FabSwingers.com forum: nervous

By *wanseaguy68 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Good morning all, my partner and I want to go to a swingers club but we are very nervous about as we have not been to one we won't know anyone and we don't really know what to expect and what the dress code is.also do we have to be invited is there a membership. Any advice would be very much appreciated .

Thanks.

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By *onjaneCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Hi there. We felt the same, I think everyone is initially. Our first was the Swansea social, nothing happens at the venue, it's just a drink and getting to know like-minded people. We had a lovely time, and the hosts are fab. It was a perfect introduction to the swinging scene for us. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jonjane are right goto a social first no pressure to do anything just meet people

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By *wanseaguy68 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

Thanks for the info.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no pressure to do anything at a swinging club either x

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By *uddsWoman
over a year ago

st athans

"There is no pressure to do anything at a swinging club either x"

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By *wanseaguy68 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

OK thanks very much we are talking about all the time and it's just time we did something about it.

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By *onjaneCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

your partly right there! No pressure, but pick the wrong venue and you get pestered by over subscribed single guys, it's not fun. We've only been to one and it was a nightmare, and we left early.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you'll find she's 100% right there, however if anyone tries to pressure you there are always staff present who will take action if informed

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By *wanseaguy68 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

I get the impressions that there are lots of single guys there that's the bit I don't think I can handle we are looking for some fun but at our pace .

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By *onjaneCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

Everywhere we went there was a row of guys behind us, it was like a blooming conga lol. We did mention it to one of the staff, they told them once or twice, and they said for Jon to be more assertive and tell them to f.off. Too many single guys...no fun.

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By *wanseaguy68 OP Man
over a year ago

Swansea

That's the thing it's not about telling people to f off its about fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everywhere we went there was a row of guys behind us, it was like a blooming conga lol. We did mention it to one of the staff, they told them once or twice, and they said for Jon to be more assertive and tell them to f.off. Too many single guys...no fun."

I go as a single all the time and to b fair I never have any trouble off any of the single guys...

all u need 2 do is say no thanks 2 them and they leave u alone...

and if the op wants to message myself I do a lot of club invasions which was started for people who didn't want 2 go 2 a club on there own and alot of people have come on one of these and really enjoyed them

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple
over a year ago

Neverland

Some guys prey on newbies its not fun sometimes but you do get used to it and get away from them.

We are going to bridgend social saturday and are excited, its our first social x

Mrs

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