FabSwingers.com forum: Help - Club first timer ??

By *icetimescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We've done plenty of playing over the years but never in a club or public environment.

Going to try going to Chameleons in Newport soon but I have a load of questions which I hope some people on here can help me with as I've no idea what to expect and don't really know how it all works

I'll be going with my husband, we're pretty laid back about who we play with

Soooo can you help with:

1. What day/night/time is best to go?

2. What sort of people go? Is it full of perfectly sculpted models, if so, I may have to wait a few months to go to the gym

or is it full of 90 year old pensioners?

3. What do you wear? Nothing? Bikini? Lingerie? Towel? What do guys wear?

4. How do you carry things around like condoms? Handbag?

5. Is it nice? As in....clean and tidy like a nice hotel or is it a bit more rough and ready?

6. What is the etiquette? Do you need to ask permission to enter a room/sauna/jacuzzi or do you just go in?

7. What is the etiquette with playing? Can you play anywhere or only in certain areas?

8. Would someone be offended if you choose not to play with them but then later they see you playing with someone else?

9. Is there a nice hotel in the area to stay at afterwards?

Anything else that you think we need to know would be really appreciated as it is a bit daunting

Thank you x

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Sent you a massive mail. Hope we help x

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We've done plenty of playing over the years but never in a club or public environment.

Going to try going to Chameleons in Newport soon but I have a load of questions which I hope some people on here can help me with as I've no idea what to expect and don't really know how it all works

I'll be going with my husband, we're pretty laid back about who we play with

Soooo can you help with:

1. What day/night/time is best to go?

2. What sort of people go? Is it full of perfectly sculpted models, if so, I may have to wait a few months to go to the gym

or is it full of 90 year old pensioners?

3. What do you wear? Nothing? Bikini? Lingerie? Towel? What do guys wear?

4. How do you carry things around like condoms? Handbag?

5. Is it nice? As in....clean and tidy like a nice hotel or is it a bit more rough and ready?

6. What is the etiquette? Do you need to ask permission to enter a room/sauna/jacuzzi or do you just go in?

7. What is the etiquette with playing? Can you play anywhere or only in certain areas?

8. Would someone be offended if you choose not to play with them but then later they see you playing with someone else?

9. Is there a nice hotel in the area to stay at afterwards?

Anything else that you think we need to know would be really appreciated as it is a bit daunting

Thank you x"

Best to go with a crowd, that's how I made the plunge x

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"1. What day/night/time is best to go?

It's only open to swingers on Friday night.

2. What sort of people go? Is it full of perfectly sculpted models, if so, I may have to wait a few months to go to the gym or is it full of 90 year old pensioners?

There's all ages and sizes, and all body types, so I wouldn't worry on that score.

3. What do you wear? Nothing? Bikini? Lingerie? Towel? What do guys wear?

It's a towel club, you get given a large towel to wrap around you.

However most ladies wear sexy undies, and some guys wear shorts.

4. How do you carry things around like condoms? Handbag?

Some have a small playbag they carry, some tuck small items into the elastic of their locker key band.

5. Is it nice? As in....clean and tidy like a nice hotel or is it a bit more rough and ready?

Just had a referb, so its clean and tidy, depending on what you imagine a swingers club to look like you will either be disappointed or impressed lol.

6. What is the etiquette? Do you need to ask permission to enter a room/sauna/jacuzzi or do you just go in?

Club etiquette is similar to real life, just like you wouldn't walk up to someone and grab hold of... well, anything, in the club its the same, at least until you have chatted a bit first lol!

Depending on what you are into there are areas to suit, you can play in open rooms and have an audience, or even invite some participation, you can get a lockable room for you and your chosen partner/s, there is a dungeon room, and a cinema, and gloryholes.

Certain areas are open to all, others (lockable rooms) are just that, if they are locked then someone wants privacy.

7. What is the etiquette with playing? Can you play anywhere or only in certain areas?

Playing happens everywhere, but the more bacchanalian orgies tend to happen away from the bar area.

8. Would someone be offended if you choose not to play with them but then later they see you playing with someone else?

If they do, thats their problem, not yours, not everyone will be suitable as a playmate for you, for whatever reason.

No, for whatever reason, means no.

9. Is there a nice hotel in the area to stay at afterwards?"

We have only stayed in the rooms Chameleons offer (there are 4), basic but perfectly suitable.

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By *icetimescouple OP Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions! Really appreciate it x

Now just need to pick a date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions! Really appreciate it x

Now just need to pick a date

2nd Jan would be a good one to try and there is a party being held by lil miss giggles - heaven and hell! So club will be full of fabsters

. See threads in forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my questions! Really appreciate it x

Now just need to pick a date

2nd Jan would be a good one to try and there is a party being held by lil miss giggles - heaven and hell! So club will be full of fabsters

. See threads in forum."
see ya all there, just ordered my wings

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By *wanseaguy68Man
over a year ago

Swansea

There is good info on that I wanted to know but didn't know how to put it, my partner and I a are thinking about it we have had loads of chats about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly would just take the plunge. Andy and I sat around for months talking about it. I just said to him one night come on we are going and that was that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope u take the plunge as that's why I started club invasions..so new people could experience the club scene with a load of others...

i hope u could make friday 2nd as it will b a good way 2 dip ur toes in so 2 speak...

if u want 2 message myself 2 ask anything ur more than welcome

im pleased 2 say I've taken a few people's club virginity and they loved every minute of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope u take the plunge as that's why I started club invasions..so new people could experience the club scene with a load of others...

i hope u could make friday 2nd as it will b a good way 2 dip ur toes in so 2 speak...

if u want 2 message myself 2 ask anything ur more than welcome

im pleased 2 say I've taken a few people's club virginity and they loved every minute of it

Mine being one of them! And yes I loved every minute of it! Can't deny I was nervous about it but Giggs answered 345456 questions from me and once I was in there I was fine

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By *andelion and BurdockCouple
over a year ago

CHEPSTOW

Most your queries answered above however last week the cinema was closed as part of the ongoing refurb. Most playrooms still to be done but almost all common areas now nice and new.

Go... meet.. chat.. and who knows

Jan 2nd would start year nice or any last Friday of the month party..all well attended.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go and mingle it's fun!

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