FabSwingers.com forum: Soo annoyed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just had a message from a guy telling me where I live

Due to one of his meets telling him

I don't tell people where I live after having someone stood at top of my garden watching me in my kitchen one night

I didn't even know until a neighbour rang and told me

Now some idiot feels the need to do that grrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's bad

Had that done to me last year

It's so annoying when discretion isn't used you have every right to be angry x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a feeling I know who the female is

But no way of proving it

It kind of puts us in danger when people do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

that is totally out of order.... no excuses

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know it's scary to think someone would be watching you

And you don't even know who it is

I live alone with my kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a message from a guy telling me where I live

Due to one of his meets telling him

I don't tell people where I live after having someone stood at top of my garden watching me in my kitchen one night

I didn't even know until a neighbour rang and told me

Now some idiot feels the need to do that grrr

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That's creepy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a pm here then the admins will ne able to provide yu with a ip address. You cn always report to the police giving the ip.address. It is the same how the police trace facebook and twitter trolls.

Hope everything turns out ok. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol yep I know

Whoever it was my neighbour asked what he was doing hanging around and he said he was looking for me lol

Then walked off and get in his van

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol yep I know

Whoever it was my neighbour asked what he was doing hanging around and he said he was looking for me lol

Then walked off and get in his van "

This is why I never bring men to my house xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Lol yep I know

Whoever it was my neighbour asked what he was doing hanging around and he said he was looking for me lol

Then walked off and get in his van

This is why I never bring men to my house xx"

Now it seems like you can't tell women either

It was a women who told the bloke on here where I lived

But he can't remember which one

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"Lol yep I know

Whoever it was my neighbour asked what he was doing hanging around and he said he was looking for me lol

Then walked off and get in his van

This is why I never bring men to my house xx

Now it seems like you can't tell women either

It was a women who told the bloke on here where I lived

But he can't remember which one

Check his veries, you'll know which one it was from them surely?

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By *ires_and_IceCouple
over a year ago

Over the Rainbow

Not good lush xx hope u and kids r ok xxI would b terrified tbh xx

fire xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a very good idea

But the one I think it might be doesn't know exactly where I live only the area

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aww we ok thanks hun

Just annoyed is all

If people go round openly talking how long before some random turns up at your house or starts stalking lol

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By *et_n_WildCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Why would someone do that?

I'd get the police involved, I'm sure his memory would come back under a police investigation.

This type of thing is not on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

It's not worth it hun

Id have to show the messages and stuff

Then it means admitting im on here

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

Do you want to borrow my nail gun and the new equalizer film serious damage in the right hands x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have a nail gun

And a hammer and I know how to use them lol

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

"I have a nail gun

And a hammer and I know how to use them lol

Sorted nail his balls to the floor then he's fecked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have a nail gun

And a hammer and I know how to use them lol

Sorted nail his balls to the floor then he's fecked

Lol rather kick them really hard

But person giving telling people is a women

So have to nail her nunu to the floor lol

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath

"I have a nail gun

And a hammer and I know how to use them lol

Sorted nail his balls to the floor then he's fecked

Lol rather kick them really hard

But person giving telling people is a women

So have to nail her nunu to the floor lol "

lol or her tits ouch

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Or both

And why ouch ?

It wouldn't hurt me at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a believer of discretion and I've found that most people on fab also understand the need for discretion.

Lushlips what's happening to you is sad as fuck especially if it's a woman grassing if worse. I wouldn't stand for this Lushlips especially if you're alone with your kids xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thank you

And yeah it's terrible

I can't prove who I think it is and the guy who told me blocked me

Sod it not much I can do now

But hope it's a warning to others to be careful as it is happening x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bad move hun

And I know what you mean by having to admit to being on here

Hope you stay safe hun

And get it sorted xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just bonkers that people just don't care what danger you or your children could have been in.

Just piss me off seeing how stupid and spiteful people can be x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them to administrator, I have had this and also had stalker, leaving notes on car windscreens when parked up in town, sitting outside my property and folk calling me to say 'Gav there is someone sitting outside ur gate'... last straw was when they tracked down my business details; called my PA and on same day messaged me to say my parents house was very impressive! ... administrator sorted them and well yes I had to make sure they got message loud and clear from me too!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I didn't want to get the guy in trouble just because some stupid cow feels the need to open Her mouth when she opens her legs

But I'm not sure if he will give up

Her name or not as when I asked who it was he read the message and took five minutes to reply

Probably means he was messaging her to check first lol

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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago

Here!

I would get this thread deleted. If she only told him the area you have just told him he was very close!

Idiots like this spoil things for respectful people!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He didn't tell me the area

He told me a street name

But lucky that's not the street I live on

But it was to close for comfort that people are doing this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why i cant accomodate its way too risky to have people youve briefly met know where u live. I had a stalker a few yrs back that kept posting creepy stuff through my door.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab life and private life stay completely separate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab life and private life stay completely separate."

