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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anybody else sick of unverified members messaging them?

Like surely being a member over a year and not met or been verified... Not a timewaster at all eh?

I know you can block unverified members but then new members are mostly genuine and then that misses chance to get to know them.

I think Fab should mass delete anybody who's not met in a year.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

It would be easier if you could filter them out separately instead of just newbies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It would be easier if you could filter them out separately instead of just newbies"

Yes like block fakes/timewasters button haha.

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

Just looked you can block unverified so just use that if they've not had anything after a certain time of being on site.

Some get called timewasters just for saying no thank you lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about the people who generally can't meet because of time restrictions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met lots off people on here.but i dont want them to verified me thats my choice.and it dont mean iam a timewaster.its just my choice like the rest off the people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anybody else sick of unverified members messaging them?

Like surely being a member over a year and not met or been verified... Not a timewaster at all eh?

I know you can block unverified members but then new members are mostly genuine and then that misses chance to get to know them.

I think Fab should mass delete anybody who's not met in a year.

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Not everyone wants to show verification's or even wants them. Just because they dont have a verification, how do you know that they haven't met anyone and are timewasters or fakes? There are plenty of verified profiles that are fakes and timewasters.

There are methods and ways to stop those you dont like from contacting you.

Use the filters to block unverifieds and contact those that you like the look of, so they can get around your blocks.

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By *iJane4funCouple
over a year ago

South, Wales

We wouldnt meet anyone unless they had some very good verifications - no matter how good they looked.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We wouldnt meet anyone unless they had some very good verifications - no matter how good they looked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all manage of meets and accounts to suite our own needs.

I use the block button if they are not interested, I use filters for not interested in single men, as pointed out, when you do a search they are sorted by last login, so once you get to say 1 month, 3 months etc then they are unlikely to be on the site...

Also started blocking those who is not looking for people my age.

The block is not used nasty, just as a super filter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all been newbies once

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to say, in defence of newbies, I've met a couple in recent months, some have been but a couple have been very, very nice & at least 2 I'm happy to be meeting again. Yep we were all newbies once, nope they're not all twats & yep the block button is under used as a super filter, the site would be a better place if we just routinely blocked those we have no intention of meeting X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all been newbies once "

I've met some super newbies and more swayed to arrange a meet with a newbie rather than somebody that's been on here over a year and not met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would love to meet and get verified but you need that first meet first.

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By *B1962Man
over a year ago

Pontarddulais

Big Catch-22 especially for newbie single males. Hard to meet without verifications, hard to get verifications without meets.

It doesn't help matters if those who you do eventually meet agree to post a verification then do not. Has happened to me twice recently. So I'm very grateful to the kind Fabbers who have met me, posted generous veris, and then invited me back for more...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like what was said above....

we were all new once and it is hard...

that why I started the singles only social 2 give the newbies a chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like what was said above....

we were all new once and it is hard...

that why I started the singles only social 2 give the newbies a chance

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Your such a star it's so hard to get started on here sometimes and with out your socials most men wouldn't get a chance

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By *itwelshladMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

It's a catch 22 you can't get veris without meeting and it's hard to get a meet without veris... And I live too far away from most of the socials

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