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"not meeting" why are you on here then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So many say not meeting don't know why they are on here

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By *elsh_lass74Woman
over a year ago

South Wales

They like the social side, chat, forums maybe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To say in touch with friends on here

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Maybe they are having a break

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By *entle-LoverMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

Perhaps they have personal problems or family problems, anything is possible in daily life, don't be so quick to judge.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That got a response and fair enough some good reasons

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many say not meeting don't know why they are on here"

So they dont get bombarded, with "fancy a fuck" messages.

They like to meet people at socials to get a real in-person view on someone - rather than read a crap profile.

They use the site to keep in contact with others they have met at parties, socials etc.

Sure there are many other reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get phases where, due to personal circumstances, I am too

busy to meet or sometimes just feel like a break. So will often put not meeting on my profile. During that time I still use the site to use the forums and to chat to people ready for when I do want to meet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm only here for the club's and partys so technically I don't meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they just don't want to meet you and are being polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the club's and partys so technically I don't meet"

Timewaster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the club's and partys so technically I don't meet

Timewaster "

Pmsfl classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the club's and partys so technically I don't meet

Timewaster

Pmsfl classic

"

Should be ashamed of yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I only asked lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I only asked lol"

And we only answered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the club's and partys so technically I don't meet

Timewaster

Pmsfl classic

Should be ashamed of yourself "

But I make up in the party planning and organising

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"So many say not meeting don't know why they are on here"

Oops must have missed the bit when we joined that said you can only be here if you are going meet. And yes we have met from the site but due to recent influx of idiotic messages from guys we now don't but still use the site for social side and forums. And as far as we are aware we are fully entitled to do that. If profile says not meeting just forget about them and move onto someone who is meeting would be the best advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm only here for the club's and partys so technically I don't meet

Timewaster

Pmsfl classic

Should be ashamed of yourself

But I make up in the party planning and organising "

Yay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many say not meeting don't know why they are on here

Oops must have missed the bit when we joined that said you can only be here if you are going meet. And yes we have met from the site but due to recent influx of idiotic messages from guys we now don't but still use the site for social side and forums. And as far as we are aware we are fully entitled to do that. If profile says not meeting just forget about them and move onto someone who is meeting would be the best advice."

well said . xxxx

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By *et_n_WildCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

I'm sure you could of come up with a few reasons why people do this if you gave it some thought!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surprised noone has said sounds a bit harsh could be "not meeting" you. As in doesn't want to meet you but trying to not sound quite as harsh

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

The Forums.

did you not try and answer it yourself first OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not meeting anymore as I'm currently in a new relationship. I didn't realise I signed a contract saying I had to delete my profile at once. Oh, thats right, I didn't.

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By *uckbunnyWoman
over a year ago

mmmm guess u like to know

Im due surgery so are will be in cast as soon as out of cast ill be bk to meeting people have a life outside of fab they have reason s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because not finding the standards I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is lots of reasons people have a break . They may have surgery , bust a limb . Broken an arm , have conjunctivitis , eye op . Operations in general , ill health in general or just have sime family issues with kids or breavment or bust working away fir a bit . Or started a relationship and not meeting cos they don't know where its going yet .There is no rule that says you have to leave . Lots of people have breaks for one thing or another . It often does them good .xxx

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By *lubcouple2Couple
over a year ago

newport

We have only just started meeting again after takein 18months out was only supposed 2 be during my pregnancy but was ill 4 quite a while so 4 us we always kept our profile 2 keep up with friends and let every1 no how I was xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a family, and running two businesses we very rarely meet....should say very rarely get time off to meet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 'not meeting' as I'm crazy busy with my family and uni atm, and tbf it's nice to take a break now and again and meet people through other avenues. Otherwise for me anyway, this tends to get a bit samey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 'not meeting' as I'm crazy busy with my family and uni atm, and tbf it's nice to take a break now and again and meet people through other avenues. Otherwise for me anyway, this tends to get a bit samey "
enjoying my break ATM . It does get Samey xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's safe to say that people cum and people cum oops I mean go while others stay on regardless but having been on a couple of times I would say that those that say they are not meeting will have their own genuine reasons for doing so

The fact they stay on will also be a personal decision and should not bother anyone as its all about personal preference

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By *w72Man
over a year ago

swansea


"I'm 'not meeting' as I'm crazy busy with my family and uni atm, and tbf it's nice to take a break now and again and meet people through other avenues. Otherwise for me anyway, this tends to get a bit samey "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if people decide not to meet atm it's their personal choice

It doesn't state you must meet at least once a week or month when you join the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly have a break and put not meeting or hide my profile. I'm here for my fun not to provide a service to those who can't get a meet. I find that those who use this site as a sex site struggle to understand this approach. Those who are into the lifestyle generally understand. Guess who I meet??! Yep it ain't the sex site crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly have a break and put not meeting or hide my profile. I'm here for my fun not to provide a service to those who can't get a meet. I find that those who use this site as a sex site struggle to understand this approach. Those who are into the lifestyle generally understand. Guess who I meet??! Yep it ain't the sex site crowd."

well said xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I regularly have a break and put not meeting or hide my profile. I'm here for my fun not to provide a service to those who can't get a meet. I find that those who use this site as a sex site struggle to understand this approach. Those who are into the lifestyle generally understand. Guess who I meet??! Yep it ain't the sex site crowd."

Perfectly put X

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