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People forget that some of us have a life out of swinging and fab, and that discretion is important. In only invite people i trust and people I have met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not good mush!!

Back to my discretion point again! Some real loud mouths on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had a message from a guy telling me where I live

Due to one of his meets telling him

I don't tell people where I live after having someone stood at top of my garden watching me in my kitchen one night

I didn't even know until a neighbour rang and told me

That's creepy . I'd just call 999 if he's hanging about again . Get his reg and then past to police .

Now some idiot feels the need to do that grrr

Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The female is obviously jealous of you but you know where I am and if I'm working I'd pop up straight away if anything did happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a shame you had an idiot open their mouth!

Hope it all gets sorted for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How damn awful!

I have to say that. after an early mistake when I first started swinging, I have never let any Fab member even know which village I live in - and won't meet people who live closer than 10 miles from me.

Hate having to do that, as there are some people who I would love to bring home, but it's now an absolute rule for me - never mix swing and real lives in any way!

...And they wonder why we say "Don't Accommodate"....!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is why im thinking now even when I can accom im not going to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the safest way to be honest hun x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Creepy some people are so odd on here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I 1st joined..I had a buddy and when it ended he put me on a dogging site,gave my number out,had random men turn up at my door and would txt saying stuff like are you ready for your gangbang at 8pm.

It got that bad that in the end I had to ring the police and report him.

I have learnt the hard way

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By *ld skool swingerMan
over a year ago

Abertillery

"This is why im thinking now even when I can accom im not going to "

Make sure your safe some seriously fucked up people in all walks of life .

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By *lue BelleWoman
over a year ago

Caernarfon. North Wales

I can sympathise with you on this. Iv had a woman on here who posted my real name on here and my husband ( who knows nothing) she even named my kids at a club. Why cant people understand that there is a reason why we are all on here. Iv even had a bloke who messaged me and said he knows who I am and in great detail described it even my car but hasn't the guts to tell me who he is which is way creepy. We should have a way on here where we can report this kind of behaviour so all can know to look out for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's unfortunate that there are some complete whack jobs out there!

Keep yourself safe!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Come keep me save me then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the life of me I can't understand why someone wud do this! It's sick for God sake! This person needs to know not only are they putting you in danger they putting you'd children in danger too! I hope ur ok chick and you have my number. Some bloody idiots on here ay! Take care Mia x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For the life of me I can't understand why someone wud do this! It's sick for God sake! This person needs to know not only are they putting you in danger they putting you'd children in danger too! I hope ur ok chick and you have my number. Some bloody idiots on here ay! Take care Mia x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When I 1st joined..I had a buddy and when it ended he put me on a dogging site,gave my number out,had random men turn up at my door and would txt saying stuff like are you ready for your gangbang at 8pm.

It got that bad that in the end I had to ring the police and report him.

I have learnt the hard way

Give me his profile and I know what I would do to the fucking arse hole, he wouldn't move for a month!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It got that bad that in the end I had to ring the police and report him.

I have learnt the hard way

Give me his profile and I know what I would do to the fucking arse hole, he wouldn't move for a month! "

He's actually on here but under a different profile lol...

He actually had a cheek to ask me in chat the other week if I was still pissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is why im thinking now even when I can accom im not going to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It got that bad that in the end I had to ring the police and report him.

I have learnt the hard way

Give me his profile and I know what I would do to the fucking arse hole, he wouldn't move for a month!

He's actually on here but under a different profile lol...

He actually had a cheek to ask me in chat the other week if I was still pissed

SO MATE - WHO EVER YOU ARE FOR UR OWN SAFETY I SUGGEST U MOVE ON QUICKLY!

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By *ittleLillyTV/TS
over a year ago

Pontypool

This isn't cool at all. We all have the right to a life outside of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is now why I very rarely meet off here and prefer to meet in clubs and partys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thumbs up to the idiot that compromises the safety of a lone fem and her children

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow i've only just seen this lush !!!!!

As the person in question lets put an ending to this thread. firstly it was nice to go for a drink with you and take you shopping lush (but oops i just let that slip). being part of the scene you do talk about other people and no one told me more specifically where you lived lush than you yourself after chatting to you for such a long time years ago, that i do remember, don't take it the wrong way you did x

As to a reference i made to you of a reference about you living nearby by another fabber, it was non specific chit chat between swingers THAT HAPPENS on a regular basis on here, lets say it how it is. not that its relevant anymore.

As for someone in your garden, defo not me unless you want a pool man

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Firstly never said you was in my garden

Secondly did you not say in chat that meet had told you I lived up that road while driving ??

Yeah I think let you come wind street for a drink with me and mate

To see what you was like in person

And gathered I might have got you wrong

And actually thing thread was about the fucking women that told you

But hey carry on wes

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