... Literally 10 minutes, the young lady receives over 300 messages!! As you can imagine with out a dedicated team of 10 colleagues helping her reply, she can't keep up..

insert Viagra joke

To my shock certain guys actually get abusive because she can't keep up!

I'm speechless that some lads react like this it's a joke! Well I soon introduced her to the block feature!

P.s. Just to put it out there... Most unread I've ever had is 12 and I thought that was loads. Come on guys post your maximum 'honest' unread mail at one stage

ViiBE_Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I deleted 300 unread yesterday lol

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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend


"I deleted 300 unread yesterday lol "

Show off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I deleted 300 unread yesterday lol

Show off "

No just showing that men don't realise how many messages women get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My block list is so long & my filters so narrow, I delete about 50 a day, plus I'm outside a lot of age ranges, still 50 is too much to reply to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know the feeling girls I deleted 2 unread yesterday

Bloody pain in the ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.....bubbs.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands. "

its not surprising mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had 4 unread messages before. But I do check it fairly often, too often if anything!

Getting piss with someone who hasn't responded is just going to make them even more likely to ignore or block you!

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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend


"I know the feeling girls I deleted 2 unread yesterday

Bloody pain in the ass

"

*buckled laughing*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think its best I sit on my hands and say nothing. Dont want be be banned again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It bloody is fluff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

....saying feck all........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be odd. I only have 3 on my block list.

Or could it be Im to nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I must be odd. I only have 3 on my block list.

Or could it be Im to nice "

I think I have 6 lol and that's all women who blocked me hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know the feeling girls I deleted 2 unread yesterday

Bloody pain in the ass

"

Ha ha im glad you feel our pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont thinI've been blocked yet, and I would have a party in me pants if I had 2 unread messages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dont thinI've been blocked yet, and I would have a party in me pants if I had 2 unread messages lol"

Still time fluff lol

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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend

I'm brain storming now thinking was my 12 un read messages actually me looking at my 'sent' section!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm brain storming now thinking was my 12 un read messages actually me looking at my 'sent' section!!

"

Ha ha aww do you actually message that many people in one day

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales

I had an unread a minute ago....i've read it now though lol.

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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend


"I'm brain storming now thinking was my 12 un read messages actually me looking at my 'sent' section!!

Ha ha aww do you actually message that many people in one day "

In a day? I'm talking hours

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales


"I had an unread a minute ago....i've read it now though lol."

Why did I snort when I read this!?

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By *atty_loves_curvesMan
over a year ago

South Wales


"I had an unread a minute ago....i've read it now though lol.

Why did I snort when I read this!? "

becaue i like your hold ups lol.

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

Thanks I like them too

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands.

"

So sorry. I only sent 1173 of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*goes misty eyed*

I had an unread message, once. I remember saving it for a special occasion. There I was on Christmas morning, eagerly waiting to open it, some three weeks after it was sent.

It turned out to be from some bloke. I'm not into blokes.

*sobs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands.

So sorry. I only sent 1173 of them."

Cute mister.

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands.

So sorry. I only sent 1173 of them.

Cute mister. "

Not always cute. Give me some candles cuffs and subdued lighting. I sound a little to experienced or is the word older?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands.

So sorry. I only sent 1173 of them.

Cute mister.

Not always cute. Give me some candles cuffs and subdued lighting. I sound a little to experienced or is the word older?"

Hmm. Intrigued.

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By *iercedpussyCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

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By *iercedpussyCouple
over a year ago

pontypridd

I never get any emails to delete

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands.

So sorry. I only sent 1173 of them.

Cute mister.

Drop me a line

Not always cute. Give me some candles cuffs and subdued lighting. I sound a little to experienced or is the word older?

Hmm. Intrigued. "

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By *iForNowXXMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Think its best I sit on my hands and say nothing. Dont want be be banned again "

If you are ever stuck Bubbs you know you can sit on my hands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit! I must be doing something wrong then! I've only got 12 people on my block list! When I first signed on I was getting about 80 messages a day and it's down to about 20 per day now lol (word must be spreading of my winning personality!). in three days I've only got 141 unread *sob

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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago

Corwen

Blimey.. I must be totally fugly. . I don't even reach 40 a day and most of them are not from new people..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fugly at all.

