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By *ld skool swinger OP   Man
over a year ago

Abertillery

I wonder how this effects Dom / slave relationships .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this effects Dom / slave relationships .

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Dom/slave relationships are consensual!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder how this effects Dom / slave relationships .

Dom/slave relationships are consensual!!"

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umm it would probably only effect the worst kind of ‘Doms’. I.e those that think the D has complete control and power over the S.

A true D/S relationship both parties are aware the S is in control ultimately as it is her body and mind as she is choosing to give it over willingly to someone else.

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys


"Umm it would probably only effect the worst kind of ‘Doms’. I.e those that think the D has complete control and power over the S.

A true D/S relationship both parties are aware the S is in control ultimately as it is her body and mind as she is choosing to give it over willingly to someone else.

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Couldn't have put it any better myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Umm it would probably only effect the worst kind of ‘Doms’. I.e those that think the D has complete control and power over the S.

A true D/S relationship both parties are aware the S is in control ultimately as it is her body and mind as she is choosing to give it over willingly to someone else.

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By *iForNowXXMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I understand on the face of it consent seems to be the deciding factor. However in many cases the law sees it very differently. You cannot consent for someone to commit an illegal act. For example you can't consent for someone to commit criminal damage on your property, for someone to kill you or indeed for someone to harm you.

A case in point, many years ago, a group of guys from Cardiff were participating in extreme BDSM behaviour and were convicted of ABH and were even jailed. And that was under existing legislation.

I don't think we have seen the last of unintended consequences of these new laws.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

. . "I don't think we have seen the last of unintended consequences of these new laws."

There is an even bigger issue, one that this web-site along with many others may be trying to ignore . . compulsory "age verification" for ALL users of "adult content web-sites", no matter where in the world they may be.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/digital-economy-bill-part-3-online-pornography

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

Anyone who trusts our nanny government and the courts instructed by them wants their head examined. Brexit will just increase their ability to control the public.

We live in Spain 6 months a year and it's like a breath of fresh air compared to this grey drab island.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A woman being hit with paddles so hard it makes her arse purple and yellow with severe brusing is abh. It is out of the persons( giving or reciving) control wether or not a prossecution comes from it.

Same as a man who beats his wife it does not matter is she thinks its ok the police can still charge with the offence of ABH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't had any popcorn in a while.... Think it might be as good a time as any to do so now....

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By *iForNowXXMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"A woman being hit with paddles so hard it makes her arse purple and yellow with severe brusing is abh. It is out of the persons( giving or reciving) control wether or not a prossecution comes from it.

Same as a man who beats his wife it does not matter is she thinks its ok the police can still charge with the offence of ABH."

Exactly

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By *iForNowXXMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


" . . "I don't think we have seen the last of unintended consequences of these new laws."

There is an even bigger issue, one that this web-site along with many others may be trying to ignore . . compulsory "age verification" for ALL users of "adult content web-sites", no matter where in the world they may be.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/digital-economy-bill-part-3-online-pornography

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Hell, that's a lot of reading material. I am going to have to wait until someone does a general synopsis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A woman being hit with paddles so hard it makes her arse purple and yellow with severe brusing is abh. It is out of the persons( giving or reciving) control wether or not a prossecution comes from it.

Same as a man who beats his wife it does not matter is she thinks its ok the police can still charge with the offence of ABH."

Anybody beating an ass and leaving that level of bruising is probably inexperienced and indeed risking the chance of nerve damage.

I’m all for BDSM and informed consent. But there are too many ‘doms’ and Mr Grey wannabes out there. I’ve been caned and only left with a few lines. The dominant has to know where to strike, vary the strikes both in location and in force.

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

I've used the crop, flogger and paddle on my subs but only used a cane for light smacks on their sole of the feet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive alot of masochist friends, im abit of one myself. My bums been black and blue because Ive enjoyed it at the time. Depends if your warmed up first or a punishment spanking. Its still consent and I can safe word anytime. I love cane marks. They look amazing. I believe if im of sound mind the law has no right to judge my private sexual enjoyment or my Doms.

Yes theres bad ones out there. Only through the 8 yrs ive been a sub can I spot the fakes. X

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys

Masochist I prefer the term "painslut" lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Masochist I prefer the term "painslut" lol "

There is that too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How what? Affects Dom/slave relationships?

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By *embs socialsMan
over a year ago

haverfordwest


"I wonder how this effects Dom / slave relationships .

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It doesn’t it’s to stop bullying in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" . . Hell, that's a lot of reading material. I am going to have to wait until someone does a general synopsis. "

Well, it's maybe only weeks or a month or two away, it's been known about and discussed by activists for almost TWO YEARS . . yet there isn't ONE WORD about it on this web-site which, if things go very badly, will simply disappear.

So . . you would think they would have something about it for their members to read, wouldn't you?

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By *efByOrgasmsMan
over a year ago

Heads of the Valleys


"Masochist I prefer the term "painslut" lol

There is that too lol "

High five

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By *iForNowXXMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


" . . Hell, that's a lot of reading material. I am going to have to wait until someone does a general synopsis.

Well, it's maybe only weeks or a month or two away, it's been known about and discussed by activists for almost TWO YEARS . . yet there isn't ONE WORD about it on this web-site which, if things go very badly, will simply disappear.

So . . you would think they would have something about it for their members to read, wouldn't you? "

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