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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

when planning a meet ...how many would it be acceptable to have on a standby list just incase the timewaster curse strikes ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't want to disappoint to many people

But I guess if they know they are a backup then as many as you feel are needed

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you not then be wasting their time?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not if they knew they are on standby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as all are cool with it and they know they are on a list etc then I say it's cool

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By *are_with_me86Man
over a year ago

newport

As long as it's clear I don't see a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite more than one?

Someone will turn up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My personal view Hannah, would be at least 6 but given that I can't even find 6 guys willing to meet me, I went with 3 tonight, just in case you bumped me for a better offer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

now now peachy ...i would never bump u ...ur my delicious peach xx

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Now... don't jump on me for this but...

How would you feel if you were someone's "fallback", especially if there is going to be more than one?

"Please, take a ticket from the machine and wait inline until your number is called!"

Sounds like something only a woman could get away with lol!

Personally, we have NEVER had a no-show in 6 years, and I think that's down to our selection process.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when planning a meet ...how many would it be acceptable to have on a standby list just incase the timewaster curse strikes ??"

I've never had a standby list lol......

if they don't turn up its there loss lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have enough interest to have a standby, I was being a fantasist, yet again

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

same here peachy ..cant get one to meet never mind standbys ....living in a dream world i am .....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was funny while it lasted eh

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

aye everything has a shelf life .....lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always nice to get a reply saying thanks but we think we have arranged something, but will let you know. Its good manners.

It doesn't matter if you find a meet in the meantime, its their loss.

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By *ort_talbot_blokeMan
over a year ago

swansea

I dont see why they wont turn up, as a single male on here who has been on the swinging scene a number of years i have never failed to turn up to meet someone, even though its been socials or full on no talking play, just gives us single males a harder time to find someone to play with and have a good time with, we never get a chance because of people like that gggrrrr grips my shit, i would happily be on a couple of peoples back up list on here but would much prefer to be on the top of the list lol

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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago

Neath


"I dont see why they wont turn up, as a single male on here who has been on the swinging scene a number of years i have never failed to turn up to meet someone, even though its been socials or full on no talking play, just gives us single males a harder time to find someone to play with and have a good time with, we never get a chance because of people like that gggrrrr grips my shit, i would happily be on a couple of peoples back up list on here but would much prefer to be on the top of the list lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now... don't jump on me for this but...

How would you feel if you were someone's "fallback", especially if there is going to be more than one?

"Please, take a ticket from the machine and wait inline until your number is called!"

Sounds like something only a woman could get away with lol!

Personally, we have NEVER had a no-show in 6 years, and I think that's down to our selection process.

"

This...I would be absolutely horrified if I was ttold I was somebody's 'fallback'....how awful!

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By *w72Man
over a year ago

swansea

I'd rather have a last minute invite from someone I've been chatting with than be someone's second/third/fourth choice. Xx

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

WILTSHIRE

bit lost , why not just phone him to make sure he's on his way ?? connie x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 15 sweet - in the sure and certain knowledge that with only a raft of luck one may turn up!!!

Wendy C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's up to the standby, if you offer and they say ok, why not?

I've been a standby in case of no -show.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Now... don't jump on me for this but...

How would you feel if you were someone's "fallback", especially if there is going to be more than one?

"Please, take a ticket from the machine and wait inline until your number is called!"

Sounds like something only a woman could get away with lol!

Personally, we have NEVER had a no-show in 6 years, and I think that's down to our selection process.

This...I would be absolutely horrified if I was ttold I was somebody's 'fallback'....how awful! "

Me too, not being anyone's plan B

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By *w72Man
over a year ago

swansea


"bit lost , why not just phone him to make sure he's on his way ?? connie x"

I meet a lady once who seemed absolutely amazed I was definitely turning up. I don't understand people who arrange and don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In fairness if you're open and honest about the list then its personal choice as to whether you agree or not! But you do run the risk that they won't be fully committed to meeting either.....Hannah its sounds like too much hard work tbh I'm not organised enough anyways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to burst your bubble but she was taking the piss & wanted to see just how many of the moral brigade came out lol, like I said, it was fun while it lasted X

Hmmmm what next

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By *w72Man
over a year ago

swansea


"Sorry to burst your bubble but she was taking the piss & wanted to see just how many of the moral brigade came out lol, like I said, it was fun while it lasted X

Hmmmm what next "

????????

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

think we all need to lighten up ....its only my opinion mind ..xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I def wouldnt be a standby first choice or not at all I'm thinking to be a standby you must have trouble getting a meet and are prob desperate

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By *w72Man
over a year ago

swansea

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By *w72Man
over a year ago

swansea


"think we all need to lighten up ....its only my opinion mind ..xxx"

Hey babe, nothing wrong with your post. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with having a back up if everybody knows what's going on and agrees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had blokes offer to be a back up when I've said I had a meet lined up. I figured it's their choice rather than them being desperate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fook all wrong with having a backup I had 15 offers for backup for tonight because my meet hasn't been online for 21 hours ,so he has missed out now and another lucky guy gets to spend the whole night with me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when planning a meet ...how many would it be acceptable to have on a standby list just incase the timewaster curse strikes ??"

Depends on how many people's time you wish to waste should your meet turn up as planned!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"fook all wrong with having a backup I had 15 offers for backup for tonight because my meet hasn't been online for 21 hours ,so he has missed out now and another lucky guy gets to spend the whole night with me xx"

Lucky guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I back up that many times I should have a reversing bleeper !

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