Might be the amount of people where you live. It is a little less dense in the population up there

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

I had two unread messages last April! Sadly I had sent then to myself just to check if my inbox worked!

It seems I can only receive messages from myself!

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By *awkesWoman
over a year ago

Corwen


"Not fugly at all.

Might be the amount of people where you live. It is a little less dense in the population up there"

Master Fox... that made me feel so much better. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're welcome

See, if you had a guy in your life he'd light you up like a bonfire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its a shame that this is the way the majority of men this site.

then again its also the readon why guys like you and i are successful ... its all about respect and treating others the way we would like to be treated !

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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend


"its a shame that this is the way the majority of men this site.

then again its also the readon why guys like you and i are successful ... its all about respect and treating others the way we would like to be treated !

"

Thumbs up mikey

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By *onkers 76Man
over a year ago

pontypool

Christ to get one message out of the blue would be awesome lol I never message anyone with new next to their name no point really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well the gist of this post is that single guys appear to be tossers!! Guess it IS time for me to move along, been on here now for over 10 years and this is without doubt the worst level this site has ever sunk to! No amount of complaining, forum posts or filters are going to change the fact that Swinging is now over run with people who have no manners, etiquette or discretion. Shame really as this was THE site to join once upon a time, now it appears to be the site to leave!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said mick !!! Fancy a quick fuck messages are so off putting,which is why i rarely meet.........It's not instashag is it ?????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of female mates on here have told me about some of the messages they've had off blokes.

I'm surprised there's any women on here AT ALL given what they have to put up with.

If I were out drinking with female friends and blokes walked up and said what they say on here, there would be a lot of much richer dentists around..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I never get any emails to delete "

Happy to send one across for you to delete

J

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By *enuine photographerMan
over a year ago

Swansea


"Snap! Most unread Ive ever had was 1200 in a day after making top photos last summer. I bulk delete most days. Plus I've got a block list of thousands. "

Drop me a line and perhaps we can bring the candles and cuffs into play x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no pleasing, I'm sure you'd all get nagged off if you didn't get any! It's not hard to delete and block! And how many of them are actually genuine offers?

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By *iiBE_Z OP   Man
over a year ago

bridgend


"Couple of female mates on here have told me about some of the messages they've had off blokes.

I'm surprised there's any women on here AT ALL given what they have to put up with.

If I were out drinking with female friends and blokes walked up and said what they say on here, there would be a lot of much richer dentists around.. "

Hahaha-true though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not fugly at all.

Might be the amount of people where you live. It is a little less dense in the population up there"

Or maybe it just depends on when people are online

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By *tu griffMan
over a year ago

bridgend

I'm sure there are plenty of guys like me that are amazed that if some men don't get a reply or a no thank you they then get abusive! They are pathetic gutless cowards that wouldn't do that in person, I only wish I could meet them to 'persuade them' that this behaviour is very wrong.

Please please guys read and understand what the women are saying, it will make this site better for all of us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure there are plenty of guys like me that are amazed that if some men don't get a reply or a no thank you they then get abusive! They are pathetic gutless cowards that wouldn't do that in person, I only wish I could meet them to 'persuade them' that this behaviour is very wrong.

Please please guys read and understand what the women are saying, it will make this site better for all of us.

"

Well said stu and the place would be a better place if guys who ask 4 someone to take them in chams had the decency to let you know they weren't coming

Now that's me offering to help out anyone again.unless I know them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look, the creators of the site introduced winks to try to stop the multiple messages that people get.

if everyone used the system the way its supposed to be used, there wouldn't be this issue.

Wink someone, they wink back if they are interested.

So simple, yet many cant grasp it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure there are plenty of guys like me that are amazed that if some men don't get a reply or a no thank you they then get abusive! They are pathetic gutless cowards that wouldn't do that in person, I only wish I could meet them to 'persuade them' that this behaviour is very wrong.

Please please guys read and understand what the women are saying, it will make this site better for all of us.

Well said stu and the place would be a better place if guys who ask 4 someone to take them in chams had the decency to let you know they weren't coming

Now that's me offering to help out anyone again.unless I know them"

Their loss hun, they missed out on a good night

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